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Hello lovely people of the 7cups community!
I'm glad you found your way to 7cups! I am SoftAlpaca10, often refered to as Soft or Alpaca, a verified active listener on this site.

Everyone needs support, if you are finding yourself in a position in which you would like support, feel free to message me and I'll respond as soon as I am avalible to.  


Get To Know Me:
Some things I enjoy doing are reading poetry, listening to music, playing video games, making digital art, and being a part of the 7Cups community. <3 I have been a part of this community since 2016 and later decided to become a listener on May 31st, 2018. I am an Adult-Teen Listener and a 7Cups Internship Graduate. I am very dedicated to this community and I loved watching it grow in the past years! I look forward to many more!

Resources To Utilize:
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline - Call 1-800-273-8255 or Visit https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/
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OCD And Exposure Therapy - An Honors Project
Anxiety Support / by SoftAlpaca10
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March 30th, 2019
...See more Obsessive Compulsive Disorder An Honors Project By SoftAlpaca10 *Trigger Warning - Information in this post could potentially be triggering to readers. Please be cautious.* What Is Obsessive Compulsive Disorder? Psychologydictionary.org defines OCD as an anxiety disorder marked by repetitive obsessions, compulsions, or both which are time-consuming, inflict substantial distress, or impede the person's performance. The obsessions and compulsions are considered to be extreme or unacceptable. OCD tends to push a person to engage in actions or thoughts that are unwanted. Symptoms OCD is short for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. As the name suggests there are two sets of symptoms, obsessive symptoms and compulsive symptoms. The obsessive side of OCD creates obsessions of constant thoughts, urges, and rituals Obsessive Symptoms include the following - - Fear of contamination - Needing things to be in order and symmetrical - Aggressive or horrific thoughts about harm - Unwanted thoughts that invade the mind The compulsive side to OCD creates compulsions of behaviors, mental acts, and the need for temporary relief. Compulsive Symptoms include the following - - Washing/Cleaning - Checking things over - Counting - Orderliness - Following routines that you have set - Wanting/demanding reassurance Causes While OCD does not have a clear cause, the most proven theories are the following: Biology : Change in bodys chemistry and brain functions can lead to OCD. Genetics : Currently there are scientific strides to find the specific genes that are a component to OCD, though they are clear that genes do have some impact on OCD. Environment : Your surrounding, how you grow up, and diseases in your surrounding area can all affect the chance of OCD. Risk factors There are some risk factors that can increase the likelihood of developing, and or triggering OCD, these risk factors include: Family History : If you have a family member / blood relative you have an increased risk of having OCD. Stressful Life Events : Traumatic experiences and stressful events increase your risk to have OCD triggered. Other Mental Health Disorders : Anxiety disorders, depression, and substance abuse are some of the proven mental health disorders that increase your chances of having OCD. Are there different types of OCD? Common Misconception - There is only one type of OCD Reality - There are multiple categories/types of OCD The common categories are the following... Contamination OCD: The individual has the fear and need to prevent contaminants, whether they be from the household or the outside environment. Includes the fear of germs and blood-borne illnesses. Scrupulosity OCD: The individual engages in rituals, repetitive actions, that surround around the idea of prayer, morals, and beliefs. Checking OCD: The individual falls into the habit of checking things repetitively, such as locks and household appliances in order to keep themselves, others, or their surroundings safe. Symptomatic OCD: The individual has intrusive thought surrounding by the belief of having/contracting an illness. The individual begins to engage in compulsions due to the fear of a disease. Perfectionism OCD: The individual makes sure everything is done correctly and completed, often seen through rereading assignments, rewriting documents, and checking over for correctness. Sexual intrusive thoughts: The individual has intrusive thoughts that are unwanted and considered to be sexual in nature. The individual attempt to perform rituals in order to get these thoughts to be alleviated. Harming intrusive thoughts: The individual has intrusive thoughts that are considered to be harmful in nature. The