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✨The magic of Cups✨

AnnaSilverberg October 11th

Hay everyone✨!

I often say that Cups is a magical community, it’s what I firmly believe.
Now, what am I referring to when I say it’s magical?
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I am referring to our collective work!
When I say that our collective work is magical,
I'm referring to the harmony that we all have,
how we are all willing to support one another.

As well as how we all have a perfect understanding of what our mutual goal is
and what we want for the community as a whole.
💓

To me, magic isn't what is only found in fairy tales or on magic shows,
it's something that we all possess within us.
We all have endless capabilities to share kindness, compassion,
care and support in the world and when we choose to do so and find joy in doing so,
we are sharing our magic, our inner spark with those around us.

We are a magical community because in Cups you can and always will find
support, care, kindness, compassion and even joy!
We are all here because we want to make the world a better place,
one chat at a time. That's magic!

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Cups is a big place, where everyone can find something fitting to their needs.
If you want to be there only to provide support,
you can do so through member chats.
Want to feel more social, but fast running texts overwhelm you?
The forums are your place.
If you enjoy live chats and want to socialize and meet other people
who share the same struggles or just want to be there for you,
then you have the chat rooms.

🙌

Imagine a huge cozy café, where everyone has a seat,
no matter how early or late you join, there's a seat just for you.
And when you sit down, you're met with multiple possibilities of options
that you can choose from, what suits your needs? Do you need comfort?
Or perhaps something encouraging? We got you!

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Do you need a calm environment? No problem,
let's just move to the corner where the calm music is playing
and sit in the booths. 
Want to feel energized? Join us in the
chatting area where everyone is sharing and having fun.
Whatever you need, we got you! Time doesn't matter, we are here.

🥰

We as humans are quite adaptable to our environments,
especially when we know what's okay and what isn't,
when we know what the goal is and what to strive for.

And when we adapt to each other to work in harmony,
just like the cords work together to make beautiful music,
our harmonious work does the same.

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It's kind of like, when you start working with someone,
you adjust to who they are and what they're like.
You learn their strengths and what they could improve upon.
😊

And others do the same with you.
When we work together, we're not only adjusting to what is around us,
but to one another as well. And that's where we create harmony.

🤗

If we all had separate goals and we weren't willing to be adaptable,
we'd just be one big chaos. But we're not.
Sure, we do get people here that aren't very adaptable,
but often than not, others around that person support them in becoming
adaptable and take notice on how to effectively communicate with them
💞

Thank you, @GlenM for bringing us all together!
Now, I have a question for you all!
What magic have you found within Cups?
✨💙✨

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GlenM October 11th

@AnnaSilverberg thank you Anna for making this post and helping me and all of us puzzle through and attempt to use words and metaphors ( a big cozy cafe! ) to help us think through the magic of 7 Cups. I especially like this point: 

When we work together, we're not only adjusting to what is around us,

but to one another as well. And that's where we create harmony.


It is like harmony emerges in the connection and adaptation to others. I think that is very interesting. I need to percolate on it more. I'll share more of my thoughts a bit down the post. Thank you again for writing this up for us!

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AnnaSilverberg OP October 11th
@GlenM

I'm always happy to share my thoughts,
thank you for your wonderful questions and guidance 💙

I look forwards to hear what comes to your mind
😊
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YourCaringConfidant October 11th

@AnnaSilverberg Oohhh twin, everything about this is absolutely beautiful! ♡ 

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AnnaSilverberg OP October 12th
@YourCaringConfidant

Aww! 
My colorful, caring twin of joy! 
I'm glad that you do find the beauty in this,
you are definitely part of the magic that is found in Cups! 

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Jenna October 11th

@AnnaSilverberg

This is such a beautiful and heartfelt message about community, support, and kindness. It highlights how magical it is when people come together with a shared goal and willingness to adapt and support one another.

The magic I’ve found within Cups is the way it offers a space where people can be genuinely vulnerable and still feel safe. It's incredible how, despite being strangers, others show up with such warmth, patience, and empathy. There's something special about how a single message of support can turn someone's day around, and that connection, even if it's just for a brief moment, feels truly magical. 

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AnnaSilverberg OP October 13th
@Jenna

Thank you for your kind words!
I am so glad to hear that you've found
wonderful
magic within Cups like I
have! 
It is truly magical what we have here!

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Heather225 October 11th

@AnnaSilverberg

Finding the words to encapsulate the essence of 7 Cups and the work that we all do within it as a community can be challenging. The way you describe 7 Cups as magic is honestly so easy to understand. This compassion-first culture we have nurtured and continue to evolve is a thing of pure magic. It's miraculous.

And here you have nailed it for me:

"I am referring to our collective work! When I say that our collective work is magical, I'm referring to the harmony that we all have, how we are all willing to support one another. As well as how we all have a perfect understanding of what our mutual goal is and what we want for the community as a whole."

I love the way you envision 7 Cups. It resonates so deeply. Your knack for imagery is inspirational. Thank you, Anna, for painting a beautiful comprehensive picture of our community in a way that's so easy to see how aligned we all are.

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AnnaSilverberg OP October 13th
@Heather225

Thank you, H😊
I'm glad that you like the way I have described
the magic that we have here at Cups and that you 
agree with how I feel about Cups. We are a great community, 
and I have high hopes for us in becoming an even better community
because we can always improve and grow our magic. 
Thank you for sharing your magic with us!

