A family member thinks I am lying about where I am going but I'm not, what should I do?

Maybe suggest that a family member should come with you to prove that you are going where you say your going. After that they may trust you more. You could also take time to build up your trust between that family member and yourself.

Gaining trust from a family member is difficult once broken. First, I’d say it’s none of their business where you go to begin with. However, that’s not the right response. Personally, I’ve had to deal with a close one’s trust as well and the best thing I can suggest is to show proof and give plenty of reassurance. Tell them the time frames if possible and be punctual as it’ll help them see you’re doing everything you can to prove yourself. When they get on you about “not being where you should be”, don’t freak out and get angry on them about it. Calmly defend yourself so it doesn’t burn those bridges of them herring you out.

Tell them to trust you and reassure them you're not lying. If they continue thinking you're not being honest, show them proof. Maybe even ask why they don't believe you; sometimes that will make them realize they're being unfair if they're assuming the worst when they shouldn'tbe.

Prove to them that you are not and gain there trust so they can trust you when you are going somewhere

These are some possible actions which you can possibly take:- 1.) Track as why that family member is thinking like that, some past incidents maybe. 2.) Establish more trust with surrounding family members and try to somehow influence that particular member. 3.) Have a common friend who can go with you and maybe prove that you are right. 4.) If that member is not your parent , then maybe your parents can help you. fact :- people want to hear what they already believe.

I would ask them where this mistrust in them had come from. If it is from somewhere where you have done something to break their trust I would apologize for that instance and tell them why you would not do it again. I would also say that you are wanting to work back up to their trust and ask them what you could do to build their trust back again. If you haven’t done anything previously to break their trust I would respectfully remind them of that and say that you respect them and their rules and do not wish to put them into a uncomfortable situation by lying to them.

That sounds really difficult! It can be a really hard thing to deal with, and sometimes make you feel hurt or angry. It may help you to remember that people all act and think differently based on their own life experience. There are so many years of experiences that may be leading your family member to think this way. Sometimes there's not much we can do to convince people, or control their thoughts and feelings. If they are not willing to believe you, and you feel you've done all you can, you may need to come from a place of compassion and understanding and try your best to let go of what they choose to believe. If you feel the need, you may be able to show them something that will further build their trust in you for the future? In the end, if you're telling the truth and they are choosing to distrust you, the only thing you can control is your own reaction. I hope this helps!

That stinks. I am sorry you are going through that. Is it possible to ask them the reason they think you are lying? And then to share that it upsets you? also let them know that you are honest and are concerned that their doubt in your honesty breaks down trust in the relationship which is important for any relationship? How would that feel to have that dialogue? And then there is always the option of providing proof, though Id recommend starting with a dialogue. Often we need to first understand the reasoning people think or feel the way that they do in order to then really address the underlying cause/doubt.

If you truly aren’t lying. I would try and tell the family member how I feel. Sometimes talking things over with the person who doesn’t trust you can help them realize you are telling the truth. If that doesn’t change their mind I would try to take a step in their shoes and try to see in their point of view why they wouldn’t trust me. E.g. you’ve lied about this before. If there isn’t anything you can think about as of why they wouldn’t trust you. Ask them why and don’t be shy because talking to them about how you feel can really make a difference, but do what YOU think you should do.

Kindly tell them that they need to have more trust in you. Though it may seem like your family member is against you they most likely just want what’s best for you and your safety. Sometimes they’re scared and don’t know how to voice that properly. Talk it out and see how you feel after. If they still feel the same way, try talking and telling them that you wouldn’t do such things and that they need to look back and see what type of person you are and that you aren’t one to do something like that?Just talk to them!

Ask yourself why they don’t trust you. If you gave them many reasons to not trust you previously, and you have changed be patient with them. If not, ask yourself why they are the way they are and if they are people you should be spending time with If you can, prove that you are telling the truth; if you can't, don't worry about it, you know that you are telling the truthConsistently tell the truth. Be careful to ensure everything you say is a material fact and do not make statements unless you are sure something is true. Point out that family Judgements maybe flawed as it is emotionally biased and advise them to hire an independent forensics professional to prove or disprove their claim against you.

To gain trust, you have to be transparent, so it's easy to believe you have no reason to hide. If a family member thinks you're lying, then you'll need to observe how you are presenting yourself to make them think you are hiding something, or not giving them the information they need to feel you are truthful. Ask your relative what they need to feel comfortable about you going to your destination. Remember, they are watching out for you safety. Have you been known to lie? Then you'll have to improve your credibility to gain their trust. As you mature, you'll begin to see different perspectives on life. These different perspectives will help you understand what they might be seeing that you aren't.