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Self-Esteem Check-up!

CheeryMango March 12th, 2021

Hi everyone!

For today's activity, we will be doing a self-esteem checkup to see where how high or low our self-esteem is and how we can improve it!


Activity

Rate from 0 to 5 how much you believe each statement. 0 means you do not believe it and 5 means you completely believe it.

1. I believe in myself

2. I am just as valuable as other people

3. I would rather be me than someone else

4. I am proud of my accomplishments

5. I feel good when I get compliments

6. I can handle criticism

7. I am good at solving problems

8. I love trying new things

9. I respect myself

10. I like the way I look

11. I’m not afraid to make mistakes

Let us know your total score!

Overall, how would you rate your self esteem on the following scale

0_______________________________________________________5

I completely dislike who I am I completely like who I am

What would need to change in order for you to move up one point on the rating scale? (For example, if you rated yourself a “2”, what would need to happen for you to be at a “4”?)

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KristinHelps March 16th, 2021

@CheeryMango

1. I believe in myself - 5

2. I am just as valuable as other people - 4

3. I would rather be me than someone else - 5

4. I am proud of my accomplishments - 5

5. I feel good when I get compliments - 5

6. I can handle criticism - 4

7. I am good at solving problems - 4

8. I love trying new things - 5

9. I respect myself - 5

10. I like the way I look - 3

11. I’m not afraid to make mistakes - 4

sia1325 March 16th, 2021

@CheeryMango Thanks for this awesome post, Mango!Red heart

1. I believe in myself - 5

2. I am just as valuable as other people - 5

3. I would rather be me than someone else - 5

4. I am proud of my accomplishments - 5

5. I feel good when I get compliments - 5

6. I can handle criticism - 4

7. I am good at solving problems -4

8. I love trying new things - 4

9. I respect myself - 4

10. I like the way I look - 3

11. I’m not afraid to make mistakes - 3

Let us know your total score! 47

Overall, how would you rate your self esteem on the following scale: I would rate myself as a 3

0_______________________________________________________5

I completely dislike who I am I completely like who I am

What would need to change in order for you to move up one point on the rating scale?

I might probably need to stop comparing myself to others!

"believe you can and you are half way there"

Sunisshiningandsoareyou March 16th, 2021

@CheeryMango

Great activity, Mango ❤

Total score from 11 self assessment questions is 42

Overall score - 4.3 on the 0-5 scale

To make it a complete score , I'd need to let got of things pulling me back and remind myself of my capabilities. ❤

peachybby0 March 16th, 2021

1. I believe in myself (5)

2. I am just as valuable as other people (5)

3. I would rather be me than someone else (4)

4. I am proud of my accomplishments (4)

5. I feel good when I get compliments (5)

6. I can handle criticism (4)

7. I am good at solving problems (3)

8. I love trying new things (4)

9. I respect myself (5)

10. I like the way I look (3)

11. I’m not afraid to make mistakes (3)

Total score = 45

Let us know your total score!

Overall, how would you rate your self esteem on the following scale

I rate my self esteem a 4 out of 5.

What would need to change in order for you to move up one point on the rating scale? (For example, if you rated yourself a “2”, what would need to happen for you to be at a “4”?)

I need to prevent myself from comparing my life to people that I see on social media. Understand that social media can be toxic at times.

Snaking9076 March 16th, 2021

@CheeryMango

1. I believe in myself = 0

2. I am just as valuable as other people = 0

3. I would rather be me than someone else = 1

4. I am proud of my accomplishments = 0

5. I feel good when I get compliments = -5 (0)

6. I can handle criticism = 5

7. I am good at solving problems = 3

8. I love trying new things = 2.5

9. I respect myself = 1

10. I like the way I look = 0

11. I’m not afraid to make mistakes = 3.5

Let us know your total score!

