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I am unable to take on new chats from members right now. Please understand. I will be able to soon. So stay tuned! 




"I am glad you have found me here at 7 Cups! I am happy to listen to you on many topics. I have experience in lots of different areas - anxiety, depression, and mental illness, families, and relationships, love, school, college, or work-related problems, financial stress, healthy living, food, and special diets, I can also offer support for chronic pain, illness, and disabilities. I am part of both the adult and the teen listening team, (and yes I can still remember being a teen lol) and I also offer long-term support to those that I can and who are in need.

If I am not online then you are welcome to leave me a message -  but please tell me what you want to talk about so we can get off to a flying start. I will get back to you when I am next able, but please bear in mind that I get a lot of messages and I will reply to the most urgent first so if you just say hi, do you really just want a hi back?


If you are a teen turning 18 soon then you can apply for one of the Teen Transitioning Team to reach out and support you through the transition from the teen side to the 18+ adult side.  The form is here ~~~> https://bit.ly/7CupsTTM

If you have any feedback or ideas for the Disability Support Community then please fill out this form ~~> https://forms.gle/EJN1SX74mo6swPwN6 


At weekends my response will be slower as that is usually my time off from 7 Cups, and I may not respond to any PMs or new requests till Monday. I  hope you understand that. We all need time for ourselves to recharge our batteries and relax. 

ONE STEP AT A TIME
"We all have different-sized footsteps that we leave behind on our journey through life.
Sometimes we can change the size of our footsteps, the imprint, the impact, the direction.
Sometimes our footsteps land on rock and they do not show, or they land on sand and stay for a while,
Other times they get washed away by massive oceans or powerful waves.
But each and every footstep is important in so many ways.
Ways that we may not even know about.
Watch your step, think about your steps, plan your next step, and the rest will follow." 
Listening ... one step at a time


Quote of Acceptance
When we don't accept an undesired event, it becomes Anger,
When we accept it, it becomes tolerance.





When we don't accept uncertainty, it becomes fear,
When we accept it, it becomes an adventure, 
When we don't accept other's bad behavior toward us, it becomes hatred,
When we accept it, it becomes forgiveness.
When we don't accept other's success, it becomes jealousy
When we accept it, it becomes an inspiration.
Acceptance is the key to handling life well !!


Butterflies are a symbol of hope that we can all change from a small brown grub into a beautiful amazing butterfly! One step at a time!

"Those who never change their minds, never change anything!" (Winston S. Churchill)







"Prepare for the worst, but hope for the best!"  (B. Disraeli)

Pearls are a great symbol of the grace we create, for the oyster creates its greatest work of art from an irritant.


























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Screen? or No Screen?
Parenting & Pregnancy / by MistyMagic
Last post
 January 13th
...See more Screen time for babies and young children! This is a topic that sparks a lot of debate among parents, caregivers, and experts. It's hard to avoid screens entirely in today’s world, but the key is finding a balance.  I wanted to discuss this with you all to see what you think, whether you are a parent-to-be, a parent or grandparent, or even great grand-parent, or if you are just someone that came upon this post and want to contribute - this is your world too - so let’s hear what you think! Today, screens are everywhere, watch, smartphone, tablet, laptop, desktop, tv, or cinema we see and use screen technology. But, where should we be starting (or not starting) with babies and young children? We know that screen time can be used as:- a learning tool ❌ or ✅ a baby minder? ❌ or ✅ a soothing influence❌ or ✅ What else do you, or will you use it for? Let’s dive into the pros and cons with some real-life examples to make it relatable. ------------------------- Pros of Screen Time * Educational Content Screens can be a great tool for learning if used wisely. Apps and shows designed for young children, like "Sesame Street" or interactive apps like Khan Academy Kids, can teach early literacy, numeracy, or even emotional skills. For example, a 2-year-old might learn to recognize shapes and colors by watching a show like Bluey but does that excite them and make them hyperactive after watching? * Engaging and Fun Screens are entertaining, which can give parents a much-needed breather. Let’s be real—sometimes, you just need 20 minutes to cook dinner or answer an important email, and letting your toddler watch the tv can make that happen. * Exposure to Language For bilingual households, screen time can expose kids to a second language. Watching cartoons in Spanish or French can help them pick up new words in a fun way. A 3-year-old who watches shows in multiple languages might surprise you with phrases they’ve learned! * Bonding Opportunity Watching a family movie or an educational video together can be a bonding experience. For instance, sitting with your pre-schooler to watch Dora the Explorer and singing along can spark fun conversations and shared laughs. Do you agree with these? ------------------------- Cons of Screen Time * Impact on Development Too much screen time can take away from essential activities like playing, exploring, and interacting face-to-face with others. A child glued to a tablet might miss out on hands-on play, like building blocks or finger painting, which are crucial for motor skills and creativity. * Sleep Disruption Screens, especially before bed, can interfere with sleep. The blue light emitted can mess with melatonin production. For example, a toddler who watches videos on an iPad at night might struggle to fall asleep, leading to crankiness the next day. * Addictive Nature Some apps and videos are designed to keep kids hooked. If you’ve ever tried to take a phone away from a screaming toddler mid-YouTube video, you know the struggle is real. This dependency can make it harder for kids to entertain themselves without screens. * Limited Attention Span Fast-paced shows can condition kids to expect constant stimulation, which might affect their ability to focus on slower activities, like reading books. A pre-schooler used to flashy cartoon edits might lose interest in a quiet puzzle or story time. Do you agree with these? ------------------------- Finding the Balance Experts often recommend avoiding screen time entirely for kids under 18 months (except for video calls) and limiting it to an hour or less per day for children aged 2-5.  Link here [https://www.mykidsvision.org/knowledge-centre/screen-time-for-babies-and-toddlers-what-is-ok] But let’s face it, real life doesn’t always match the guidelines! Here are some tips for balance: * Interactive Over Passive: Choose apps or shows that encourage interaction. For example, a game that asks kids to match shapes is better than mindlessly scrolling through videos. * Co-Viewing: Watch with your child when you can. Point things out, ask questions, and make it a learning moment. "Look, that’s a triangle! Can you find another triangle?" * Tech-Free Zones: Create screen-free times, like during meals or an hour before bedtime, to encourage other types of play and bonding. * Set an Example: Kids mirror what they see. If you're always on your phone, they'll want to be too. Try putting your device down when spending time together. * Choose a slower speed setting like 90%so that the sound is calmer and easier to understand, and the words are more slowly pronounced can really help with speech recognition. * Using an anti-glare anti-UV screen cover can really help protect eyes. We all think about UV sunscreen and to protect our eyes we can use sun hats and sunglasses, but we allow our eyes to look at screens that may also produce UV light. So it makes sense to check and protect. ------------------------- Of course - Screen time is not inherently good or bad—it’s all about how it’s used. A little Paw Patrol here and there probably isn’t going to hurt, but replacing free play, family interaction, or outdoor time with screens could have long-term effects. The best approach is moderation and making sure screens are just one small piece of your child’s day. Now let’s find out what you watch and use on your screens for your baby or toddler. Are you a fan of a program that is calming or educational? Share with us! What are your views on screens for the younger generations?
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Braille! - January is World Braille Month!
