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...See more Hi guys its @MonBon here posting this weeks pre-planned discussion from @AriannaPink lets get started! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Hello Trauma Sub-Community!!! It is I @AriannaPink (Arianna, Ari, or Aria) here with another check-in for you guys! Before we begin though I just wanted to ask how your guys week has been? I hope you all have had a wonderful week so far, and continue to have a great week! But if you havent, thats okay too as we all have bad days so thats normal, however I hope your week starts to improve for you soon! 🤗💗… Now if you missed last weeks check-in, and would like to tune in on what story was given, and what we last discussed please feel free to click here! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaticExperiencesCommunity_60/TraumaSupportCheckins_1095/TraumaticExperiencesCommunityDailyCheckinWednesdayNovember13th2019_212153/] Otherwise lets just jump right in to our main check-in question so we can get started with our story for the week! Main Check-In Question: How are you doing today overall? Okay now that thats out of the way, get cozy and comfy everyone because we will be starting the story time shortly! Quick Little Disclaimer: For today only our story is not edited because neither myself or @MonBon thought it was necessary to do so because we noticed no graphic content. So if you feel like its not worth the risk please answer the Main Check-in Question listed above ⬆️, and then click off here [https://www.7cups.com/] for your own mental health. Otherwise feel free to carry on with todays check-in! 😁… Also many thanks to both Christina for putting her story out there, and to the National Domestic Violence Hotline [https://www.thehotline.org/] for posting stories like hers on their blog that is connected to their website to inspire people every single day! They are an incredible resource so if you guys ever want or need to know any information or advice regarding domestic abuse I recommend going to their website which I connected their link to their name right up there! ⬆️... Now without further ado here is Christinas Story which is from a witnesss point of view living in a domestic abuse filled household at one point. By the time I was six, I knew the drill all too well. There would be a little bit of yelling, things would be thrown about and Dad would strike Mom. She would cry and apologize and I would hide. That was my job, when things got ugly I was to be invisible and I had gotten incredibly good at it. A few years later, it was important for me to be visible and to cry for help because the strongest woman I know was at her weakest moment in life. She was being choked and didnt have a voice. I was afraid for her life and got help the only way I knew how – by dialling 9-1-1. The police came. They handcuffed Dad and put him in the police car – this wasnt the first time they had been called to our house on account of domestic violence, but it was the first time that Moms friends decided that it was time to get involved. They knew some of what went on at our house. They could hear it and they knew that the police had been to our house before. But they were never willing to talk to Mom about it. Maybe they didnt know what they would say to her or maybe they felt as if it wasnt their place to say anything. But one thing is certain: Mom couldnt escape the abuse alone. Dad owned her. Her self-esteem was at an all time low and she really believed she was good for nothing. She was afraid to leave – afraid that would put her (and me) in more danger than just enduring the pain. He paid for everything we had and was financially responsible for us. And, above all else, she truly loved him. It would have been difficult for her to make it on her own and she didnt know the first step in getting out safely. She was never willing to press charges and, as a result, Dad never had to sit in jail for long. Moms closest friends were aware of this and went to work quickly. They reminded her of what she had and helped boost her confidence. They gave her the willpower she needed to change her thinking from ‘I cant to ‘I can. They told her that his behaviour was not okay and reminded her that she had a small child who was looking up to her as an example to life. Mom cried. She didnt want to continue living this way, but she didnt know how to get out, shed been living this way for so long that it had become the norm for her. Moms good friend offered to let us live at her house, at least for a while, until we could figure something else out. Her friends encouraged her to move – to get out. They promised her theyd hide our location from him. They promised we wouldnt be alone. Her friends helped her pack up our whole lives into a few boxes and we escaped to another town. Mom was saving herself, she was saving me, and she was doing what she had to do. She is one of the strongest women I know. I often think about how different life would have been for both of us had Moms friends not gotten involved. I suspect that Mom would have continued to repeat the Battered Wife Syndrome week after week, month after month and year after year. Mom couldnt do it alone. She didnt have the strength; she didnt have