A family member thinks I am lying about where I am going but I'm not, what should I do?

You really have no control over what others think, right? They need to believe you, Or not. You can’t make them trust you, you can only hope your actions allow them to trust you better. Be a good person. Tell them the truth, and ask them to believe you, but in the end it is what it is. Sometimes in life, we have to simply live, and not worry about what others think. Simply be careful that you live your truth, and others should believe if you are being real. I wish I knew more about the circumstances, why they might not believe you, oh where you’re going that they don’t believe you. It is a bit difficult to answer a question thoroughly when you don’t really understand the background. Best wishes!

Let you be urself don't try to justify that u are right because when u does right things u have no need to justify let him know by himself from experience

Explain to them how you are not lying and how you have gave them no reason to lie about this. Then say they need to trust and have more faith in you about you're whereabouts as you have no reason or need to lie to them

Try to give them evidence of where you are going, or offer to let them come with you if applicable, and try to let them find trust in your words before going out on your own

You should slowly work towards earning their trust. Check in on them to make sure they are ok and send them messages/ call them, informing them of what you are doing

Calmly talk to the family member, tell them you've given no reason for them to not trust you. Ask them what their worries are, why, and offer solutions. They are probably just worried for you so try to remember that. You could give proof by taking a photo when you're there, having an alibi or even getting that family member to drop you off.

You should ensure them that you are not lying where you are going, that’s there’s no reason you would lie. Maybe by sending pics of where you are will let them trust you.

The best course of action if somebody disbelieves something you can prove, such as your location, is to show them you are trustworthy and telling the Truth. Rather than getting frustrated with them disbelieving you, tell them you'll call them when you get there, send them pictures to show where you are. After a few times, you should build enough trust for your family member to believe you without convincing.

Show them your Google maps location and take pictures? Siblings tend to tease each other so it could be you are being taunted, in which case try to ignore it. Hope you resolve it!

This has happened to me before with my mom. I found it easiest to let her track my phone so she would always know where i was. This is also helpful in case I was in an accident and was not able to call out for help she would know where i was.

Assertively tell your family member that you are going out and you will see them when you come back home.

This happened to me all the time in my mid-teens. When this happened, I sat down with my family member and looked them in the eye and told them the truth. If you have a history of lying about where you go or what you do, it's vital to acknowledge that. Here is what I said: "Mom/Dad, I know that in the past, I've lied about the things I do, but I want to try to move forward and build trust with you. I know it's hard to believe me because of my past mistakes, but this is honestly where I'm going." It's important to look them in the eyes when you have conversations like this so they know you are wanting to be honest. Sometimes it can help to tell them when you are leaving, when you are coming back, and who you are going with. Move forward and build trust.

I usually tend to look at why the other person feels insecure and is not able to trust. A lot of times I am reminded that we are mere reflections of oneself, it is likely that they are having a hard time trusting themselves. I would continue to be open and truthful in my responses to him/her. Sometimes it takes time to build or earn trust. And if I did not feel that I was being heard or validated for my consistent and open honesty, I would express how the person is making me feel by repeatedly not believing what I tell them.

If a family member thinks you are lying about where you're going when you're not, I say you should confront them and ask them on the reason why they don't believe you. I would show proof on where I am going. Say, you are going out with your friends to a restaurant and your parents still don't believe you, show them the text messages. Ask them the reason for their disbelief, but be gentle about it. Parents may not all be this way but if they are, then I say you should use this method. Don't get hurt if they say that, however.

Tell them the truth about where you are going and why and if they still don’t believe you then ask a friend or someone you were with to tell them as well that you were there with them. If that doesn’t work and you have an iPhone you’re family member can track where you are on your phone and that will show them that you were not lying and that they owe you an apology. If they still don’t try telling them in a kind manner that you where actually not there. If they don’t believe you take a picture of the place you are and show your family member that you where there.

Dealing with someone’s lack of trust in what you tell them can be very difficult and frustrating. When confronted by someone not believing me, I used to get defensive and angry, which only fueled the confrontation. While it may be important to verify where you have been, especially if you are underage or under your parents roof, it is also important to remember to protect your own emotional and mental health. Defend yourself, but remember that you do not need to soothe someone’s inability to trust you when you are honest and straightforward. They are dealing with their own insecurities and laying them on to you. Remember that the truth always wins out, so if you are honest and consistent you will be okay.