Disability Support / by MistyMagic
Last post
 January 13th
...See more January is World Braille month Louis Braille was born on January 4, 1809 and this year we celebrate his 206th birthday!   Born in Coupvray, France, Louis became blind at the age of 3 while playing with tools in his father’s shop.  When he was 10, he was sent to the school for the blind in Paris, but there were very few books available at that time for people who were blind.  Inspired by a system of tactile writing created by French army captain Charles Barbier, Louis Braille spent two years trying to simplify and perfect the code.  When he was 15, the new code was ready, and was easier to learn and quicker to read. It took many years before the Braille code was adopted widely.  The first book in braille was published in 1827 and in 1878, the World Congress for the Blind voted to make Braille the system of reading and writing for people worldwide who are blind.  There ensued a War of the Dots and it was not until 1932 that Standard English Braille was established for all English-speaking countries. Braille is a tactile writing system used by individuals who are visually impaired or blind. The system enables users to read and write through touch, empowering them to access information independently. Structure of Braille Braille is based on a matrix of six raised dots arranged in a rectangular block called a "cell," with two columns and three rows. Each cell represents a character, letter, number, or punctuation mark. The dots are numbered 1 through 6: 1  4 2  5 3  6 By raising specific combinations of these dots, different characters can be formed. For example: * The letter "A" is represented by a single raised dot in position 1. * The letter "B" uses dots 1 and 2. * Numbers, capital letters, and special characters are indicated by specific prefixes. Types of Braille * Grade 1 Braille: A basic system where each Braille cell corresponds to a single letter, number, or punctuation mark. It is typically used by beginners. * Grade 2 Braille: Includes contractions and abbreviations for common words or letter groups, making reading and writing faster and more efficient. * Grade 3 Braille: An advanced system used for shorthand, often in personal notes or informal writing. Applications of Braille Braille is used in various formats and devices to enhance accessibility: * Books and Documents: Printed Braille materials are essential for education and leisure. * Labels and Signage: Many elevators, ATMs, and public spaces include Braille signage to  * provide information. * Digital Braille Devices: Refreshable Braille displays and notetakers allow users to access digital content, including emails, websites, and e-books, through tactile feedback. Importance of Braille Braille is vital for literacy and independence among people who are blind. While audio technology is increasingly available (such as screen readers), Braille remains indispensable for developing spelling, grammar, and tactile literacy skills. It ensures access to a wide range of fields, from education to employment. Challenges and Advancements Challenges include the high cost of producing Braille materials and devices, as well as limited availability in some regions. However, advances in technology, such as affordable refreshable Braille displays, are helping to bridge this gap. Braille's impact extends beyond language; it is a tool of empowerment, inclusion, and equality, ensuring that individuals who are blind can fully participate in society. Read more about the story of Louis Braille [http://www.pathstoliteracy.org/story-louis-braille]. Learn the song for celebrating Louis Braille’s birthday! [https://www.pathstoliteracy.org/resource/celebration-ideas-happy-birthday-louis-braille/] Play the Louis Braille Timeline Game [https://www.pathstoliteracy.org/louis-braille-timeline-game/]. Written as part of the Disability Support Community Articles. More can be found here  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/ArticlesResourcesConditionSpecificInformation_458/ArticlesResourcesAlphabeticList_233701/] If you have a condition or 'Awareness Campaign' that you feel we should recognise please message either myself @MistyMagic [https://www.7cups.com/@MistyMagic] (teens and adults) or @AffyAvo  [https://www.7cups.com/@AffyAvo](adults)
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Saying Goodnight to 2024! and Good Morning to 2025!
Disability Support / by MistyMagic
Last post
 January 5th
...See more Saying Goodbye to 2024 and Hello to 2025! Disability Support Community Yearly Review! Over the past year I have had the privilege to hold the roles of Community Mentor Leader (leading the forums), and Group Support Mentor, (leading the rooms) of the Disability Community. We have grown from strength to strength. We have covered many topics and had many discussions, promoted many Awareness Days, as well as interviewed many different people about their disability or illness. Team - We are a small Team and I would like to recognise @AffyAvo as our Community Mentor who has been a pleasure to work with. Also @compassionateMoon4024 joined us as a Room Supporter.  We are always actively seeking more people to join our Team, member or listener, so please ask us if you are interested or for more information please read more about us here:- Join Our Team! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/CommunitySpace_227/JoinTheDisabilitySupportCommunityTeam_325009/] Interviews - We are looking for more people to be interviewed about their disability or condition and how it affects their life so that others may learn more. Feel free to pm myself https://www.7cups.com/@MistyMagic [https://www.7cups.com/@MistyMagic]  or https://www.7cups.com/@AffyAvo [https://www.7cups.com/@MistyMagic] or fill in our form here https://forms.gle/Hcgt979FuFLnL4gy7 [https://forms.gle/Hcgt979FuFLnL4gy7]  The interviews are anonymous for listeners and can be anonymous for members too if you do not wish to be recognised. It is a fun experience so please join in. Here is a list of some of the content we have posted so far to help support those with disabilities and to raise awareness and understanding of many conditions:- Living with Multiple Sclerosis [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/ArticlesResourcesConditionSpecificInformation_458/InterviewDiariesGrabaCuppaandLearnaboutMultipleSclerosis_325500/] Living with Cerebral Palsy [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/DisabilityDiary_2664/InterviewDiariesLivingwithCerebralPalsy_326155/] Living with Meniere's Disease [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/DisabilityDiary_2664/LivingWithMenieresDisease_327897/] Living with CFS/ME [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/DisabilityDiary_2664/InterviewLivingwithCFS_328938/] Severe ME [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/PhysicalDisabilities_261/SevereMEAwarenessDay_334207/] Living with RA (Rheumatoid Arthritis) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/InterviewsDiaries_2664/InterviewDiariesLivingwithRA_333251/?post=3610799] Being a wheelchair user [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/InterviewsDiaries_2664/InterviewDiariesBeingaWheelchairuser_336321/?post=3653342] Living with hED and POTS [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/InterviewsDiaries_2664/InterviewLivingwithhEDSandPOTS_336838/?post=3659993] HAE Raising Awareness [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/ArticlesResourcesConditionSpecificInformation_458/HAEAwarenessDay2024_327339/] Boom Or Bust [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/ArticlesResourcesConditionSpecificInformation_458/BoomorBustAllaboutpacing_327034/] - Breaking through pain! Learning About Self-Advocacy [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/ArticlesResourcesConditionSpecificInformation_458/SelfAdvocacy_332639/] Meditation and Self-care [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/ArticlesResourcesConditionSpecificInformation_458/MeditationandSelfCare_337264/] Cataract Awareness [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/ArticlesResourcesConditionSpecificInformation_458/CataractAwareness_334738/?post=3633552] - Learn more Finding Serenity within Disability [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/ArticlesResourcesConditionSpecificInformation_458/FindingSerenityusingCourageandWisdom_334315/] Sign Languages [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/ArticlesResourcesConditionSpecificInformation_458/AllAboutSignLanguages_337087/] 2024 Paralympics! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/ArticlesResourcesConditionSpecificInformation_458/ParalympicsParis2024_335558/?post=3643787] World Mental Health Day [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/ArticlesResourcesConditionSpecificInformation_458/WorldMentalHealthDay_338207/?post=3679866] and Disabilities Learning Disabilities [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/ArticlesResourcesConditionSpecificInformation_458/The7typesoflearningdisabilities_338754/] Digital Awareness [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/CommunitySpace_227/DigitalAccessibilityAwarenessDay_329154/?post=3556386] for Disability Inclusive Trick or Treating [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/CommunitySpace_227/InclusiveTrickorTreating_339078/] Tips About Waiting For Surgery [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/ArticlesResourcesConditionSpecificInformation_458/WaitingForSurgeryTipsandinformation_339526/] CRPS -Complex Regional Pain Syndrome [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/ArticlesResourcesConditionSpecificInformation_458/CRPSWhatisComplexRegionalPainSyndrome_339787/] Epilepsy - Let’s talk [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/ArticlesResourcesConditionSpecificInformation_458/WhatisEpilepsy_340034/] Asthma - Learn more [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/CommunitySpace_227/WorldAsthmaDay_328693/] Disability and Mental Health [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/ArticlesResourcesConditionSpecificInformation_458/MentalHealthandDisabilities_328550/?post=3546967] Are there topics or Awareness Days that you would like us to cover? Let us know on this form! https://forms.gle/Hcgt979FuFLnL4gy7 [https://forms.gle/Hcgt979FuFLnL4gy7]  2024 has been a long year for many of us so what are you looking forward to in 2025?
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What to Expect When You're Expecting!