the finances and she didnt have the know-how. Domestic violence IS everybodys issue. Many women dont know the first step to take. They need a friend. A friend they can trust; a friend who is willing to help, willing to listen without blame. Our new life would not have been possible without the help of Moms friends. Know your neighbors; know your friends. If someone is hurting your friend or family member, it IS your business. Get involved. Stop domestic violence NOW! Now to finish up this check-in I have a couple of questions for you guys... #1. What was your favorite part of this story? And #2. How do you feel after reading this story? Thank you so much everyone for reading this story, participating in this check-in, and taking a chance on me! I will hopefully see you guys soon!!! - @AriannaPink Heres our lovely GIF for this week to keep our little tradition alive! 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...See more Hi everyone! In October, we had an open house for leadership opportunities at 7 cups. You can read about it here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SiteUpdates_100/Leadershipandvolunteeropportunitiesat7Cups_1867/OpenHouseOctober192019AskQuestionsaboutLeadershipOpportunities_209882/]. Here is a transcript of the questions and answers from that meeting. Q: What's one thing you would say to someone that wants to take on a leadership role? A: Put self-care first and take only as much as you can handle Make sure the role you pursue is one you're passionate about as you're going to enjoy the role a lot more and be able to make more of an impact if you care about what you're doing Q: How to acquire forum supporter? A: So to learn about forum supporter just visit this thread: www.7cups.com/forum/ProjectsEvents_184/ForumTeam_686/UpdatedForumLeadershipApplications_51746/1/ [http://www.7cups.com/forum/ProjectsEvents_184/ForumTeam_686/UpdatedForumLeadershipApplications_51746/1/] The role is to essentially provide support via forum supports in 1-3 topics of your choice. this can range from solely responding, to check-ins, and even to creating your own content Q: Can you explain Editorial Assistant (member of the content volunteer team), Marketing Assistant, and Member Support Room Guide? A: These roles are not active Q: How do I get the actual forum supporter badge? A: After three months of being a forum supporter in a subcommunity, you can apply for a global badge here: https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ForumTeam_686/GlobalForumModerationApplication_139963/ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ForumTeam_686/GlobalForumModerationApplication_139963/] Alternatively, if you are a forum supporter for a forum category that does not yet have a subcommunity. You can get it right off the bat. Q: How many roles can a listener have at maximum? A: There isn't an exact guideline on that, however we encourage everyone to be mindful of how much they're taking on and drop things as necessary. For example, we encourage people to limit themselves to only one mentor leader level position, and you can only formally be on 3 group support or forum teams. Q: How can I learn more about what it's like to be a listener? A: You can connect with a quality mentor and take mock chats. Q: What are the requirements to become a listener? A: The only requirements to become a listener are being 15+ and going through a short training. There are no auto-removal requirements to maintain your listener account. Q: Do I have to take a certain number of chats at a time? A: No, in fact we encourage you do not take many chats at a time. Q: If I want to be a listener do I have to create a listener account that is separate from my current member account? A: Yes. Q: How long does the training take? A: It is not very long. Generally, you can complete it one sitting. Q: what are the 5 most important things a listener need to have when being on a leadership role? A: This largely depends on the role. But I would say: Patience, Maturity, Professionalism, Highly Motivated, and Passionate. Q: How often does a mod need to be present in the rooms? A: Volunteer mods must send 100 messages in the group support rooms Q: When I set up a listener account do I get to choose a username? Should it be same as my member name? A: You get to choose a username, and you can't make it the same. We prefer you make it dissimilar, as they have to be different for confidentiality. You can change your username for up to 2 weeks after creating your account. Q: Do listeners primarily use their listener accounts? A: It depends. Many people have both, but many also use one account more than other Q: Could I transfer my member role as forum supporter to my listener account if I get one? A: No you could not, it needs to be separate. Behavior points do not transfer between accounts either Q: Can a member support a chatroom discussion as a leader? A: As of right now you have to be a member room supporter [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/RoomSupporter_1769/MemberRoomSupportersRequirementsandApplication_186045/]. These applications are currently on hold as we audit roles, but we hope to open it back up soon. Q: What leadership roles are open to members? A: There are many! There is forum