Course 2: Becoming a 7 Cups Leader - (Discussion #8) When you don't get the role you want
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Hello, students! Let's talk leadership!
Many of you have or will apply for certain roles that interest you! And some times we get it and some times we don't! It can be difficult to find out that we didn't get the role, but we can control how we react to it.
Here are some DOs and DON'Ts:
- DO talk to the leader of the role that you applied for and get some input on what you can/need to do in order to get the role next time! Be aware though most leaders of these roles are busy so give it some time!
- DON'T bring the issue into the support rooms. If you are upset, talking to a peer supporter about how you are feeling is ok!
- DO take some self-care, self-care is good for any occasion but its best to deal with those feelings of failure or disappointment outside of 7 cups, things like going on your member account can be so helpful to overcome some of these feelings
- DON'T think that you are obligated to stay on 7 cups right after finding out bad news, especially if you are in LSR/TL and you see other listeners who have gotten the role that you wanted! It can be hard to deal with and it can cause unneeded jealousy or hurt on your part! Not everyone is like this but if you think that this is a possibility that you can think this way staying away might be a great option!
- DON'T take it personally, everyone is ready at different times. It can be hard for us to realize this but just because someone got the role and they might have been here in less or the same amount of time doesn't mean that you personally are ready! Everyone grows and accomplishes things at different times!
- DO get a mentor, in general its a good idea to get a mentor but for things like your goals on 7 cups mentors can be great and helpful! They can give you feedback, do mock chats with you, and overall help you with your goals as I said before!
- DON'T think you have to apply for every role and every team out there! There is time you don't have to apply for everything! Its super easy to burnout that way, and that can lead to more "rejection" and hurt that none of us want!
*Never let not getting a role the first time discourage you! You will be told when you can apply again and use the feedback that you get to better yourself when you can/decide that you are ready to! practice makes perfect none for us are perfect and no one will ever be! Its a good thing to remember no matter your role as a listener your help is greatly appreciated and you are still helping so many people!*
Question: If you find out you were not given a role, how should you respond? What would you say to the leader who has informed you?
Activity: Please reply to 3 of your peers in this thread with encouraging or supportive words!
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@bookworm274
Ohh, thank you so much! I highly appreciate it
@Daf8 Great replies well done !!! I see your post on the site and leadership program and you are such a blessing !!! I can see you in so many roles !!!
Tye
@Tyedyedbutterfly65
Ohhh, thank you! That means so, so much!
I would love to, if I have the time. However, you are the blessing here
@LittleBirdie30 @Magicallykermit58
Thank you both for your kind words! You are amazing
@Daf8
Great answers, Daf8 It is practice and our endeavour for continuous improvement that helps us shine in the long run.
@shiningSound31
And here we see a shining person talking about shine...
@pizzaiscool
Thank you for your words! I highly appreciate them
@WatchingOverYou
Thank you for your words! *Hugs*
@warmLove3625
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@windSpirit
Happy to hear that you agree! Yes, we can always improve, take care and keep trying! Thank *you* for your kind words
@Rhlexia520
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@Readylistener
Thank you! However, what makes sense is your awesomeness