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A Space For The Unsaid (Personal Diary)

Optimisticempath April 10th, 2022

Uh hello if anyone is reading this! 😀

I have no idea why I'm even creating this thread but i just feel it will be nice to have a place to share some thoughts or even these images on the internet that i always keep saving for myself because i relate too much but cannot share it with anyone because yes haha

I'm okay with replies here so feel free to drop by anytime ❤️

Just please be kind and respectful if your replying to my posts.

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Optimisticempath OP August 29th, 2023

omg you people are so kind 🥺🥺 thank you vv much for checking on me and sending kind reminders, i keep hiding 😖 but it means so much to me 🥺💕💕


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LoveMyMoonflowers August 29th, 2023

@Optimisticempath

*sends more huggles* you one of da sweetest optiii 💜

it okie to feel like hiding sometimes. me understand.. nii hide a lot too 😖

we just want you to know that we care soooo muchhh about our optii bearr 💜 and that we here for chuu, we are 💕

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Optimisticempath OP August 29th, 2023

we back at it ..like we ever left 💀

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VictoriaLove7 August 29th, 2023

@Optimisticempath

🧸*sit with milky bear*🧸

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Optimisticempath OP September 1st, 2023

@VictoriaLove7 cutest victory 💕 your a bear too now?😄🧸🧸

you were in my thoughts victory how are you doing? sends huggles🤗

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VictoriaLove7 September 1st, 2023

@Optimisticempath

Yes, I'm a rainbow bear 🌈🧸

I'm okayish.. ☺ How are you, milky bear? 🧸

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Optimisticempath OP September 1st, 2023

@VictoriaLove7

me found chu ☺ rainbow bear looks really cute 🌈

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why okayish only victory? something bothering you? it's ok to be okayish too tho i know im there so often xD because somehow it touches the border of honesty and "don't wanna worry this kind person asking" ... or idk just me? xD

im okayish too 😅 but idont care at the moment bcoz we existinggg or something similar as that ☺

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VictoriaLove7 September 2nd, 2023

@Optimisticempath

The rainbow bear 🌈🧸 you put is cute, milky 🧸☺. Thank youu for the Rainbow bear picture! 🤗

I have just replied now because earlier, I was not quite okayish..

Yes, I've been worrying, milky bear.. 🧸

Why are you okayish, milky? 🧸

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Optimisticempath OP September 2nd, 2023

tw:

maybe don't read this at all idk if i can be mindful enough to skip triggering stuff currently...im sorry 😔

i feel so done tbh idk there's triggers everywhere...everything is an awful reminder of my pathetic existence ...i feel done ... seeing their disappointed faces every time.. hearing their taunts and sarcastic remarks...everything is a haunting reminder of my undeserving existence... literally just wasting everything...taking unnecessary space....it's coming back... it never left but it's coming back strong ... the urges ... the flashes... the thoughts...trying v hard to not give into them but its been hard to hold on to ... when it feels like the only escape ... lately been imagining slitting through the ... yeah... feeling the red thing dripping... it's so crisp and particular in my imagination.......so weird when I cannot do it to myself im imagining about it...maybe the blood dripping... the pain feeling like the emotional weight flowing away but idk really ... this feelz unsafe and im not myself ... i don't know who myself is anymore ... i cry anytime...i get those thoughts any time ... its difficult pretending... no one understands...no one cares and no one should. ...even I don't care so yeah ... whatever... just holding on..lying on bed... crying.... till tears run dry... too tired to wipe them away now ..idc...im

You are safe... 🙃

You are fine...👍🏻ok

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VictoriaLove7 September 2nd, 2023

@Optimisticempath

Milky bear 😧🧸 i read it..

Would you like to talk? 🧸 your existence matter, you make a difference, Milky 🧸

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Optimisticempath OP September 2nd, 2023

@VictoriaLove7 victory...😔 idk im sorry

im ok..needed to get some stuff out is alll..🥺


Optimisticempath OP September 7th, 2023

@VictoriaLove7 victory 🧸🌈 are you ok? ididnt wanna upset anyone....sorry if it was too much to read ..😔


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VictoriaLove7 September 7th, 2023

@Optimisticempath

I am okayish, milky, 🧸☺

What you wrote is okie, it is not upsetting🧸☺ you can write anything to let it out here and we can talk if you want to.

