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Yays & Nays challenge

Lilithwolf26 February 15th, 2016

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Im proud of myself because...

Im kind to people and always try to help out

I try the best i can

I may always listen and care about what people say about me, but soon after i become happy and take on that response

Im learning to...

Not twist words

Be myself more

Be happier

Task: make a thread/comment below 3 good things about you (yays) and 3 things about yourself you can improve on (nays). Mabey tag others for them to try it out too. I hope that some listeners look at this post. Do the yay & nay challenge! Get started!

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BeccaBoo98 February 16th, 2016

Thank you to @Anomalia for tagging me!

Yays!

-I am one of the most Determined people you will ever meet

-I have a Good eye for anything artistic

-I am extremely Creative (some may say it's a talent)

Neys!

-I am Very Hard on myself and Never think what I create is good enough

-I would rather Spend Hours making something "pretty" than get it done quickly because I don't want to fail

-I Care Too Much about what others think of me so I am Afraid To Be Myself

I am tagging: @Lee @Noasu @Helena @Bunnyfrufru @livetolove @OneLifeToLive @Pat @Twisha @Dillion @DoseOfPositive @Amelia

Celaeno February 16th, 2016

Three Yays:

✔ I recognize my mistakes and take responsibility for them.

✔ I can make people around me laugh and improve their mood.

✔ Even when hopeless, I stubbornly persevere.

Three Nays:

- Not to be heavily critical.

- Not to take everything so seriously.

- Be more open about my feelings and reach out in times of struggle.

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yellowAcres2128 February 16th, 2016

@Celaeno :) "Even when hopeless, I stubbornly persevere." Powerful :)

I just copied it down to keep these words with me so as to serve as my own gentle yet powerful reminder to myself :)

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Celaeno February 16th, 2016

@yellowAcres2128, wow, thanks! I hope they will aid you at the tougher times ^^;

Anomalia February 16th, 2016

@yellowAcres2128 @Celaeno - Agreed! Very powerful words!

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yellowAcres2128 February 17th, 2016

dear @Anomalia :)

yes :) @Celaeno words are still in my mind today while I work :) They are helping me so much :)

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OneLifeToLive February 16th, 2016

Thank You @BeccaBoo98 for tagging me! devil

Yays!

yes I am a hyper person - which works quite good for me to cheer up myself and the other people around!

yes People feel that i am quite a caring one, i care about mostly everything and everyone!

yes I can .... Dance - Indian (Bharatnatyam) and is a good Badminton player!

Nays!

no I am a hyper person - which at times annoy people much. Then needing someone to remind me to calm down.

no I sleep a lot! And my parents hates that. Although i have my own reasons.

no I don't get angry easily, but when i do, i turn into a very aggressive human being! Which is scary!

I hereby tag: @chioo @Amelia @Nenz @JaceofSpades @Twish @dazzedandconfused @helena @wally203

Thank You! laugh

politeCup86 February 16th, 2016

YAY

1. I Love to Laugh and make everyone around me laugh laugh

2. I rarely fight with anyone, i have proudly lived in peace with all ppl i dealt with

3. I'm working hard on my self to get better, making huge efforts

NAY

1. I Lack huge confidence, believe and trust in me and others, working on that

2. i'm Lazy person at home, but lovable that i can get away with it laugh

3. i'm addicted to numbing behavioures to shut my feelings, working on that

@Yellowacres2128 @Moj @littlelotte @@discreetAcres6234

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LittleLotte February 16th, 2016

@politeCup86

YAY!

yes I love to dance, and even if I have to stay seated (because of my legs) I will still try to dance!

yes I am good at planning and organising things.

yes I like to give gifts to people, either friends or anonymous RAK.

NAY

no I let my paranoia get the better of me and it stops me doing things.

no I don't take time to calm myself when I get agitated, which just makes me worse.

no I don't appreciate my own body.

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politeCup86 February 17th, 2016

@LittleLotte oh Great , i'd love to be brave and dance like u do :D and giving gifts to ppl such a kind thing of u to do! thanks for sharing Lovely!

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yellowAcres2128 February 16th, 2016

@politeCup86 Loving your strengths from your Yays and your sincere honesty from your Nays :)

Thank you so much for tagging me, lovely dear :) My mind seems to be tending towards resting now, I am going to come back to doing this! ^^

*Hugs*

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King0fclubs February 16th, 2016

I'll throw my hand in here.

Yays

> I have a great blend of talent and skill for gambling.

> I am diplomatic but, not afraid to go to extremes when needed.

> I am proud of my track record being a listener on this site.

Nays.

> I let my self get depressed easily.

> I am stuck in cycles of self doubt.

> I am mildly addicted to video games.

Nenz February 16th, 2016

Hmm, This is going to be tough! Thanks for the tag @OneLifeToLive smiley

Yays

heart - I am emotionally intelligent.

heart - I'm a fairly good baker - I could probably sell a lot of my creations.

heart - People say that I'm a warm and caring person.

Nays

frown - I find it difficult to say no to people, I have to learn that it's okay to say no.

frown - I'm too harsh when it comes to self - criticism, I'm too quick to pick out flaws in what I do.

frown - I sometimes find myself running away from issues rather than dealing with them.

SilentSerenityy February 16th, 2016

Yays

- My confidence

- Initiative/common sense

- Naturally quick learner

Nays

- Attitude

- Spending more time away from games/computers

- Speaking up more.

ZaraSmiles February 16th, 2016

Yays

I'm doing pretty damn well at making a difference. Volunteering is my passion and I sure as heck will do my best to make this world a better place.

I like to think I'm compassionate, I put people before myself [self-care needed though] and I'm proud of that. Kindness is my foundation and empathy is my rock.

I've 'come out' to close friends about my mental illnesses which, if you asked me a few months ago, I would have never in a million years done. Now, I have and it's one of my biggest accomplishments. Now that barrier is out of the way, I'm kicking stigma's butt, both online and offline.

Nays

I get annoyed, really really easily. Working on keeping that temper in check, I never show it but it's there.

I beat myself up on bad days, need to stop doing that.

Because I've been through hell and back, I forget that not everyone is out there to hurt me.

Tagging @Lyra, @NewRomantic677, @221Skye, @caringpotato, @Sam, @QuickJazz

Monarda February 17th, 2016

Yays:

-I am very articulate

-I'm good at playing clarinet

-I'm a fighter c:

Nays:

-I'm stubborn

-I want to die

-I never truly open up to anyone

NewRomantic677 February 17th, 2016

Ooh, I absolutely adore this post

Yays

​I'm good at handling relationships (I hope xD) and enjoy interactions with other people, I always do my best to learn from them

Once I set a goal, my resolve to finish it will be harder than steel- I may not always end up setting achievable goals (hey, it happens) but I think I like my attitude towards setting goals

When I say I'm passionate about something, I mean passionate, and I think I like that about me because hey, you've gotta come on strong for a few of your passions

Nays

I can be really hard on myself and be my own biggest nightmare every now and then, basically I trip over myself a lot

I'm a huge procrastinator

I get into a lot of fights- most of them are provoked, but I think I like fighting too much, I just never could stay away from a good debate xD