Bio
1) My response times are slow. Even when I am working on making them faster, if you talk with me please note there will be delays. Thank you for your patience and understanding.
2) I help myself when I help you.
3) I had a 7Cups Gmail e-mail address, but I deleted it from this Profile page on 06/Feb/2020 because it is NOT OK to publish it here.
4) Some issues with my Username:
- 08/August/2019: On this day, I found out that "ThankYouForLettingMeTryingToHelp" should be instead ThankYouForLettingMeTryToHelp. It seems the first one is Grammarly incorrect in English. I am sorry for my mistake. Thank you for pointing it out, @Nada and @DestroyingAngel.
- 18/October/2019: On this day, a 7Cups Member told me this: "Your name is still incorrect. ThankYouForLettingMeTryingToHelp. We all know that if you are "trying" you are not doing. A man should not try his best, a man should do his best. Your name subconsciously sends a message that you will "try" which implies failure is the most likely outcome. ThankYouForLettingMeHelp would be much more appropriate and will send a positive message that you will help."
- 14/November/2019: On this day, a 7Cups Member told me this: "Saying "trying to help" means you will do your best expecting nothing from those you encounter. The way your username is written seems perfect. To me it seems humble and that you know that not everyone can be helped."
5) Apart from being a Verified Listener and an Intern Graduate, my other roles on 7Cups are OR have been:
- Safety Patrol (flagging of inappropriate Listener profiles) {2022.10.25}
- Member of the DJ Team (leaded by @Caringbrit) {2022.10.25}
- Community Leader: Room Supporter -> Healthy Living Support Community; 35 & Over Community; Positivity & Gratitude Community {2022.10.25}
- Forum Supporter {2022.10.25}
- Peer Supporter {2022.10.25}
6) Some useful Links: (thank you @versatileStrings1578 for your help on the update of the list!!)
Inside 7Cups:
- Listener Topic Library -----> Manuals on how to handle all types of chats, written by listeners
- Listener Suggestion Box -----> Suggest ways to help improve the site, or how to address any problems you see (For any bugs or glitches, use this separate form)
- Everything I need to know I learned from my bunny ------> If you ever get disheartened, refresh yourself with some leporine wisdom
- Kane’s FAQ -----> Everything you could possibly ask for in a guide to this site
- Farheen’s Guide -----> The best active listening guide there is. Fact.
- Pink’s Distractions -----> All different types of self-harm distraction websites and techniques
- International Suicide Hotlines -----> Handy to have close by you when you listen
- Listener Support Guides Master List
Outside 7Cups:
- World Time Buddy ----> We are a global community, and we work in a lot of different time zones. Most things are organised in EST (New York’s time zone), and it can be useful to have some help working out what time it is for the people you are talking to, or when events are happening.
- Copypastecharacter.com -----> It helps to cheer up drab forum posts ✌
7. thankyouforlettingmetryingtohelp.youcanbook.me -----> This WAS the link to book an appointment with me. I am keeping it here just for the records, BUT I AM NOT USING IT ANYMORE :(
8. I also kept a Diary on 7Cups, which has been deleted. Info I have been given about this, by the person who performed the deletion, may not be allowed to be published here.