a question
slowdecline48
April 16th
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We all have reasons for being on/in Cups-Land. For us members those reasons are almost always bad to horrible--the more you read in the forums & the more you hang out in the chat rooms, the more you know this truth. I am no exception. I got to thinking about it, & came to the following:
Are you here because you decided to join 7Cups, or are you here because your problems brought you here?
That is, did you make a choice or was it your fate to wind up on the site? Is human agency real or is it an illusion held by bipedal organisms influenced by environment & heredity?
I lean toward the 2nd answer, even though it feels like we make our own decisions. What do you think? Please explain your answer as best you can.