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Group Support Member Oath
Hey everyone!
As our Group Support rooms continue to grow, it is becoming increasingly important that we work together to ensure these remain a safe and supportive place.
With this in mind, I have created a special oath especially for members who participate in the Group Support rooms.
Today, I would like all of our 7 Cups to chat room users to show their support and commitment to keeping these rooms a wonderful, caring and compassionate space.
Below this post, type out your member oath. You could copy and paste it, but I feel like this takes away from it. Typing it helps you really think through what you are committing to. Next, at the bottom, sign it with your username like this:
Signed: //Heather//
Date: 7/27/2015
NOTE: Eventually, we will be able to give a badge to all those who take this oath. As a special honour, it will show beside your name in the chat rooms to show your commitment to ensuring these rooms are a safe environment. All you need to do is post the oath to ensure you earn it!
I, Laura pledge To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms. To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests. To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times. To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn. To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers. To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves. To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission. To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself. To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions. To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms. To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole. Signed, Laura,
I, impartialDrum1848 pledge To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms. To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests. To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times. To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn. To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers. To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves. To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission. To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself. To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions. To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms. To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole. Signed, impartialDrum1848
@Heather
@Heather
I, CuddlyCoffeeBean, pledge,
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
Signed: CuddlyCoffeeBean
@Heather
I, UI1000, pledge,
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
Signed: UI1000
6/28
I, brightStrawberry3166, pledge,
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
Signed :brightStrawberry3166
Date :03/07/2020
I, Rasp/Cynthia, pledge,
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
Signed: Raps/Cynthia
7/3/20
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@Heather
I, SkyGlitters, pledge,
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
I, depressedsatellite1452, pledge,
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded, and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members, and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations that are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
Signed: brightStrawberry3166
07/22/2020
I, IncrediblyBlue, pledge,
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
Signed: IncrediblyBlue
8/22/20
@Heather
I, SkullCrusher1989 , pledge,
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To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
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Signed: SkullCrusher1989
10/1/20
@Heather
I, SkullCrusher1989 , pledge,
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To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
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Signed: SkullCrusher1989
24/10/2020
@Heather
I, Aayla, pledge,
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful �behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
Signed: Wolfie
10/29/2020
@WolfieChocolateTeaCupPup
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@Heather
I,littlenothingness, pledge,
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
Signed littlenothingness
12/11/20
I, LilacLepidoptera, pledge,
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behavior, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
Signed: LilacLepidoptera
Date: February 6th, 2020
I, warmheartedApple5285, pledge,
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
Signed: warmheartedApple5285
4/12/2021
@Heather
I, IcicleSnown, pledge to show compassion, to consider people's feelings, and to be good.
I will not abuse this opportunity, and I will be responsible.
@Heather
I, IcicleSnown, pledge to show compassion, to be considerate, and to be understanding.
I will not abuse this opportunity, and I will be responsible and mature.
Signed: //IcicleShown//
I, Lemur85, pledge,
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To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
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Signed: Lemur85
6/19/21
I, calmMoon2479 pledge,
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
I, Vee, pledge,
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
Signed: Vee
I, aceberry, pledge,
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
Signed aceberry
7/14/21
I, Nerdtastic, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.
I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.
I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community.
I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.
I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations.
I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community.
I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together.
I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.
I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.
Signed: //Nerdtastic//
Date: 09/01/2021
@Heather
I, Cheerysandi, pledge,
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
Signed Cheerysandi
28/4/21
@Heather
I, Super_girl134679, pledge,
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behavior, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
Signed: Super_girl134679
11/13/22
@Heather
I, Barltik2065, pledge,
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behavior, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
Signed: Barltik2065
June 28, 2023
@Heather
I, determinedHemlock9877, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7 cups.
I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open mindedness, and being non-judgemental.
I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community.
I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.
I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations.
I will use the proper channels to escalate. any concerns faced during my stay in the community.
I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together.
I will take ownership of m own behavior in the community and understand that how I will react to any situation is my choice.
I will follow the community guidelines and be a support to my fellow members as we build a better community for everyone.
Signed, determinedHemlock9877
I hope and joy 12
To be kind, compassionate, considerate, patient, open-minded and non-judgmental with everyone I encounter in the Group Support rooms.
To always show respect to all moderators, listeners, members and guests.
To carefully read and abide by all chat room rules at all times.
To understand that the 7 Cups chatrooms are special, unique places on the internet to grow and learn.
To help and steer conversations away from negativity, inappropriate subject matter and potential triggers.
To use the refer button any time I see a Guest and Members who is in danger of harming themselves.
To engage in thoughtful, empathic conversations which are representative of the 7 Cups mission.
To take ownership of my own behavior, as an individual, knowing that no matter what, I can only control myself.
To show my support and respect to those leading or participating in any discussions or support sessions.
To never engage in harmful behaviour, such as trolling or spamming the rooms.
To mute others who I do not wish to engage with and to avoid conflict at all times for the sake of the room as a whole.
I hope and joy 12