Parenting & Pregnancy / by MistyMagic
Last post
 December 21st, 2024
...See more What to Expect When You're Expecting: Tips and Resources Whether you're pregnant, planning to be, or supporting someone who is, it’s an exciting (and sometimes overwhelming) journey. Here's a basic guide to what you can expect and helpful links to get you started. Share with us your journey and any tips or thoughts you have on pregnancy and parenting! ------------------------- General Tips for Expectant Parents 1.  Schedule Prenatal Care * Once you have had a positive pregnancy test or think you may be pregnant then that is the time to make an appointment with your doctor, as soon as possible. They can be your first point of call for confidential and professional care and advice. * Regular doctor visits ensure that your baby is growing properly and allows you to discuss plans, options and concerns. * Tests to expect: * Ultrasounds (to monitor growth and anatomy) * Blood and urine tests * Glucose screening (to check for gestational diabetes) 2. Take Care of Your Health * Nutrition: Focus on a balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, whole grains, and prenatal vitamins (especially folic acid and iron). * Avoid: Alcohol, smoking, excessive caffeine, and unpasteurized foods. * Exercise: Light to moderate exercises like walking, swimming, or prenatal yoga can help with stamina, mood, and delivery preparation. * Hydration: Drink plenty of water daily to stay hydrated. 3. Learn About Labour and Delivery * Research options like vaginal birth, caesarean section, or water birth. * Take prenatal classes to prepare for labour, delivery, and postpartum care. 4. Prepare Emotionally * Hormonal changes can lead to mood swings; don't hesitate to seek help if you feel persistently anxious or depressed (possible signs of prenatal depression). * Involve your partner or support system in the journey—attend appointments and classes together. 5. Plan for Postpartum Life * Research breastfeeding basics and consider lactation consultant resources if needed. * Stock up on essentials: diapers, baby clothes, and postpartum care supplies for you. 6. Stay Informed * Learn about pregnancy stages: trimesters, fetal development, and common symptoms like nausea or swelling. * Keep an open line of communication with your doctor for any concerns. ------------------------- Helpful Resources and Links * General Pregnancy Guidance * What to Expect (Official Site) [https://www.whattoexpect.com/] * March of Dimes - Pregnancy [https://r.search.yahoo.com/_ylt=AwrkLlPEDWdnBwIAAokM34lQ;_ylu=Y29sbwNpcjIEcG9zAzEEdnRpZAMEc2VjA3Ny/RV=2/RE=1736016580/RO=10/RU=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.marchofdimes.org%2Ffind-support%2Ftopics%2Fpregnancy/RK=2/RS=XcMs1vVhA7DkRk5niTTk1yLMlLQ-] * Nutrition During Pregnancy * Mayo Clinic - Nutrition and Weight Gain During Pregnancy [https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle] * Prenatal Classes * Lamaze International [https://www.lamaze.org/] * BabyCenter - Prenatal Classes Overview [https://www.babycenter.com/] * Labor and Delivery Preparation * The Bump - Birth Plan Template [https://r.search.yahoo.com/_ylt=AwrkOYxnDWdnHAIAl0IM34lQ;_ylu=Y29sbwNpcjIEcG9zAzEEdnRpZAMEc2VjA3Ny/RV=2/RE=1736016488/RO=10/RU=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.thebump.com%2Fa%2Ftool-birth-plan/RK=2/RS=kv8SKtjL7n6puIQ2vsiSuweVbp4-] * Childbirth Connection - Labor Comfort Measures [https://r.search.yahoo.com/_ylt=Awr.oGmUDWdnIwIA.1kM34lQ;_ylu=Y29sbwNpcjIEcG9zAzMEdnRpZAMEc2VjA3Ny/RV=2/RE=1736016532/RO=10/RU=https%3A%2F%2Fnationalpartnership.org%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2F2023%2F02%2Fcomfort-in-labor-simkin.pdf/RK=2/RS=6y1YrO1Esb41Rf7nAXYYgZYraDc-] * Postpartum Support * Postpartum Support International [https://www.postpartum.net/] * KellyMom - Breastfeeding Resource [https://kellymom.com/] * Apps to Track Pregnancy (easy to google lots of different apps)) * Ovia Pregnancy Tracker [https://r.search.yahoo.com/_ylt=AwrLAC27D2dn6wEAp78M34lQ;_ylu=Y29sbwNpcjIEcG9zAzEEdnRpZAMEc2VjA3Ny/RV=2/RE=1736017083/RO=10/RU=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.oviahealth.com%2Fpregnancy-app%2F/RK=2/RS=Aq7Aq.9x_6NXd38lIw52BrAnmK8-] * The Bump * BabyCenter [https://r.search.yahoo.com/_ylt=AwrkMR7ZD2dnDAIAlJQM34lQ;_ylu=Y29sbwNpcjIEcG9zAzEEdnRpZAMEc2VjA3Ny/RV=2/RE=1736017114/RO=10/RU=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.babycentre.co.uk%2F/RK=2/RS=Xb.kKMywOuMUgSCwVN.fkHFxpmc-]
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Festive Greetings!
