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Ask something much i guess
Trauma Support / by TipTipTip
Last post
 September 26th
...See more Hello everyone, I've been feeling the need to do it for a while and I've finally found the courage to ask you something, it's just a request, a "message in a bottle" that i'm trying to send it to everyone who can find it, hoping that someone thinks is good if it's possible. I am looking for someone to tell my story to, it would take time cause I'd really like to tell it all, I know perfectly that it isn't an appetizing request (why someone would torture himself random listening me talking about traumatic issues hahahah) and I feel I have to justify the fact that I don't do it out of self-centeredness I swear, I'm asking because I'm an extremely lonely person who feels having too much to bring back, and it wouldn't be enough a superficial chat every now and then. I don't have such an interesting story or an epic suffering, but in my mediocrity I really have a lot to process and I don't know how to do it. If at this point in this "letter in a bottle" someone thought they could do it, I want to say thank you, I don't have much to give you and I realize that I'm literally making some sort of listener announcement, but I'm not a self-centered person and I'm not looking for a monologue, I'd like to listen to you too, but I need someone willing to listen to what I have to say, even if it might take time, a friend, even if I'm asking, like a longterm listener but if I don't like this definition, it seems cold and distant to me. Thank you if you have read all this ♥️
Spider!
Hobby Zone / by TipTipTip
Last post
 September 21st
...See more I saw a giant spider, big as my thumb! He was so cool and I had to took a photo!
How do you speak to people?
20 & Over Community / by TipTipTip
Last post
 August 24th
...See more I have this problem: sometimes I can speak perfectly, I have a good language, (I am almost bilingual because I manage well in English and in fact I am here) and I am a person who in the past has read a lot, and who likes to study, in short, it is not the language it self that is the problem, it is speaking! It seems that I cannot communicate. Things take shape in my head and have a sense, I am sure they have, but then they come out wrong, and it is so with different topics! Who is like me? Can you feel what I mean? If I am talking about personal suffering, or an anecdote, I have a joke, or a story, regardless of what I have to say, I got trouble to express it, and I realize that people misunderstand or are sincerely confused, because I stumble, and trying to explain that I am stumbling because I am in difficulty create even more confusion! Sometimes I get by with a slight embarrassment because maybe I have just stuttered a little, other times, if I consider important what I have to say, it happens that my brain TURNS OFF the ability to communicate and I create a huge confusion because I realize that I am stuttering and I am stumbling, and people's not understanding and want to change topic, but that thing is important and so I try to fix it but stutter and stumble even more AND IT IS A DISASTER. And I feel frustrated and embarrassed... The feeling is exactly this, imagine that communicating is like taking a box and slowly taking out the objects from the box, well, I take one that slips from my hands and trying to grab it I bump the box that falls and while I move my hands to grab the objects that fall, those objects spreads disorderly on the ground. It feels exactly like this... However, I am 100% aware that it is not always like this, that at other times instead I am very fluent and I even result in being charismatic, in fact, I would not describe myself as a person who does not know how to communicate despite the title. For me is different from messages and for real life. Another communication problem of mine, is that I always have to tell the whole story, or the whole concept when I want to express my opinion, resulting in being dispersive, perhaps boring and less effective than I hope, my mother has pointed out to me that often people get lost when I talk in this way, and it makes me sad, maybe I am not used to talking to people? I am a girl without friends who hardly ever goes out so it is likely. It is not always like this, BUT since it happens too often for my taste, and when it happens it gets in the way of things that are very important to me, for example, my own therapy, I wanted to talk about it not to complain but to find a solution and hear how people with my same problem have faced or solved it! Maybe if i overcome it life could be a little easier so I can ask for help without stumbling. I have noticed that it is not so much with whom I am or where I am, I can speak very well with anyone and anywhere and I can also stutter. So maybe the problem is inside me?
Feel without escape
Trauma Support / by TipTipTip
Last post
 August 19th
...See more Hello everyone, help, I am in a lot of pain and I need someone to listen to me, I have so much to tell and it is a very long story, I know all of you are going through a difficult time and I wish you to find the peace and love you need to heal yourself, if someone would listen to me even though it might be long I would be very grateful, because I really don't know what to do anymore and how to continue, I might sound too needy, because I am... If someone could read this knowing my story and not find me ridiculous or pathetic, I think maybe I might have the right to raise my head again, I can't take it anymore feeling ashamed all the time, feeling and being told that it's wrong what I feel and my reactions, I don't even feel the right to burst into tears anymore and I would like to do that, I feel a great humiliation and I feel like I'm going to crush down and break, and maybe it would be better because the alternative is constantly feeling this burning. Thank you to every one who will read this and thank you so much if some feel like can help and listen. Love to you all.
Uffa
Icebreakers and Games / by TipTipTip
Last post
 August 8th
...See more Years ago with 4 euro I would have bought a pizza, now I can't Evan buy a beer.
Cartoons
Icebreakers and Games / by TipTipTip
Last post
 August 5th
...See more I'm 23 but still watch some cartoon, they are just hilarious! My favorite are gumball and zig and sharko, do you know them??
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