supporter, forum member leader, forum project leader, welcoming team member, team member, Q&A, etc. The forum track is fully member inclusive, but there are opportunities for members in other tracks as well. Q: Are there any new leadership roles in the works? A: Possibly! Things are always changing Q: What is the "feed team"? A: a feed team member is someone who promotes their community on the feed: www.7cups.com/member/feed.php [http://www.7cups.com/member/feed.php]. However, this role is no longer active. Q: How do I know if I would be a good listener? A: We have quality mentors and listener coaches to help you and people called chat supports which are specific for helping with live chats Q: The feed is not being updated. Its defunct? A: there are some bugs that will not be fixed, but it does still function generally and people still use it, but it is not being updated, no Q: Is the site in need of listeners or are there too many? A: The site is always in need of quality listeners and leaders Q: I do not understand why more work is not being focused on the app? Do more people access Cups through the website? A: We have a team dedicated to working on the app. We are hoping to release the new version soon Q: Can Listeners use another language to reply? A: Yes, with the exception of the chatrooms. English must be used in these spaces for moderation purposes. Q: What is the most needed leadership role? I guess it's in forums? A: it depends on what you are interested in, Someone doing a role they really enjoy is going to benefit the site more than just filling in a role. Forums do have the widest options for members interested though Q: I'd like to know about the team member A: Team member is a very flexible role. It is often used in the interim between wanting to do a role and being trained for it. It can be tailored to whatever it is you want to help with and the community needs. I recommend reaching out to the community mentor leader of the community you're interested in being a team member for, and if there isn't a community mentor leader then reach out to me and I can find the right person to plug you in. they can talk to you about your interests and their need and craft the role that is best for you Q: Im curious about the partnership and training/skills involved to become a community health worker through Cups. A: This program has not launched yet, we are still fundraising to get it off the ground. You can go to 7cups.org/empower for updates Q: How can I become a group mod? A: Listeners interested in becoming a group mod can start with the room supporter program. Learn more about the requirements and apply here: www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/RoomSupporter_1769/ListenerRoomSupporterRequirementsandApplication_170262/ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/RoomSupporter_1769/ListenerRoomSupporterRequirementsandApplication_170262/] Q: Can members become room supporters? A: Yes! The applications are currently not being processed as we audit the role, but members can learn about the requirements and apply here: https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/RoomSupporter_1769/MemberRoomSupportersRequirementsandApplication_186045/ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/RoomSupporter_1769/MemberRoomSupportersRequirementsandApplication_186045/] Q: How long does it take to become a room supporter? A: We try to process applications within 2 weeks. We recently adjusted our training method and are hoping to tighten up turnaround time. Q: What are the current opportunities for this month? A: October's Help Wanted post can be found here: www.7cups.com/forum/HelpWanted_188/HelpWantedOctober2019_1996/HelpWantedOctober2019_209715/ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/HelpWanted_188/HelpWantedOctober2019_1996/HelpWantedOctober2019_209715/] However, if you are interested in a different team or community that is not listed here, feel free to reach out to the leader of that team or @MonBon to see if there is an opportunity for you to join. Q: Why should I become a leader? A: Becoming a leader gives you access to additional training materials and helps you to develop skills that you can use both on 7 cups and in real life. Q: What kind of support exists for leaders? A: Other leaders are always willing to lend a hand or answer a question. Please feel free to reach out! Q: What leadership roles exist for teens? A: Teens can take on many roles ranging from just about anything: forum, group support, teen star, internship, help wanted and many more. Q: Can you elaborate on the forum opportunities for teens? A: Teens come become forum supporters and even teen stars / member leaders for 1-3 communities of their choice. Once they are a forum supporter or teen star / member leader, they can apply to be a project agent for the forum team, assisting the forum ambassadors in maintaining the global direction of the forums. Learn more about the forum supporter process here: https://www.7cups.com/forum/ProjectsEvents_184/ForumTeam_686/UpdatedForumLeadershipApplications_51746/1/ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ProjectsEvents_184/ForumTeam_686/UpdatedForumLeadershipApplications_51746/1/] Learn more about forum leadership opportunities