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Bon voyage, feed! The feed is retiring today

Jill7Cups November 4th, 2019

A few months ago we announced we would no longer be spending time on the feed and the bugs associated. The day has come where we retire the feed for good and remove it from the platform. We know some love the feature and will be sad to see it go and we get that. Thank you for being understanding and realizing that sometimes we have to make tough decisions for the greater good of the site.

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tluper6491 November 5th, 2019

But I made possibly the most important friend in my entire life and I can't talk to her anymore. This is all I have.

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MonBon November 5th, 2019

@tluper6491

You can make a thread in our diary entries & connections subforum with your friend

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Dawn04 November 5th, 2019

@MonBon Forums are far less private....and as one of many people who have dealt with a stalker, not a solution.

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tluper6491 November 6th, 2019

@Dawn04

Exactly. I don't feel comfortable having open public discussions with my friend. That's how we became such close friends, I could talk to her comfortably about anything and in confidence my privacy (as well as her's) would be respected. I didn't even feel comfortable using the feed to talk to her because it felt too public. We can't send private messages to non-listeners, her listener account doesn't exist anymore, so now without even the feed to talk to her, our friendship is effectively just over now because we have absolutely no way to contact each other. And again, this was probably the most important friend I could ever have. I'm NEVER going to find anyone I can relate to as much. I can't become a listener myself so we can talk because I'm a worthless idiot who can't take care of himself much less listen to other people's problems and I can't just make an account just to talk to her and ignore anyone else who wants to talk to me.

So in other words I've lost the only person on the planet I can truly talk to now. I have nobody. Talking to her on the forum isn't an option because anybody can read it. So by removing the feed my only real friend is now completely gone and I have no way to directly contact her without the entire world seeing it.

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tluper6491 November 6th, 2019

@tluper6491

Now I can't even see who I'm following, even if I wanted to make a public thread how am I supposed to tag her if I don't have her screen name? I can't even do that.

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jennysunrise8 November 6th, 2019

@tluper6491

how much of her screen name do you remember i could try to find her rarelycharlie has a search tool for members i think it would work with just knowing most of her screen name but you can pm me if youd like to and i could try to help

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MonBon November 7th, 2019

@Dawn04

The forums are actually more private than posting to your feed, just an FYI. I know it's not a 1-1 solution, I was just trying to provide an alternative.

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Dawn04 November 7th, 2019

@MonBon I can block people from contacting me and what was my feed - I can't do the same in forums.

[Edited by Anomalia for unsupportive content]

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MonBon November 7th, 2019

@Dawn04

They could see everything you posted, so what you posted was not private. That is what I mean. It is much harder to find someone's forum posts than it is to visit their profile and read all of their feed posts.

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tluper6491 November 6th, 2019

@MonBon

How am I supposed to do that if I can't find her account?

tluper6491 November 7th, 2019

@MonBon

I made a thread and it got deleted. What else can I do? This friend means the world to me and I have nobody else.

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MonBon November 7th, 2019

@tluper6491

hey there! Can you pm me? I can restore deleted thread but I need more information.

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LittleLotte November 5th, 2019

As soon as the feed stopped working, I used the site less. Now there is no feed at all I don't see any point in using it at all. Such a sad day.

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DarkCoffee November 5th, 2019

Hugs @LittleLotte heartsmiley

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Rainbow701 November 5th, 2019

@Jill7Cups

With the feed, with the "support network" retire as well?

I'm wondering because this is where I have a lovely list of friends and supporters that I could use to tag in forum posts.

Thanks a bunch <3

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MonBon November 5th, 2019

@ThankYouForLettingMeTryingToHelp

It's your list of followers and who you're following on the feed

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MonBon November 5th, 2019

@SkySeaTurtle

I recommend copying that list and storing it elsewhere for now. The follow feature will be removed which likely means your list of followers and following will be removed as well.

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00Nyx00 November 5th, 2019

@Jill7Cups

I'm really sorry to hear that, feed was one of my favourite features on here. I just hope this update brings us more good <3

RumpleSteeleSkin November 5th, 2019

@Jill7Cups

not cool......nocryingcryingcrying

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Rainbow701 November 5th, 2019

@RumpleSteeleSkin

*hugs Rumple*

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Mentalgirl November 5th, 2019

@Jill7Cups When will this all occur?

neverendingwaves November 5th, 2019

Sad, angry in a sense but I guess nothing I feel will stop it from disappearingsad.

Feed was like a calm breeze whenever I felt plagued with lot of thoughts in my head.going to miss lot of people associated with feeds.feed friends😭😭😭😭

Greater good ????but I guess my heart wants to think selfish and whine😭😂.

amiablePeace77 November 5th, 2019

@Jill7Cups

Thanks for letting us know Jill. With all the issues it makes sense.

PetiteSouris November 5th, 2019

@Jillcups

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Daisy7cups November 5th, 2019

Feed you will be missed 💞. Thanks for motivating me everyday, brightening my days and giving me a space to write. Hugs, u are loved and will be missed.

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AbbyHarris1976 November 6th, 2019

@niceDaisy36

I know, right? crying I'm really gonna miss it, too ... and it's gonna be difficult to improvise. It can be done, though yes

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Daisy7cups November 6th, 2019

@AbbyHarris1976

Yes I know it will be difficult, as the feed was so dear to all of us. But am sure, things will be fine☺💞, hugs.

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