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PL 101: Understanding Your Gifts and Strengths from the MBTI (Discussion 2)

GlenM June 29th, 2020
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Hello Leadership Crew!

I have just gone through the introduction thread and read about all of you. If you havent yet introduced yourself, then please stop by and share a little about yourself so we can get to know you. Im encouraged by all the great people that have joined. This should be a fun and enriching program!

Let me first zoom back and talk more broadly about your career and how we can help. When you become a leader on 7 Cups, we want you to find the work fulfilling. Fulfilling work means that it is:

a) work you are good at;
b) work that is interesting to you; and
c) work that solves an important problem or meets an important goal (Thiel, 2015).

The sweet spot is that blue area in the middle below.

Work Alignment Diagram

If you do work that you are good at, but not interested in, then you wont do a great job. If you do work that you are interested in, but not particularly good at, then it wont be great work. If you do work that you are good at and interested in, but it isnt helping to solve an important problem, then we wont be a good fit for you. We need alignment on all 3 things. We work very hard at the beginning of your work with us to match your inherent strengths and interests with needs we have so that we can work together to solve problems that we all care about.

You have strengths â things that you are just really good at when compared with others. Operating out of your strengths feels good, is personally fulfilling, and enables you to hit flow states. As a result, you are much more effective and productive. Operating out of weaknesses is a drain. If you have to do work that you are not good at, then you wont be as effective. Doubling down on your strengths enables you to level up much faster and it helps 7 Cups make much more progress. Â

The next step becomes helping you find ways to identify your strengths, gifts or natural talents. You can learn some of this through self-observation - what do you seem especially good at? Are there things that just come natural to you that are more challenging for others? My wife, for example, is really good at writing; it just comes natural to her. Im pretty good at public speaking, whereas others find it more challenging.

Another way is to ask people you trust. You can say: What do you think Im good at? Or: what do you think are my top 1-3 strengths? Things that stand out to you about me? Note: only ask people you trust because sometimes people can give you feedback in a harmful rather than helpful way especially if they are not trustworthy.

For the purposes of this course, we are going to use personality tests to help you identify your strengths. Some of these are better than others; they are more reliable and have more research behind them. Broadly, we are using them here to help you begin to map out your strengths and to help you find ways where you can naturally excel here on 7 Cups, in your personal life, and in whatever career your are in or choose further down the road.

To start:

Go to this site here and take the test: https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test

Next, in the thread below, answer the following questions:

1. What is your personality type? Include your 4 letters please Â

2. What were the main things you learned about yourself?

3. What are your top 3 strengths or gifts according to this test? Please describe them.

Last, when people interact with one another, it makes the course more enriching and it allows us to learn more about one another. In addition to posting in the thread, please also be sure to respond in a helpful and positive way to at least 3 other comments in this thread.

You can also ask any questions in this thread and well respond to them as well.

Very excited to kick this off with all of you!

After fulfilling the requirements of this post, please check out the next post here! You must take part in the brainstorming/activities given in all of these posts to successfully complete the program.


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ASilentObserver July 9th, 2020
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Sandson July 9th, 2020
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@GlenM

1. What is your personality type? Include your 4 letters please

My Personality was the Advocate (INFJ-A /INFJ-T)

2. What were the main things you learned about yourself?

I learned that my personality makes up less than 1% of the population. That people with this personality tend to see helping others as their purpose in life. I also learned that we have a talent for warm, sensitive language, speaking in human terms, rather than with pure logic and fact. I was reminded that I need to keep taking care of myself while quote: " they're busy taking care of the world". I believe this also confirms what I always thought of myself as, as someone who wants to help others as my purpose in life.

3. What are your top 3 strengths or gifts according to this test? Please describe them.

According to the test my top 3 strengths are 1. Creativity 2. Insightfulness 3. Inspiring and convincing

1. With my strong sense of compassion in combination with a vivid imagination, I use my creativity to resolve not technical challenges, but human ones. Finding the perfect solution for someone I care about, makes me an excellent counselor or advisor.

2. As an advocate I see through dishonesty and disingenuos motives, we step past manipulation and sales tactics and into a more honest discussion. We see how people and events are connected, and as a result is able to use that insight to get to the heart of the matter.

3. As an advocate I speak in human terms, and not technical. We have a fluid, inspirational writing style that appeals to the inner idealist in our audience. We can even be astonishingly good orators, speaking with warmth and passion. Which is especially true if we are proud of what we are speaking for.

Nothing lights up Advocates like creating a solution that changes peoples lives.

Tyedyedbutterfly65 July 10th, 2020
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@Aleks2 Love your honesty and being Real !!! you are so awesome heart

blissart July 10th, 2020
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@Aleks2

"Nothing lights up Advocates like creating a solution that changes peoples lives." yosmiley

SoulfullyAButterfly July 10th, 2020
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@Aleks2 great to see how despite a rare personality type, people like us can still connect at Cups - I have been surprised at this fact but it is always a great thing to observe.

sunshineEars619 July 10th, 2020
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@Aleks2 Loved your post! I'm an INFJ-A Personality Type too smiley

Rebekah July 10th, 2020
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@Aleks2

Wow, those are really amazing strengths!

glisteningEyes July 11th, 2020
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@Aleks2

Inspiring and Convincing is an intresting one!

the statement at the end was beautifully said :)

SoftAlpaca10 July 16th, 2020
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@Aleks2

It is nice to see another INFJ-T, espeically since it is such a rare personality type! All of those things you were able to learn about yourself are so important, it is always good to keep that in mind when you begin to feel like you are struggling. Keeping your strengths in mind will also help with that because they are what you are naturally good at.

bubblyJulie September 10th, 2020
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@Aleks2

I'm so inspired by how you can discover more about yourself after taking the test!!

