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Shine Bright: I am SH-free for ____ Days

ASilentObserver March 29th

Well done! 💪✨  (Number) days free from self-harm is a significant accomplishment.  Please take a moment to acknowledge your strength and resilience and celebrate with us.

Here are a few points to reflect on and celebrate: 

  • What helped you stay strong these past few days? Was it a specific coping mechanism, a supportive person, or a personal mantra? Share your tips to inspire others.
  • What positive changes have you noticed since being SH-free? Maybe you have more energy, better sleep, or a renewed sense of hope. Reflect on the progress you've made.
  • What are you looking forward to in the future? Use this milestone as a springboard for setting new goals or focusing on activities you enjoy.
  • Write a message to your future self: What words of encouragement would you tell yourself for the days ahead?


Start sharing with us. We believe in you. 

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gorgeousgirly7867 April 10th

974 self harm free and trying not to break the streak happening

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ASilentObserver OP April 11th

@gorgeousgirly7867 That's soooo awesome, gorgeous. I am so proud of you. How are you feeling about being this many days without self-harming? Thank you for being here with us and know you are not alone in this. We are all here with you


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gorgeousgirly7867 April 11th

Its a struggle most days now

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ASilentObserver OP April 24th

@gorgeousgirly7867 We are here with you Girly. You are not alone in this. 

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Apeatrice April 27th

@ASilentObserver  I am clean for 3 days. *dance*

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ASilentObserver OP April 29th

@Apeatrice Congratulations and proud of you, apea. What do you think were the factors that helped you get through these three days?


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Apeatrice April 29th

@ASilentObserver

hugs, thanks for replying my post,obs.

lol *correction; I m clean for 0 days *



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LostGirl92 May 3rd

Today will hopefully be day 2, 315. Hopefully.

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ASilentObserver OP May 29th

@LostGirl92 YAyyyyy lost, one day at a time. You got this. I am here with you and rooting for you 

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SageFlower2008 May 27th

@ASilentObserver

I am self harm free for about 1 month

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ASilentObserver OP May 29th

@SageFlower2008 That is great to hear, Sage. We are all here with you and rooting for you. 

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AmyGrace55555 May 30th

@ASilentObserver 21 days, June 8 will mark a month!

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ASilentObserver OP May 30th

@AmyGrace55555 yay congratulations Amy. so proud of you and know we are all rooting for you. You got this. 

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AmyGrace55555 June 26th

@ASilentObserver I’m only 23 hours out now..

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surfer4124 June 26th

@ASilentObserver

i was 17 days clean and now it’s right back to 1 minute clean.

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AmyGrace55555 June 26th

@surfer4124 I am sorry to hear that. 🫂?

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surfer4124 June 26th

@AmyGrace55555

its okay, thank you. it’s not your fault that i messed up

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AmyGrace55555 June 26th

@surfer4124 No, but I understand what you are going through. We are going through the same ***.

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surfer4124 June 26th

@AmyGrace55555

thank you though. aw man, i’m sorry you’ve gone through this kind of stuff because it really is horrible. 

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AmyGrace55555 June 26th

@surfer4124 🫂?

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surfer4124 June 26th

@AmyGrace55555

not to sound rude, what does that mean? i’m a little slow 😭

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AmyGrace55555 June 26th

@surfer4124 Do you want a hug? Not a physical hug, but an internet version of a hug. It usually means someone cares.

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surfer4124 June 27th

@AmyGrace55555

ohhhh okay. i’m so slow omg loll. sure!

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AmyGrace55555 June 27th

@surfer4124 no worries needed. 🫂

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LabeledBPD July 22nd

@ASilentObserver

kinda crazy and very much falls into what’s your definition of self harm. For me it the complete commitment and planning to say goodbye 

last true self harm attempt, gotta be at least year or more. So self congratulation. If it’s something to congratulate when all said and done.

harm happens frequently but harm with effective outcomes, I’m a new me as the past is the only one who is keeping tabs


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@ASilentObserver

two days as of rn exactly. but idk if i can keep it that way 😭 my friends and cousin rlly help support me tho❤️

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AmyGrace55555 August 31st

@Phoenix1234theythem I’m here along with you!!! You aren’t alone about this! It’ll be okay. 🩷🩷🩷

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@AmyGrace55555

thank u🥹🩷🩷n guess what!! i stayed clean last night! so now im nearly at 2 days and 12 hours!

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AmyGrace55555 August 31st

@Phoenix1234theythem Letsgooooooooo!!!! We are rocking thissss. 🪨🪨🪨🪨🪨!!!!

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Phoenix1234theythem September 1st

In half an hour more I’m 3 entire days 🥹🥹

Phoenix1234theythem September 1st

3 days n an hour (:

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AmyGrace55555 August 31st

@ASilentObserver In 49 minutes exactly marks 24hrs!!! We are living and rocking 🪨🪨🪨!

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@AmyGrace55555

yessss so proud of u!! 💗

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AmyGrace55555 September 1st

@Phoenix1234theythem Hey! Checking in on you. How’s you?

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TipTipTip September 1st

And 1 year and trhee monts :)

TW

Even if sometimes i still impulsivly hurt me while i hit things and giving me bruises and i still estinguish cigarettes with hand, or I did some other self hurfull stuff like giving me heat stroke or ipotermy... i however consider it a big win, cause i stopped giving me scars, (you know what i mean) i realized that it is unfair, and I think don't deserve this, even if it keep me calm. And I want to emprove again, but I realized it comes with acknowledge of my feelings, that's not a main issues for me, that's a copying mechanism , and thinking about that, I know there is other copying mechanism more useful and less blameful for me