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Overall, how would you rate your self esteem on the following scale

0_______________________________________________________5

I completely dislike who I am I completely like who I am

What would need to change in order for you to move up one point on the rating scale? (For example, if you rated yourself a “2”, what would need to happen for you to be at a “4”?) Be anyone except me.

2 replies
Aledge98 March 16th, 2021

@Snaking9076

1. I believe in myself = 3

2. I am just as valuable as other people = 3

3. I would rather be me than someone else = 2

4. I am proud of my accomplishments = 4

5. I feel good when I get compliments = 1

6. I can handle criticism = 1

7. I am good at solving problems = 3

8. I love trying new things = 2

9. I respect myself = 3

10. I like the way I look = 3

11. I’m not afraid to make mistakes = 3

Total score =29

SwagLouis0828 March 16th, 2021

@Snaking9076

1. I believe in myself = 3

2. I am just as valuable as other people = 4

3. I would rather be me than someone else = 2

4. I am proud of my accomplishments = 5

5. I feel good when I get compliments = 3

6. I can handle criticism = 0

7. I am good at solving problems = 5

8. I love trying new things = 2.5

9. I respect myself = 3

10. I like the way I look = 1

11. I’m not afraid to make mistakes = 0

total: 28.5

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mytwistedsoul March 16th, 2021

1. I believe in myself - 2

2. I am just as valuable as other people - 2

3. I would rather be me than someone else - 1

4. I am proud of my accomplishments - 2 *it never lasts

5. I feel good when I get compliments - 2 * i find them hard to believe

6. I can handle criticism - 4 * it depends on how it's delievered

7. I am good at solving problems - 2

8. I love trying new things - 2 * change makes me anxious

9. I respect myself - 0

10. I like the way I look - 2

11. I’m not afraid to make mistakes - 2 * I shouldn't be because I make them all the time

Let us know your total score!

Overall, how would you rate your self esteem on the following scale

0_____________2__________________________________________5

I completely dislike who I am I completely like who I am

What would need to change in order for you to move up one point on the rating scale? (For example, if you rated yourself a “2”, what would need to happen for you to be at a “4”?) I think I'd have to forgive myself for a number of things I've done wrong and I would have to accept myself for who I am

Optimisticempath March 16th, 2021

@CheeryMango

1. I believe in myself 2.5

2. I am just as valuable as other people 3

3. I would rather be me than someone else 5

4. I am proud of my accomplishments 2

5. I feel good when I get compliments 3

6. I can handle criticism 4

7. I am good at solving problems 3

8. I love trying new things 3

9. I respect myself 3

10. I like the way I look 3

11. I’m not afraid to make mistakes 1

PoeticEmotion2468 March 16th, 2021

@CheeryMango

1. I believe in myself - 1

2. I am just as valuable as other people - 2

3. I would rather be me than someone else - 0

4. I am proud of my accomplishments - 2

5. I feel good when I get compliments - 3

6. I can handle criticism - 2

7. I am good at solving problems - 3

8. I love trying new things - 2

9. I respect myself - 3

10. I like the way I look - 2

11. I’m not afraid to make mistakes - 0

Overall - 3

Basorexiaaa March 16th, 2021

@CheeryMango

1. I believe in myself = 2

2. I am just as valuable as other people = 0

3. I would rather be me than someone else = 5

4. I am proud of my accomplishments = 0

5. I feel good when I get compliments = 4

6. I can handle criticism = 4

7. I am good at solving problems = 1

8. I love trying new things = 3

9. I respect myself = 2

10. I like the way I look = 1

11. I’m not afraid to make mistakes = 2

This is not at all good-😀

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Basorexiaaa March 16th, 2021

@Basorexiaaa

My overall score = 24
Still not good😀

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SubtleBuzz32 March 16th, 2021

Thankyou, this was really interesting. My total score on self esteem scale is 38/55. I would rate myself around 3, on a overall basis.

To move one point up, i would need to be more mindful of my inner critical thoughts and be more accepting towards inadequacies. Might also need a few supportive figures who helps me to dribble through my current challenges.