CintaBali September 15th, 2020
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@Aleks2

Great Post, as always, Aleks. Thanks for all your great work at 7 Cups

Anexmos November 3rd, 2020
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Oh.. a twin advocate, but sadly not available anymore :\

MyNameIsNicole December 17th, 2020
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High five for being an awesome person!

lemonicecreamcake February 15th, 2022
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wow!! I didn't know INFJ-T is that rare, that's so cool!!

July 9th, 2020
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1. What is your personality type? Include your 4 letters please
My personality type is INFP-T! (Turbulent Mediator)

2. What were the main things you learned about yourself?
I've learned that I'm an idealist at heart: someone who truly looks for the good in the world around them and seeks to improve things. I also learned that my commitment to my principles and idealism guide me in my decisions and enable me to communicate deeply with others. The test results also reminded me of how I need to focus my energy into a few number projects, or else I'll likely burn out trying to change the whole world at once.

3. What are your top 3 strengths or gifts according to this test? Please describe them.
Idealistic
: I am inherently optimistic, and seek to find the good in those around me!
Passionate and Energetic: I pour my soul out and put my energy into projects that I strongly believe in!
Open-Minded and Flexible: I'm always open to new ideas and perspectives, and willing to work around other people!

Ivy 🐑

Tyedyedbutterfly65 July 10th, 2020
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@IvyL LOVE your strengths !!! you are also so awesome !!smileyheart

July 10th, 2020
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@Tyedyedbutterfly65

Aww thank you! You are awesome as well!

Ivy 🐑

Tyedyedbutterfly65 July 10th, 2020
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@IvyL You are most welcome and Thank yoo so much for your kind words heart

Sandson July 10th, 2020
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@IvyL

The INFP is an amazing personality. Reading how the idealistic and altruistic values of the Mediator enables you to overcome potential obstacles and hindrances of doubt for the goodness in others. This inherent optimism enables you to support others to see the goodness in themselves where they can't. 😊 I believe that is an extremely valuable trait.

July 10th, 2020
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@Aleks2

I totally agree!

Ivy 🐑

relaxSea July 10th, 2020
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@IvyL Even thought we don't share the same type of personality, I can feel connected to you. :)

July 10th, 2020
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@relaxSea

That's awesome!

Ivy 🐑

CheeryMango July 10th, 2020
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@IvyL fellow introvert :)

July 10th, 2020
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@CheeryMango

Introvert gang!

Ivy 🐑

bookworm274 July 10th, 2020
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@IvyL

Sounds like a great personality type and your strengths/gifts are really positive! Also, yes, self care is extremely important!!

July 10th, 2020
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@bookworm274

Thank you!

Ivy 🐑

TheMetanoia July 10th, 2020
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@IvyL twinny :) finally someone with an INFP!

July 10th, 2020
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@TheMetanoia

Yay! I've been waiting and going through the thread every couple hours or so to find my INFP twins—so glad to finally have found one!

Ivy 🐑

glisteningEyes July 11th, 2020
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@IvyL

I'm also an INFP-T :p

Your description was really nicely written :)

July 12th, 2020
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@glisteningEyes

Yay, another fellow Turbulent Mediator! It's nice to meet you

Ivy 🐑

AstronomySkies July 12th, 2020
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@IvyL

Ivy!! Hello! First I wanted to say your strengths are all amazing and they really reflect you well. Also I have that same burn out problem "trying to change the whole world at once" haha cheeky

July 12th, 2020
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@AstronomySkies

Aww, thank you Skies! I read through your post as well, and thought that your strengths really suited you and reflected how amazing I know you are

Ivy 🐑

KindMoment86 July 13th, 2020
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@IvyL I got this result too!

July 13th, 2020
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@KindMoment86

Yay, twins!

Ivy 🐑

thisisirene March 23rd, 2021
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@VioletVenom that's amazing!

gentleLove04 May 10th, 2021
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I'm an INFP-T also! You are amazing and you can do this!

AzraelAlpha404 September 20th, 2021
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I’m an INFP-T too! Glad to see someone else who shares the same traits as me 😁

Tyedyedbutterfly65 July 10th, 2020
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@GlenM

Hey!!

1. What is your personality type? Include your 4 letters please...

ENFJ

2. What were the main things you learned about yourself?

In all Honesty nothing new I have done this before ... lol I am Me just me always learning and wanting to learn.

3. What are your top 3 strengths or gifts according to this test? Please describe them.

Mind- Extraverted , yes this is so me lol I am not shy or nor do I hide I use too but i am so out there and open.

Energy-Intuitive, Yes I am and I do observe allot also maybe to much sometimes.

Nature-Feeling, yes I am someone who feels what others feel and also I think with feelings, like wearing my heart on my sleeve..

I believe that we are each Unique and Special in our own way and taking test to see what we are like can be spot on or sometimes the question is questionable... for me I am okay with myself most of the time but I do question myself and worry I am not worthy or valued or I let others down..

Peace and Love

Tye heart

relaxSea July 10th, 2020
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@Tyedyedbutterfly65 By what I have read about your personality type, I can tell you're the type of person I would enjoy being friends with! Your vibe is beautiful. :)

Tyedyedbutterfly65 July 10th, 2020
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@relaxSea Thank you so much I am silly, goofy and love to laugh and I try my best to make others laugh , in real life it is much easier to joke around and have fun .. I love people and love the ones who can laugh and cry with me..

I would hang out with anyone who loves to laugh and talk and just be silly.. smiley