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Course 2: Becoming a 7 Cups Leader - (Discussion #3) The Detriments of Gossip
Heather225 August 24th, 2020
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Our next objective in this course is to master effective communication skills for healthy interpersonal and professional relationships.

Don't Gossip - Deepstash

Please watch this video
1. Why is gossiping bad?
2. List a statement you learned from this video to stop gossiping in the replies!
3. Please reply to 3 of your peers  in this thread with encouraging or supportive words!

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Kindwords2000 January 7th, 2022
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@Mankka


Very true, well done

TheRusticMystic74 March 30th, 2022
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@Mankka



Absolutely i was looking for that word 'malice' it really speaks about the intent behind a gossip. Well done.

PhoenixTears5972 June 21st, 2022
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@Mankka

Can't agree more ! 🙌

Immakindlistener22 December 16th, 2022
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@Mankka

Yes you’re absolutely right. gossip is malicious. Thanks for that.

starryCandy6123 December 13th, 2023
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@Mankka

I love this reply, taking one sided view, 

KindnessMatters2020 August 24th, 2020
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@Heather225

Gossiping is bad because it is toxic and it can create an environment of distrust and disrespect not only for others, but for yourself as well if you are associated with spreading rumours and adding to the gossip.

To stop gossiping, I liked the suggestion in the video to say "I don't know enough about the situation to comment", but I also really support and appreciate the suggestion to say something positive about the person being gossiped about. I think injecting something positive brings a different vibe to the conversation and is a clear indication that you you don't condone gossiping.

CheeryMango August 24th, 2020
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@KindnessMatters2020

It always seems impossible until it is done

Mankka August 24th, 2020
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@KindnessMatters2020

be walking only on the road, a straight towards the stars. I thank you for being a supporter and a helper. I value your work highly.mosolyog

CheeryMango August 24th, 2020
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@KindnessMatters2020

It always seems impossible until it is done

Tyedyedbutterfly65 August 24th, 2020
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@KindnessMatters2020yes Very True loss of trust !!! yes it sure can do that ! Great replies you shared !heart

Yourstruly2000 August 24th, 2020
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@KindnessMatters2020 I totally agree with your insight regarding this, we are on the same page about it!! Hey

MistyMagic August 25th, 2020
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@KindnessMatters2020 I like that statement "I don't know enough about the situation to comment", Thanks for highlighting it!

Listening - One Step At A Time!

bookworm274 August 28th, 2020
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@KindnessMatters2020

Gossiping is bad because it is toxic and it can create an environment of distrust and disrespect.

I really like this sentence that you have written! Its so true, gossiping can create a really toxic environment. I agree with your commment on how to avoid gossiping by stating something postitive about the person. I feel that people sometimes rely on the negatives and dont focus on all of the postitive qualities that are there.

August 29th, 2020
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@bookworm274

Totally agree with those letters in bold.

bookworm274 September 7th, 2020
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@DonaldDraper

I know they're great! The original person wrote them, I was just commenting on them.

Petrichor2000 September 7th, 2020
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@bookworm274 I agree with you🤗

bookworm274 September 7th, 2020
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@Petrichor2000

Thanks 😊

mamtasha22 May 11th, 2021
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@bookworm274

I agree Book

Enbyowl May 16th, 2021
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Yes 100%

Daf8 August 29th, 2020
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@KindnessMatters2020

heart I agree! Thank you for this response. heart

LittleBirdie30 September 1st, 2020
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@KindnessMatters2020 I agree with your statement that gossiping can create distrust and can create more negative relationships!

Helpingsoul98 September 3rd, 2020
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@KindnessMatters2020

absolutely!

CompassionateDreamer8522 September 10th, 2020
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@KindnessMatters2020 What a great takeaway from that video - the statement about "I don't know enough about the situation". That's definitely something to keep in your pocket just in case!

Endure777 September 14th, 2020
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@KindnessMatters2020

Gossiping is VERY toxic. Good job!

shiningSound31 September 14th, 2020
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@KindnessMatters2020

Very wonderful answer, Kindness! I wish you the best in your journey ahead!

InvaderStitch September 14th, 2020
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@KindnessMatters2020

Love the name, and it's very fitting for this topic! I agree, saying something kind is a great alternative.

September 18th, 2020
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I liked the way you said. What gossip ing. Is @KindnessMatters2020

dancingMoment7201 September 28th, 2020
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@KindnessMatters2020

yes, I would stand up for the person who was gossiped about too.

TogetherForeverAlways October 1st, 2020
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@KindnessMatters2020

Very insightful words, thanks for sharing your vision with us!

peacefulWarrior10 October 2nd, 2020
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@KindnessMatters2020

Agree with you when you say injecting some positivity clearly hints that we're not advocating the gossip.

KatePersephone October 3rd, 2020
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@KindnessMatters2020 these statements are so true.

YoungMonastic007 October 11th, 2020
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@KindnessMatters2020

Perfect, a well thought and written.

Dinohorus November 14th, 2020
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@KindnessMatters2020

I really appreciated your complete and well thought out answer!

wanjiku November 30th, 2020
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@KindnessMatters2020 lets spread kindness and positivity. well said

beautifulSeal9714 January 17th, 2021
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@KindnessMatters2020

That's nice :)

Kieran000 March 7th, 2021
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@KindnessMatters2020

totally agree!

gigantCloud92 March 8th, 2021
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@KindnessMatters2020

Well Said!

mamtasha22 May 11th, 2021
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@KindnessMatters2020

Yes gossiping definitely causes mistrust

Brinaa101 June 22nd, 2021
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@KindnessMatters2020

Brinaa101 June 22nd, 2021
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@KindnessMatters2020

I agree! Adding positivity can help the situation!

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