here: https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjects_124/ForumTeam_686/ForumLeadershipOpportunities_142533/ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjects_124/ForumTeam_686/ForumLeadershipOpportunities_142533/] Q: Can you elaborate on teen star? A: Teen star is a mentor level position for teen listeners. There are six tracks, which you can learn more about in this lovely post by @AveryLove: https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/MentorTeenStarSection_1964/TeenStarTracksInfosRequirements_205069/ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/MentorTeenStarSection_1964/TeenStarTracksInfosRequirements_205069/] [Listener only link] Members interested in a mentor level position can currently only become forum member leaders. Q: Where can I find the list of teen stars? A: Adults will see mentors and teens will see teen stars when they visit this link: https://www.7cups.com/listener/listenerMentors.php [https://www.7cups.com/listener/listenerMentors.php] [listener only link] Q: What is the role of a team member? A: This varies from community to community and what the leader specifically needs, but in general: Create a supportive environment in your community by creating content and supporting others in the forum and / or group support rooms Q: What is a mega member? A: A mega member is a member with a leadership role. For example, if you are a forum supporter or room supporter on a member account, you are also a mega member and have access to the mega member room. Q: How do I become a Peer Support? A: A peer support is a listener role focused on offering emotional support to listeners associated with chats, such a compassion fatigue or triggering content. Learn more and apply here: www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/PeerSupportForum_397/PeerSupportBadgeGetInvolvedSupportTheCommunity_2474/1/ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/PeerSupportForum_397/PeerSupportBadgeGetInvolvedSupportTheCommunity_2474/1/] Q: What are support teams and support team leader? A: support teams are teams that are made up of mods, discussion leaders and room supporters so more often than not each room has a support team. Then each support team has a leader to supervise that team and its room(s) Q: Do I have to be a room supporter before I can become a mod? A: Yes Q: I was thinking about becoming a listener and was wondering how much time I should put into it? A: It's completely up to you as there are no time requirements or things like that. The most important thing is that you establish strong boundaries and prioritize self care. Q: What are cheers and compassion hearts? A: Cheers and compassion hearts are a tangible way of seeing your impact on 7 cups. You earn cheers by participating on the site, such as by taking a self-help course, posting in the forums, or participating in a chat. The most common way to earn a compassion heart is by having your message hearted in a group support or 1-on-1 chat. Learn more about member reputation here: https://www.7cups.com/about/memberReputation.php [https://www.7cups.com/about/memberReputation.php] Learn more about listener reputation here: https://www.7cups.com/about/faqBadgesCheers.php [https://www.7cups.com/about/faqBadgesCheers.php] Q: What do I do if there is a chatroom emergency? A: Please fill out the emergency mod form and / or reach out to the community mod on duty. Adult Emergency Mod Form: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1oKogEp4WA4qyWZRenJMPdvRv_yMVnI-LdOjq7GXja9U/viewform [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1oKogEp4WA4qyWZRenJMPdvRv_yMVnI-LdOjq7GXja9U/viewform] Teen Emergency Mod Form: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1sijqPn2TS9V4LhNprXzD2ScogSusmy7KmaugNXhXCcU/viewform [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1sijqPn2TS9V4LhNprXzD2ScogSusmy7KmaugNXhXCcU/viewform] Community Moderator Weekly Schedule: https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/CommunityModeratorWeeklySchedule_1640/CommunityModeratorWeeklyScheduleCurrent_197792/ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/CommunityModeratorWeeklySchedule_1640/CommunityModeratorWeeklyScheduleCurrent_197792/] Q: Where can I find additional training guides? A: https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php [https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php] Q: Can 7 cups count as service hours for my graduation? A: For official volunteer hours (for example, to present you your school), I would recommend the internship program. @Hope can serve as a contact reference and they will calculate your hours and things like that. otherwise, any listener can get certificates of their involvement on the training page: www.7cups.com/listener/training.php [https://www.7cups.com/listener/training.php]. You will need to confirm with your school if 7 cups can be used as official volunteer hours. Additionally, if you are applying for jobs or school applications, 7 cups can be included on your resume. Q: What is the internship program and how can I join? A: The internship program is for listeners wanting more structure to their volunteer experience. Reasons to become an intern include a) for evidence of volunteering, b) development of