You can allow them to investigate; show them your phone location's tracking records. You can address the cause of their upset. Maybe they were worried about you, or afraid of losing you. You can thank them for their love and care for your safety. On the other hand, if this family member is being toxic, and coming from a place of trying to control you, it might not be a bad idea to calmly and firmly tell them that you need your own space. Or, keep walking on eggshells around them. On the surface you can reassure them that yes, they do know better, and they have control, again and again, until they relax. It's possible to say what people want to hear without losing power.

Address the situation to them honestly. Try to speak to them about what may be causing them to think this way of you. Although the situation is upsetting that you aren't trusted, try to help them understand that their thoughts of you are misleading. Show them proof if needed be that you are where you claim to be by sending a picture to them of where you went. This will help them begin to trust you more often and can help build a trustworthy relationship. Regardless of what your family thinks of you, always believe in yourself. Hope this helps.

Have an open conversation about why they think you are lying about going out. This will help get to the bottom of the lack of trust surrounding this topic. Learning about why they do not believe you could help you find a way to get their trust or it could open their eyes to how you are feeling regarding them lying about where you are. Sometimes their is a deeper reason for why people believe what they do so by addressing this issue head on you could get insight into that reason. This will make finding a solution to this issue a lot more manageable.

Explain I have no reason to lie, I’m an honest person, who has nothing to hide. It’s unfortunate that you have misgivings about my credibility. I find lying a deceptive trait, and would not want someone to lie to me about the whereabouts. We can discuss this later, after II have completed my errand later this afternoon. You can explain why you feel suspicious of me, and hopefully we can get this cleared up so it’s not a problem in the future. Enjoy the rest of your day, and keep in mind that I’m part of your team. Have a nice afternoon.

You can calmly ask them as to why they think that you are lying to them. Get to know the reason and later assure them that you are not lying and that there is no reason to lie. Communication is essential my friend. It is ok for them to think this way but I am glad that you noticed this and have decided to speak to them openly. Be open as they are your family. You can show them your best behavior and eventually they may stop feeling that you are lying to them. Good luck my dear friend

Sometimes earning trust is very hard once it's been broken. When my parents would do something similar with me, I'd look at the situation from their perspective. For example, if I was going to the library to study and my family members think I'm going to somebodies house to make poor choices, I'd think about why they think this. In a situation like the one I listed, a family member would probably think this because of past choices or even just the way you portray the situation. A good thing to do is show, not tell. Rather then saying "I'm going to the library to study" Say something like "Hey ___ I hope you son't mind but im at/going to the library to study___." Then when you get there send them some pictures or take pictures to show them later. Also, sometimes when I try and convince my parents about where I am, they think I'm getting defensive because I am lying. If possible, try to stay calm and unbothered when discussing things with the family member. I hope this helps and anybody with this issue can resolve it! stay safe :))

Talk to them. Try to understand why they think you're lying and try to understand their reasoning for that conclusion. Once you have those two things, try to resolve whatever misconceptions they have.

If anyone thinks you are lying, then there are trust issues involved in the relationship and lack of communication. Communicate with the family member and discuss why there are trust issues involved.

show them where you are goning if you going witha friend or somoene get them to tell your family and give proof where ever you can

You are probably dealing with trust issues. Try to talk about it with your relative and find the source of the problem.

I need to talk to a family member about his concerns, what doubts he has about my path, and what he sees as the best path for me. For my part, I promise to think over and heed his advice, to discuss the problem again in the near future. in most cases, an outside perspective helps us to find the right path, often we do not see the real picture, so we need to thank the family member for participating and listen to his opinion if it turns out to be acceptable. Sometimes this opinion contradicts our ideas, then you will have to defend your position, logically justifying

If they don't trust you and think you are lying, the only thing you can do is ask how to help them trust you. There are apps on phones that show where someone is, you could have a friend who is there with you (if there is one) take a picture with you to prove you are at the place you said. Otherwise, I don't have any ideas. It is really up to the person who doesn't trust you. They have their ways of gaining trust, ask and find them out, then show them you can be trusted. If you haven't done anything to show them that you can't be trusted, then you should be okay. If you have a past of lying and being untrustworthy, it may take time.

tell them in all honesty about where you're going. remind them that they know your character and the type of person you are including what you are capable of

Setting clear boundaries for what is your responsibility and what is not is very important - for you and for the other person. We are responsible FOR ourselves and our actions, we have a responsibility TO others, but we are not responsible FOR them. A candid conversation can explain to a family member your feelings about them not believing you, and talk about why they don’t believe you. It is considerate to be reassuring but it is not your job to change their mind. If you are telling the truth and they still don’t believe you it is only a reflection of their current state of mind.