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Tinywhisper11 October 12th

@AnnaSilverberg awwww ❤❤ Anna you definetly have magic in your beautiful words ❤❤

For me what makes 7 cups truly magical is being able to be surrounded by so many good people, who show so much kindness, love and support for each other. The bonds of friendship that are made here, the miracle storys of that one man who finally left his house because of cups! Or the woman who finally had the courage to leave that bad situation, the man who lived in the dark now finally letting the light in. Look around everyone, this is the place where magic and miracles happen ❤ and of course the wizard who holds us together , Mr GlenM

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AnnaSilverberg OP October 13th
@Tinywhisper11

Aww, thank you Tiny! 
I agree with you, there are countless of 
magical moments that we can find here on Cups, 
and the magic we all create by being supportive of one 
another is our own way of sharing our sparks! Thank you for 
being a wonderful member of our community and for bringing
your own happy Christmas, Merry easter magic to us!
You're amazing! Never forget that!

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Tinywhisper11 October 14th

@AnnaSilverberg ❤❤❤

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slowdecline48 October 12th

@AnnaSilverberg Lately the "magic" of 7Cups hasn't been the kind I & other members would like to see. The comment thread structure was changed a few days ago without warning; I & other members have found it disconcerting to say the least. The old branching structure worked just fine, so I don't see any reason for this format change.

Also, at least one & likely two of my recent comments have suspiciously disappeared. Now I understand that as a place for people with mental & psychological problems, certain things can be "triggering" & so screening of posts is necessary...that's a good thing to do. What is not good is suppressing criticisms in the name of making 7Cups a "safe" place--all that does is foster a climate of toxic positivity, & prevent Cups' management from knowing how site changes affect the membership.

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AnnaSilverberg OP October 12th
@slowdecline48

Hey there, Decline
I see you and I hear you, 
it's not easy when the site undergoes changes and
it can create discomfort for us all. 
I want you to know that this is being worked on and 
that our technical team is doing their best to get things
right, but as it goes with all growth, it has it's ups and downs.
I'm sorry to hear how this has affected you and I want you to know that
this will get better, that the forums are still being worked on and that this
is very unlikely to be the final results of our tech teams work. 
I'm truly sorry for the inconvenience that this has caused, 
but know that we are not ignoring this challenge and 
that we are working on it. Your comfort matters to us
and I'm thankful that you understand that there are changes 
going on, I want to kindly ask you to try to be patient with us ❤️
Just as Rome wasn't built in one day, neither was Cups. 
Thank you so much for sharing, Decline. 
I truly appreciate your input! 

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slowdecline48 October 12th

@AnnaSilverberg Thank you for answering. I am grateful that you responded, more than anything else....if you really appreciated my input then, truly, you are a patient woman indeed. Kudos for achieving such equanimity!

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AnnaSilverberg OP October 13th
@slowdecline48

That's very kind of you to say, Decline. 
I do truly appreciate your input, your thoughts 
and opinions are just as important as everyone else's. 
I have hopes that this issue will be fixed sooner than later,
I want to thank you for bringing this to our attention and thank
you for being so understanding about everything. 
I appreciate you! 

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Phoenixthepoised October 12th

@AnnaSilverberg

I wanted to take a moment to celebrate the enchanting magic we share here. As a volunteer listener, I’m constantly amazed by the moments of connection that unfold every day.

The magic I’ve found here is like a treasure chest full of gems! 💎 It’s in those heartfelt chats where someone finally opens up and feels truly heard for the first time. It’s when a simple conversation can brighten someone’s day or help them feel less alone. So for me, the magic is in the connections we create.

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And let’s not forget about our magical power of kindness! We’re all like wizards, casting spells of comfort, creating a safe haven where everyone has a place in it. And imagine us all sitting around a cauldron, mixing together compassion, joy and a sprinkle of laughter! 🧙‍♂️💖

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AnnaSilverberg OP October 13th
@Phoenixthepoised

I love the way you view things, Phoenix!
You sure have a wonderful way with words as well. 
That's a beautiful skill to have, I also see the kindness 
that you so happily share with us here on Cups and I want 
to thank you for being such a wonderful listener and a person. 
What you do here is truly valuable and we appreciate you!

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Phoenixthepoised October 14th

@AnnaSilverberg

Aw, thank you so much! You just made my day sparkle!✨And I feel fortunate to be part of such a supportive community where we can share kindness and uplift one another💙 

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CalmRosebud October 12th

I do think there can be a certain “magic” about a good connection. We are, after all, symbiotic beings who thrive better when in the community of others. Developing those personal qualities of compassion can be challenging at times for some of us, but strengthening those compassion muscles can lead to even better relationships, so it is good practice trying here in the anonymous cyberspace and then trying to generalize some of those skills into our living surroundings.

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AnnaSilverberg OP October 14th
@CalmRosebud

Yaas! 
That's a fantastic way to say it. 
I do like how you say that it's good to bring
the things that we learn here into our every day
lives. That's a brilliant thing to do and I do hope that 
we all do that. Thank you for your input, Calm
😊
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purpleSea7109 October 12th

Wow. I am just a click away.Xx 

cherryTree1401 October 13th
THE KINDNESS AND THE CREATIVITY <3 That's what is most magical to me on 7cups. :)
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AnnaSilverberg OP October 13th
@cherryTree1401

That's wonderful to hear, Cherry! 
That truly is magic
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