How are you feeling now? 🧸🤗



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Optimisticempath OP September 2nd, 2023


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Optimisticempath OP September 5th, 2023

@mytwistedsoul 💕💕

sending hugs and lots of luvvv Soul ❤ thinking of chu 🤗

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mytwistedsoul September 5th, 2023

@Optimisticempath *sending hugs and big squeezies and much love to you too OptiBear ❤️😊❤️ Thank you

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Optimisticempath OP September 7th, 2023

@mytwistedsoul big squeeezieess back Soul ❤ how is youu? 🤗 hope september treats you well ❤

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mytwistedsoul September 7th, 2023

@Optimisticempath Thank you! ❤️ It's been hot 🥵 here. But the weather is going to break this weekend I think. I have tbh depression is kicking my butt 😞 I can't seem to shake it. How is you? I've been worried about you - I hope it's ok to say that. I mean I don't want you to worry that I worry 😅 or maybe make you think that you gotta fake anything. I just care about you OptiBear

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Optimisticempath OP September 11th, 2023

@mytwistedsoul

the latter message really made me smile so much Soul 🥺 i completely get you... feeling worried because we care but not wanting to worry the other person because we are worrying about them lmao what is this even 🤯 but i get it a 100 % because i feel as you do too 🥺 thankchu for caring for me Soul... i seem to have forgotten what it might feel to be cared for .. but me appreciates you so much for making me feel so cared for like always ... ❤ your the bestest friend me could ever ask for .. even better 🥺 me worries about you too because me cares about you too and always praying for you ❤

how is me.. i don't really known Soul... it's too much effort into knowing how i really am and then i know it's not a good answer so ill have to idk? work on it? and me doesn't want to do anything...im feeling tired of existing and im pretty sure im not even doing it right lol just yeah..here..and being someway😅

depression is really the worst :( im sorry it's been hard to shake off lately but you are allowed to take the time you need Soul .... its not easy to shake depression away when too much seems to go around us and maybe more inside us ❤ im here for you if you need spacey to talksiees or just sitting together ... we can lounge on comfy beanieees 🥰 me also here to remind chu that you're trying your best and hopefully you can continue to brave through the tough days ❤ nobody needs to ask more from you oki, just being patient with yourself and gentle while you deal with things 🥺 sends lots of luvvsss and tight squeezieesss💕💕

the weather is hot yeah 😮 did it change at your place over the weekend? it's been weird here .. sometimes hot, sometimes raining and sometimes chilly ... mostly at night tho ☺

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mytwistedsoul September 12th, 2023

@Optimisticempath Tbh I'm not sure what that is either lol 🤪

I just want you to be able to be yourself here in your space. To write or share whatever you choose without fear or concerns of what I might say or think
I think anxiety and depression and alot of other things adds to not feeling cared for. Maybe it's because we don't care about ourselves enough to feel like anyone else cares about us either 😞 I'm sorry you feel like that too OptiBear and I want you to know I really do care ❤️
Can I say - well - what you said about trying your best and how no one needs to ask more of you. That applies to you too ❤️
It's ok to not know and it's ok to need to take a step back from working on it. I think it's ok even to be tired of existing - it's hard work being human. You're doing it right I think because you're here - not just here at Cups but HERE and for that I'm grateful. I'm grateful to know you and be your friend. I do hope things get easier for you and that the world brings many good things into your life because you do deserve them. And I hope you can be patient and gentle too. It ok to just - be ❤️
It's been like that here hot and sometimes rainy but chilly some nights. I just noticed that the leaves are starting to change here too. Won't be long until it's cold and snowy - yuucckk!
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Did I tell you how nice it was to see you around today? ❤️
Sending lots of hugs and squeezies and much love. Take care of you ok? As best you can ❤️
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I'm loving these beanie chairs you have! 😁❤️
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unassumingPeach6421 September 7th, 2023

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Optimisticempath OP September 10th, 2023

@unassumingPeach6421 that's really sweet thank you 💕 how are you?

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Optimisticempath OP September 11th, 2023

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Optimisticempath OP September 27th, 2023

and you know what?? ironically enough, what keeps me going on days it is hardest to ... even a little... is the hope that someday ill be resting peacefully ... finally

Optimisticempath OP September 27th, 2023

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sometimes I try really hard to remind myself to just breathe 😅 funny to need that sort of a reminder but at least it allows me to be here still D:

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VictoriaLove7 September 27th, 2023

@Optimisticempath

*🌈🧸 sit with milky bear🥛🧸*

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Optimisticempath OP September 29th, 2023

@VictoriaLove7 so creative with emojis victory 😮thank you for sitting with me 🌈🧸🥺 hope your doing well?