individual is often faced with compulsions to get rid of objects in the house that can be harmful so the can avoid the possibility of harm. Now that we have a general understanding of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder we can learn about a technique to cope with OCD and help progress forward. What is exposure therapy? Exposure therapy is a form and technique of cognitive behavioral therapy. A treatment option for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder is exposure therapy. Exposure treatments work with the natural process called habituation. *Habituation occurs when a person stops responding or paying attention to a stimulus, such as a thought, object, place, person or action, with repeated exposure.* How does exposure therapy work? Exposure therapy can help decrease the compulsive behaviors and obsessive thoughts. During exposure therapy the participant learns to confront their obsessions, compulsions, images, thoughts, situations, and objects, that can create an anxious feeling, with the hope to help the person eventually avoid the compulsions they feel. *Exposure therapy is NOT a cure for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder* What other things do people do to reduce their symptoms of OCD? Professional Help - Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) - Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) *Can be through group therapy, teletherapy, and traditional therapy. - Medications *Medically prescribed medication, self medicating is often harmful and is not as helpful. - Support Groups - Acceptance and Commitment Therapy Effective Ways At Home - Less caffeine intake *Caffeine is a stress inducing chemical found in a lot of liquids we tend to drink daily, such as pop/soda and coffee. - Eat Regularly *Eating regularly can help seeing as low blood sugar increase your levels of stress and anxiety. - Yoga *A natural and effective activity that directly affects the brain which can help with mind altering disorders, such as Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. *There are many other home remedies and professional ways to go about relieving symptoms of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, but they may not all work for everyone. Relief is not immediate, courage and dedication is an important part for reduction of symptoms.* Facts about Obsessive Compulsive Disorder - About 1/3 to 1/2 of all those who are affected by OCD had OCD in childhood, whether they recognized it or not. - According to experts, about less than 10% of those with OCD currently receive treatment to help alleviate the symptoms. - Anyone can be diagnosed with OCD, no matter the age, gender, or ethnicity of the person. - People with relatives who priorly or currently deal with OCD are 5 times more likely to have OCD. Sites To Check Out - Informative Sites On OCD - https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/obsessive-compulsive-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20354432 [https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/obsessive-compulsive-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20354432] https://kids.iocdf.org/for-kids/ [https://kids.iocdf.org/for-kids/] Facts About OCD - https://www.dosomething.org/us/facts/11-facts-about-obsessive-compulsive-disorders-ocd [https://www.dosomething.org/us/facts/11-facts-about-obsessive-compulsive-disorders-ocd] OCD Support Groups - https://iocdf.org/ocd-finding-help/supportgroups/online-and-phone-ocd-support-groups/ [https://iocdf.org/ocd-finding-help/supportgroups/online-and-phone-ocd-support-groups/] Sources Used - https://www.goodtherapy.org/learn-about-therapy/types/exposure-therapy [https://www.goodtherapy.org/learn-about-therapy/types/exposure-therapy] https://www.verywellmind.com/exposure-therapy-for-ocd-2510616 [https://www.verywellmind.com/exposure-therapy-for-ocd-2510616] http://beyondocd.org/ocd-facts [http://beyondocd.org/ocd-facts] https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/obsessive-compulsive-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20354432 [https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/obsessive-compulsive-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20354432] https://psychcentral.com/disorders/ocd/ [https://psychcentral.com/disorders/ocd/] https://www.healthyplace.com/ocd-related-disorders/ocd/ocd-statistics-and-facts [https://www.healthyplace.com/ocd-related-disorders/ocd/ocd-statistics-and-facts] https://www.bcm.edu/news/psychiatry-and-behavior/obsessive-compulsive-disorder-misconceptions [https://www.bcm.edu/news/psychiatry-and-behavior/obsessive-compulsive-disorder-misconceptions] Questions - 1) How would you define OCD and how it affects people? 2) How can exposure therapy be beneficial to those dealing with OCD? 3) What do you think makes OCD difficult to deal with right away?
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