Disability Support / by MistyMagic
Last post
 December 26th
...See more Hey everyone! Festive Season's Greetings! On behalf of the Disability Support Community Team @MistyMagic, @AffyAvo and @compassionateMoon4024  I just wanted to send to you all, members and listeners, lots of warm cheer, fleecy blankets, hot drinks and comforting fun for this festive season. Does the prospect of the next week send you into a turmoil, or do you love all the lights and Christmas spirit? Is your life feeling like A, B, or C? and Share with us your thoughts and wishes for 2025! A. Everything just falls apart at this time of year and seems out to get you?  B. It is hard work but fun! C. I love it all! Yayyyyyyy! Fun! Fun! Fun!🎄🎄   . . . for being party of our Community, for posting and replying in the forums, having 1-1 conversations and joining in with the chat and discussions in the Disability Support room 💛💙 💚
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IDPWD - International Day of People With Disabilites!
Disability Support / by MistyMagic
Last post
 December 4th, 2024
...See more To raise awareness of the International Day Of People With Disabilities I thought it might be interesting to start a discussion on what the definition of 'disability' is thought of across the world. Each country seems to have their own definition. So, what do you think? What does your country think? Do you agree or disagree? How does it make you feel? Happy? Annoyed? Upset? Hopeful? Share with us! The definition of "disability" varies across countries and cultures, reflecting diverse legal, social, and cultural frameworks. Below are some perspectives on how disability is understood and defined in different contexts: ------------------------- 1. International Definition * United Nations (UN) Convention on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities (CRPD): [https://r.search.yahoo.com/_ylt=AwrkgDqb5E5n7wEAuOIM34lQ;_ylu=Y29sbwNpcjIEcG9zAzIEdnRpZAMEc2VjA3Nj/RV=2/RE=1734433180/RO=10/RU=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.equalityhumanrights.com%2Four-work%2Four-human-rights-work%2Fmonitoring-and-promoting-un-treaties%2Fun-convention-rights-persons/RK=2/RS=.awcOXU6HyeO3OjGE1yqjfkURnQ-] The CRPD defines disability as including "long-term physical, mental, intellectual, or sensory impairments which, in interaction with various barriers, may hinder full and effective participation in society on an equal basis with others." This definition emphasizes a social model of disability, focusing on the interaction between impairments and societal barriers. ------------------------- 2. Western Countries * United States: Under the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA), a disability is defined as "a physical or mental impairment that substantially limits one or more major life activities." This definition blends the medical model (focus on individual impairments) and the social model (consideration of barriers). * European Union (EU): In the EU, disability is often viewed through the social model, but definitions vary by country. For example: * In the UK, the Equality Act 2010 defines disability as "a physical or mental impairment that has a substantial and long-term negative effect on a person's ability to do normal daily activities."  * In Germany, definitions often align with the social insurance model, emphasizing medical diagnoses in relation to work capability. ------------------------- 3. Non-Western Countries * China: Disability is defined primarily through the medical model and is regulated by the Law on the Protection of Disabled Persons. It includes physical, intellectual, and sensory impairments but often focuses on the functionality of individuals in specific roles. * India: The Rights of Persons with Disabilities Act, 2016 defines disability broadly, listing 21 conditions, including mental illness and specific learning disabilities. It adopts a mix of the social and medical models, aiming for inclusivity. ------------------------- 4. Indigenous and Traditional Cultures * In some indigenous cultures, disability may not be viewed as an impairment but as a unique difference or even a spiritual condition. * Native American tribes sometimes regard disability as a natural variation within the community, not stigmatized. * In African contexts, cultural views on disability vary widely. Some communities see it as a consequence of spiritual or ancestral factors, while others interpret it as a natural part of human diversity. ------------------------- 5. Sociocultural Dimensions * Japan: Disability is defined through both medical and societal frameworks. Social perceptions are influenced by traditional beliefs such as "gaman" (perseverance), leading to a focus on overcoming barriers rather than accommodations. * Middle Eastern Countries: Islamic traditions often emphasize community responsibility and care for individuals with disabilities. Definitions of disability are shaped by religious principles and the medical model. ------------------------- Summary While there is increasing global alignment towards the social model of disability (as promoted by the CRPD), interpretations remain influenced by local legal systems, cultural norms, and historical contexts. These differences underscore the importance of understanding disability within specific cultural and regional frameworks to ensure effective policies and inclusive practices. https://idpwd.org/ [https://idpwd.org/]  Written as part of the Disability Support Community Articles. More infoposts can be found  [https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/postural-tachycardia-syndrome-pots/symptoms-causes/syc-20451722] If you have a condition or 'Awareness Campaign' that you feel we should recognise please message  [https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/postural-tachycardia-syndrome-pots/symptoms-causes/syc-20451722]@MistyMagic [https://www.7cups.com/@MistyMagic] (teens and adults) or @AffyAvo [https://www.7cups.com/@AffyAvo](adults)
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Caring gifts to those that care for us! Cupsgiving!
Disability Support / by MistyMagic
Last post
 December 3rd, 2024
...See more Caring gifts to those that care for us This post is part of Cupsgiving Week. Choosing a gift for your carer can be a thoughtful and meaningful gesture to show appreciation for their care and support. Here are some tips to help you select the perfect gift: 1. Consider Their Preferences * Pay Attention to Hobbies: Think about what they enjoy doing in their free time (e.g., gardening, cooking, reading, sports). * Ask Subtly: If you're unsure, you can ask casual questions about their likes and dislikes without revealing your intention. Ask those near to them for ideas. 2. Choose Something Meaningful * Personalized Gifts: Items like engraved keychains, custom mugs, or photo frames can add a personal touch. Remember they may need to be ordered in advance! * Handmade Gifts: If you enjoy crafting or making art, a handmade gift like a card, painting, or knitted item can be incredibly special. Again these take time so it’s important to plan your gift. But these I can vouch for.  3. Practical Items * Useful Gifts: A high-quality notebook, a nice pen, or something they can use daily in their work or leisure. * Relaxation Gifts: Think about self-care items like candles, bath products, or a gift card for a massage or spa day. * Disposable Gifts: Not as in throw-away but something that they can use and enjoy and appreciate and that won’t take up valuable space in the home. Cookies or sweets, chocolate luxury items. 4. Sentimental Options * Thank-You Letters: A heartfelt note expressing your gratitude can mean more than a material gift. * Memory Keepsakes: A small scrapbook or photo album highlighting meaningful moments you've shared. A framed photo too. 5. Experience-Based Gifts * Treat Them to an Experience: A voucher for their favorite restaurant, a cinema gift card, or a ticket to an event they’d enjoy. * Time Together: If possible, plan a simple outing like a coffee date or a park visit. Or organize a tea party in your room or even just a cup of coffee for 5 minutes rest together. 6. Budget-Friendly Ideas * Small Tokens: Flowers, a box of chocolates, or a thoughtful book can be perfect. * DIY Options: Create something with the resources you have—baked goods, a playlist of their favorite music, or a simple drawing or poem that you have taken the time to write for them. Perhaps make it funny or rhyming. 7. Accessibility and Delivery * Online Shopping: If mobility or time is a concern, many retailers offer gift wrapping and delivery services. * Help from Others: Ask a friend or family member for assistance if you need help purchasing or delivering the gift. 8. Show Appreciation in Words * Sometimes the best gift is simply taking the time to tell them "thank you" in a heartfelt way. Pair it with a small token to make it more memorable. Maybe even sing to them! By focusing on their preferences, adding a personal touch, and staying within your means, you can give a gift that will truly show how much you value their care. Now some questions for you! Let's pretend we are giving a gift to another person in the World of Cups or in particular the Disability Support Community:- * How do you choose a gift? * Who would you give a gift to? * What would you give them?