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VictoriaLove7 September 29th, 2023

@Optimisticempath

Milky bear 🥛🧸 I'm learning the 🌈 🧸 emoji from you ☺

I'm okayish.. how are you, Milky? 🥛🧸

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Optimisticempath OP September 29th, 2023

@VictoriaLove7 🌈🧸 me too okayish I think

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VictoriaLove7 September 30th, 2023

@Optimisticempath

Why only okay ish, milky? 🥛🧸😧

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mytwistedsoul September 28th, 2023

I talked with a bunny earlier and I realized it's been alittle since I left a hug for a special Bear ❤️ Been thinking of you OptiBear

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Optimisticempath OP September 29th, 2023

@mytwistedsoul 🥺 soul always being the bestest ever 🤗 me thinking of chu too and vv happy to see you always and hug you ❤ and you called me special bear 😭😭 youuuu are vvv special Soul im so grateful for you always *biggest squeezieeee🤗🤗

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sends lots of luvvsss to Soul ❤❤❤❤

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mytwistedsoul September 30th, 2023

@Optimisticempath You are a special Bear ❤️ I know things like that can be hard to believe. I know compliments are hard too. You really are an amazing and wonderful person. Gosh there's so much I could say about the person you are 😊 One day you'll smile at the reflection you see in the mirror. One day you'll be proud of yourself for all you've overcome. One day you'll love yourself as much as we love you. That is my wish for you ❤️

I am so so grateful for you OptiBear - more than you could ever imagine *BIG squeezies* Much love to you OptiBear ❤️❤️


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Optimisticempath OP October 6th, 2023

@mytwistedsoul 🥺🥺 Soul how are you always so full of kindness and how do you always have the most heart warming things to say 🥺

I have such a hard time believing people usually.. specially if they say something nice ... but whenever you tell me something, i try vvv hard to believe ... you just have a way of sounding so genuine and pure and just like  someone who has good intentions and good thoughts for everyone and only wants best for them and I want to believe you because you make me sound like a nicer person that some one would want around 🥺 it's still hard but it really means a lot to me how you pick me up always being as genuinely kind and thoughtful always and it just warms my heart sm I can't even explain ❤ you mean lots to me Soul ❤ you have made my world feel better , worth staying in so often ❤ you may not even realise😅 but you bring so much hope and light to my life and idk sometimes it's scaryto think someone would care but I'm just really grateful for you and it means more to me than any words could ever say ❤ 

I have so much love and so much respect for you and so much more love for you ❤ things in life haven't been kind to you either but you continue pushing forward and also bring hope to so many of us, you hold our hands, sit with us and hug us when needed and you are just someone everyone can count on ❤ you're a true blessing Soul, I don't say this lightly... I really pray for your days to be happier, kinder, better so much 🥺 i could collect just one teeny bit of kindness from every single living being in the universe and give it to you and you know what??? I think that would be less too! you deserve more and more and so much more kindness ❤ *biggest squeezieeeeeee 

how's you doing soul?

me read about your doggo in some post and me just wants to be here with you and squeeziee tighttt🥺 

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mytwistedsoul October 12th, 2023

@Optimisticempath I'm glad you try to believe what I say. I know it's not easy too do. It means a lot to me that you try. I know those harsh voices in your head are hard to ignore and it's often just easier to accept and believe the bad things people say because it fits the past narrative. But - what if they're wrong? Not just alittle wrong but totally wrong? I'm finding that there are some people who can never see the good. You could find a cure for cancer and be a brain surgeon and they wouldn't say a word. But forget something or fall short of their expectations and they break you down and tear you apart 😞


Tbh I've written and deleted this post a dozen times 😅 Everything I want to say isn't coming out the way I want it to. I didn't know what to say to something so nice written about me 😅

Do you know that you do the same for me? You bring light to my darkness and make me try harder to see and believe the good in me. ❤️ It's not just me either - you bring light - hope and love to everyone you talk to. It beautiful to see. 
It is scary when people care because what if we can't live up to their expectations? What if we fail them in some way? What if we hit a rough patch in our lives that brings out the worst in us? What if we make them angry or upset or if we hurt them? What if they hurt us? That's alot of what if's 😕
If you were to collect those drops of kindness - I would share them with you - because in my eyes YOU deserve more more kindness. Always just be you OptiBear. Because you are special in so many wonderful and beautiful ways ❤️❤️ I am so grateful for you and your friendship

I'm hanging in there - some days ok and some days not lol. Thank you for asking 🙂 *big squeezies and much love to you* ❤️❤️😊
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