skills, c) for career development, etc. Learn more here: www.7cups.com/about/internships.php [https://www.7cups.com/about/internships.php] Q: What if I have questions after this meeting? A: You can reach out to MonBon and she will be happy to help! Q: I find it hard to meet all the requirements for the leadership roles. Any tips? A: For initial requirements, try to tackle them one at a time. Opportunities will still be there for you when you are ready, and taking things one at a time will help prevent burnout. Q: Are Peer Support applications being updated for listeners? It has been a while. A: There is a backlog, but we are working through them now. Q: On what basis will I be judged for the badge? A: Each leadership position has different requirements. Please reach out to @MonBon [http://7cups.com/@MonBon] and she can help you find the requirements for a specifc position. Q: How can I become more confident and not be afraid of failure? How to feel more confident in my abilities and accept my leadership skills? A: I recommend reaching out to a quality mentor. They can help you develop leadership skills, practice situations with you, and give you constructive feedback to help you grow. Learn more about our listener coaching program here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/QualityProjects_144/HaveyoutriedtheListenerCoachingProgram_208647/] [Listener only link]. Q: How do I balance between leadership roles and seeking support? (this question is from a member) A: This is a great question, I took the liberty of asking some of our superstar member leaders. @AffyAvo says: Take some time for seeking support exclusively. Sometimes it's useful to seek support in an area you're not involved with, whether that means going to the group chats if volunteering in the forums or vice versa or even going to a different category. Take a self-care break if life pressures are building up or volunteer roles feel like they are dragging you down. Make use of 1-1 chats. @TortueDesBois says: A good way to do it is to relate to other members when it's possible; and being welcoming to those entering doesn't prevent you from seeking support; you don't have to give support everyone all the time neither, just give it when you are in a mood for giving it and then receive it when you need it. being a leader is being a role model, and role of a member IS to receive support. Q: Are leaders forced to abandon listening? Why when they get in leadership roles they all stop take chats? A: Listeners are not forced to abandon listening when they get leadership positions. We actually try to encourage listeners to still make time for chats, but sometimes due to lifestyle or preference this is not possible. We understand this cam frustrating to the member community and are taking steps to improve the experience of finding a listener. Q: Why didn't I get the role I wanted? A: It is an unfortunate fact that sometimes you will work really hard and not end up getting the role you want. I cover this in my thread "Our Role As Volunteers [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/CommunityGuidelinesMissionCoreValues_141/OurRoleasVolunteers_200837/]" [Listener Only Link]. I will quote the portion of interest since members don't have access to the link: "It's great that you have done a lot for the site! They love to see our volunteers work hard on their projects. However, just as with any job in real life, not everyone will get a leadership position. They will look for the best candidates for a leadership position. As someone who onboards leaders regularly, I can tell you that we try our best to ensure everyone has the chance to become a leader if they want to, but people are recruited based on team needs and fit. At the end of the day being given a leadership is a privilege, not a right, and one that comes with a variety of expectations and responsibilities. 7 Cups allows you to volunteer for them, and if you are not meeting the expectations in some form or fashion, it is within their rights to remove your leadership position." Here is another thread that further discusses what should happen "When You Don't Get the Role You Want [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ChatSupportResources_61/Whenyoudontgettheroleyouwant_63953/]" [listener only link] Q: Are leadership positions only for listeners? A: No! There are numerous opportunities for members. Please see earlier in the trancript for some examples. Q: Why do listeners get badges and not members? A: Members can get badges as well. You can see all of them here: https://www.7cups.com/about/memberReputation.php [https://www.7cups.com/about/memberReputation.php] Q: Can you explain what a mega member is? A: A mega member is a member with a leadership role. For example, if you are a forum supporter or room supporter on a member account, you are also a mega member and have access to the mega member room. Q: How do I deal with a Identity disorder when I'm in school? A: That is a great question! I recommend creating a thread in our Gender Identity Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/LGBTQMOGIISupport_58/GenderIdentitySupport_771/] subforum. Tagging those from the form: @xdaidremex @rawalmamata @Sue95 @LexIris @Mashexhka @fearlessWriter78 @Lucy2

