How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to be with him? (anymore)

This is very serious decision. You should plan for it in advance so you don't get emotional, frustrated or angry while doing this. You also need to respect the other person's feelings, who have been your boyfriend till now. It is recommended to go for a coffee or a dinner where there are more people around, tell it loudly and firmly so he notices your decision is final. Leave the place immediately and information all your common friends about it in a day or two.

Be open to him about it. Also, be clear, concise and straightforward. Don't beat around the bush. Sadly, there is no way to avoid hurting him. The hurt will happen but it will be better for the long run. Don't think you're saving him by pretending to still want to be with him. That will end up with you being unhappy and him being absolutely shattered when he finds out the truth

Honesty is the best policy. There may be different reasons as to why you no longer want to be with your partner. You owe it to them and to yourself to get out of a relationship that doesn't make you happy. Have a face to face talk with them and explain that the relationship can't continue. Don't give false hope and be direct

Be kind. Be gentle. Be firm and compassionate. Don't try to soften it by making promises that you should not make or by compromising your decision. Make it fairly quick but long enough not to seem uncaring.

Thats a very good question and full of thought. I can imagine how difficult it is to get to the point of wanting to break the relationship with him. What is the reason behind the break up? is he abusive? tell him with someone present why you don't want to be with him. If he's immature then simply tell him space is needed for both of you to grow and develop. if you are just young and ready to move on then don't feel guilty because that is life and you should explore life to make sure that this relationship will be right for you in the future.

Always make sure to be respectful to him, but also be firm in your decision. The best way to end a relationship is to talk to the person you are breaking up with face to face and be straight forward and honest, but never insult the person personally.

This varies greatly on many factors such as how strongly he feels for you, how long you've been seeing each other for and your general rapport with the other. But I've found that being straightforward is the best way. It might sound harsh and breaks hearts, but in the long run, he will respect that you did not lie or try to sugarcoat it. Of course, you don't need to be very sudden about it. Try hinting at it for a few days through words and/or actions, and then pick a suitable day, then just say what's on your mind.

With a long honest conversation where you can both talk to each other. A big mistake most people do is to give the talk "it's not you, it's me" and then the other person never really closes the door. The most frontal seemingly brutal conversations are the ones that usually allow someone to move forward. Unanswered questions are the worst.

Explain to him why you can't be with him. Be calm while saying it. If he feels hurt or gets angry hear him out and remain calm.

You can approach the situation and tell him straight on that maybe its time to end things or you can go the situation where you tell them the reason to you wanting to break up.

Well, I guess you should start by making sure this is really what you want. Cause when you decide that you really want out of the relationship, you'll have plenty to say once you decide to break it off. I suggest approach it as lovingly as you can and voice out why you've decided to end it and make sure he understands that you just know it wont work anymore. Best of luck.

Be honest! He deserves somebody who will love him as much as they love him in return, and you deserve to be in love too. It will hurt, but in the end, he'll see that he wouldn't want to be in an unrequited relationship.

Be honest and respectful about it. If he truly cares for your happiness, he will let you go. He will need time to process this information,be there to make him understand the reason.

The best thing to do is to have an honest conversation with him. Tell him the truth and give reasons. Don't leave him confused or worried.

Be truthful say exactly what you think and how you feel better to say your feelings than to pretend

Be as honest as you can be about it. Make sure you tell this to him in person. I know it's not an easy thing to do..its normal for you to want to consider the options of telling it to him via text or phone call but trust me on this.. these things are better told face to face. It will eliminate room for misunderstandings. Let him know all the reasons in a clear manner. First ask him to listen to everything you have to say and then do the same with him. After you're done telling everything..give him the time he needs to process all the things you've said and then be a compassionate listener and hear what he has to say. If he starts pleading you to change your decision let him know that you've made up your mind. Do stand strong in your decisions. You can also tell him about the good times you've had with him and the memories you will cherish (if that's the case). Let him know that its for the best for the both of you. After all this you can leave and let time do its healing.

CALL.FACE EACH OTHER ,EXPLAIN(FOR THE LAST TIME) AND LEAVEE BEFORE ANYTHING STOPS AND BE TRUE HONEST

approach him quietly and humbly and tell him that you dont wanna be with him anymore and you think its for the best

Most importantly you should narrow down why you do not want to be with him and what is making you unhappy in the relationship, maybe you can both sit down and speak about the problems and together work through it. But most importantly being honest with him about why you have come to the decision will help both you and himself in the future.

While this may be a tough subject, if you've reached a point where you're no longer feeling it, know that it's better for both of you if the relationship doesn't continue. Talk to him, communication is the most important part of anything. Listen to what he has to say and know that you're feelings are alright. It will be hard, but if you feel this is the best option, trust your heart and let him know too. It's better to be honest with him so he has a chance to heal and move forward.

Honest and direct reasoning goes long way to end or start anything. It can be communicated peacfully and amicably.

Talk to him in a calm and respectful (for both of you) manner, as much as possible. And preferably alone, unless you think he might react violently or agressively.

speak to him about it and confront him about the issues you are facing. be gentle, but upfront. state your reasons clearly and hope to move on

Tell him the absolute truth! Don't just say, "We need to break up," no. Just say, "We need to talk. I think we should break up because ________" Honestly will make it better. No, breakups are NEVER easy but trust me, honesty is key with anything.

Just come straight out there is no point in doing something that does not make you happy do things that make you happy

Ultimately a relationship has to work for both parties. By staying with someone when you don't want to, you're just saving up trouble for later on. It's worth making time having an open and honest conversation with them, in a safe and controlled environment, to talk about how the relationship is going, and where you see the future. If you do feel like you don't want to be in the relationship, you could explain that you're feeling like you don't have much of a future. Perhaps they're feeling the same way, perhaps they'll work harder at the relationship.

Honesty is always the best policy even if that is a cliche. You should both meet in person as something like this should never be done over text. Sit him down and explain to him your feelings, if he cares about you he will understand.

If you feel safe doing so, I would recommend doing it face to face. Try to be open and honest with him to the extent that you feel comfortable, and try to set a non-argumentative tone.

In my experience, brutal honesty is the best policy. Be gentle of course, because someone else's feelings are in your hands, but be honest and upfront about how you feel.

Hello! Try to talk to him and address the problems in your relationship and why you want to break up with him. Be kind but stern.