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What is Epilepsy?
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 November 13th, 2024
...See more Epilepsy Awareness Month, observed in November, brings attention to epilepsy—a neurological disorder that causes recurrent seizures due to abnormal electrical activity in the brain. This condition affects millions of people worldwide and has various causes, symptoms, and treatments. What is Epilepsy? Epilepsy is a chronic disorder characterized by unprovoked, recurrent seizures. These seizures happen when clusters of nerve cells in the brain send out abnormal signals, causing a wide range of physical effects, from momentary lapses in awareness to convulsions. Causes of Epilepsy Epilepsy can result from various factors, although in many cases, the exact cause is unknown. Potential causes include: * Genetic Influence: Some types of epilepsy run in families and may have a genetic component. * Head Trauma: Injuries from accidents or falls can lead to epilepsy. * Brain Conditions: Brain tumors, strokes, and other brain damage can increase seizure risks. * Infectious Diseases: Conditions like meningitis, AIDS, and viral encephalitis can trigger epilepsy. * Prenatal Injury: Injuries to the brain before birth, often due to infection or oxygen deprivation, can lead to epilepsy in children. * Developmental Disorders: Conditions like autism or neurofibromatosis have been linked to epilepsy. Symptoms of Epilepsy Symptoms of epilepsy vary widely based on the type of seizure and which part of the brain is affected. Common symptoms include: * Temporary confusion or "blanking out" * A staring spell * Uncontrolled jerking movements in the arms and legs * Loss of consciousness or awareness * Psychic symptoms (fear, anxiety, or deja vu) Seizures are generally classified into two main types: * Focal (Partial) Seizures: These seizures originate in a specific part of the brain and may cause mild to severe symptoms. * Generalized Seizures: These involve all areas of the brain and include types like tonic-clonic (grand mal), absence, myoclonic, and atonic seizures. Treatments for Epilepsy Managing epilepsy typically involves a combination of medication, lifestyle adjustments, and, in some cases, surgery. Treatment approaches include: * Anti-Seizure Medications: Medications like valproic acid, lamotrigine, and levetiracetam are commonly prescribed to control seizures. * Ketogenic Diet: This high-fat, low-carbohydrate diet is sometimes used, particularly in children, to help reduce seizures. * Vagus Nerve Stimulation (VNS): A device implanted under the skin stimulates the vagus nerve, which can help reduce seizure frequency. * Responsive Neurostimulation: A device implanted in the brain detects abnormal electrical activity and delivers electrical impulses to prevent seizures. * Surgery: In severe cases, surgery may be recommended to remove the part of the brain causing seizures. Living with Epilepsy People with epilepsy often lead full lives but may require certain precautions, like avoiding triggers, wearing medical identification, and managing medication routines. Support from family, friends, and epilepsy-focused organizations can also help manage the emotional and psychological challenges of the condition. For more information, consider these resources: * Epilepsy Foundation [https://www.epilepsy.com/]: Provides comprehensive information on epilepsy, including types, treatment options, and support. * National Institute of Neurological Disorders and Stroke (NINDS) [https://www.ninds.nih.gov/health-information/disorders/epilepsy]: Offers information on research, treatment, and clinical trials. * Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) on Epilepsy [https://www.cdc.gov/epilepsy/]: Contains data on epilepsy prevalence, resources, and public health initiatives. Written as part of the Disability Support Community Articles. More can be found here  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/ArticlesResourcesConditionSpecificInformation_458/ArticlesResourcesAlphabeticList_233701/] If you have a condition or 'Awareness Campaign' that you feel we should recognise please message either myself @MistyMagic [https://www.7cups.com/@MistyMagic] (teens and adults) or @AffyAvo  [https://www.7cups.com/@AffyAvo](adults)
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