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So helpful! All the time - just an all around awesome person. Thank you so much!

Patient kind, and understanding. Thank you for the help on severa occasions and explainations 😊

Thank you MonBon for always being so helpful.

Very informative and helpful chat! It made me feel valued and important!

MonBon is awesome and she is so helpful with explaining things about 7Cups.

She's so nice and empathetic she gave me lots of tips :D great listener I truly recommend her I didn't feel judge at all

Careful explanations of some of 7cups quirks

Awesome listener! Keep being you! Never let anyone block out your light!!

So Positive, good person to talks...

Mon Bon - is great - very responsive and helpful!

she was very helpful ans solved my issue

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MonBon is a wonderful leader here, super supportive and was amazing at helping me problem solve some issues.

answered really fast, was able to enssure me she listened and understood what i needed and also offered support with useful directions around the community.

Thank you for your lovely caring nature, being kind and supportive and always willing to help others 😊 an absolute gem!!

Very few people can carry the weight of responsibilities with ease. Mon Bon is among those few. Its been great interacting with her

5 stars on all !

She is pretty good! I like her a lot

MonBon brings a lot of positive energy to 7cups. Talking with her is never stressful. She has a very compassionate and kind way of talking that makes it easy for someone to open up. -Rainmann.

great listener to talk with. really friendly and really helpful.

Friendly, helpful, open minded, and all around a great person. Would absolutely recommend them to anybody at all.

Super awesome - really helped me sort my stuff out.

She is very good at finding multiple ways to help and is very nice and cozy like a bunny

She is rapid in her replies and is sensitive and kind

Very helpful. Helped me solve my problems and made me want to look at life with a new perspective.

MonBon was extremely helpful and very empathetic. She really followed the details and asked difficult questions in a respectful manner. She thought outside of the box and made me feel like she cared about my situation. I would recommend her.

I felt very comfortable talking with this listener.

fantastic !!! she just opened me up and was very effective in helping me !!!!

Helped me on a time of need when despair and darkness were closing in on me, very intelligent and comprehensive. Hope to talk to her again in the near future =)

Most amazing person I have ever talked to. You are amazing Monica. Thank you.

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This girl is the most caring and amazing listener in the world! I only wish her the best in life! She talks to me and is soo smart and makes me feel so much better!! Thank you so much mon bon!

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Her help is getting me thru a very difficult time.

Took the time to read and reply. One of the better talks I had in the last few days.

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She is a wonderful human being. She will never know how much her help has done for me; it is beyond describing in mere words.

Very professional.

Great job, thank you for listening. :)

Your positive support is making a great difference to my life, thank you Mon.

I like her. she's sweet and professional

Thank you for listening to me and taking the time to understand how I feel.

I found it so easy to talk to her, she puts her heart into her answers like a real friend would.

She was absolutely fantastic. Great at helping to identify and guide me through personal issues.

Really honest and refreshing to talk to. I am so glad that I got the chance to chat with her. She also said it was okay to message back and forth if we were not free to chat at the same time, which helps a lot for me so I can tell her how I feel when I am down without waiting to chat again. I can't praise her highly enough.

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