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Phoenixthepoised
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Number of ratings15 Number of reviews13 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceAug 31, 2024 Last activein last week PathStep 280 People helped38 Chats106 Group support chats6 Listener group chats13 Forum posts406 Forum upvotes805
Bio

Hi, I’m Phoenix! I’m deeply passionate about exploring the intersections of psychology, philosophy, and spirituality. These fields help me navigate the complexities of human experience, making sense of our shared journey. I believe in nurturing a strong inner world as it builds resilience and self-awareness while also fostering a compassionate outlook on life. I love connecting with others and sharing stories that inspire growth and understanding, making each day a little more meaningful.


Why the name 'Phoenixthepoised'?

Phoenixthepoised embodies a powerful blend of transformation and tranquility. The phoenix represents rebirth and resilience, illustrating the strength to rise anew after setbacks. "The poised" signifies a graceful, balanced presence, reflecting the importance of staying centered amid life's chaos. Together, this name conveys a journey of inner growth, empowerment and a dedication to navigating challenges with both strength and compassion. It’s a reminder to embrace change while remaining anchored in self-awareness.


What can you expect?

Welcome to a space where vulnerability meets warmth! Our conversations will feel like a stroll through a peaceful garden, where you can express yourself freely without any rush or pressure. I’m here to listen with an open heart, validating your feelings and offering support without any judgment. My goal is to make sure you feel truly heard and appreciated because every story is worth sharing.

I take 1-on-1 chats for a maximum of 45 minutes, allowing me to fully focus and delve into your concerns without distractions.

Also, I'm not available to take any 1-on-1 chats on Saturdays and Sundays


Life can feel like a lot sometimes but you don’t have to carry it alone. Whether you’re in search of a friendly chat, a little laughter or just someone who truly understands, I’m here to walk alongside you on this journey.

Looking forward to connecting with you and being a part of your journey!

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Recent forum posts
Harvest of Gratitude: Join the Challenge and Celebrate the Blessings of This Season!
Positivity & Gratitude / by Phoenixthepoised
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Saturday
...See more As we approach Thanksgiving, it's the perfect time to reflect on the many blessings that have filled our lives throughout the year. In the spirit of this season, we’re kicking off a Harvest of Gratitude Challenge—a chance to pause, reflect and share what we’re thankful for. Whether it's the big moments or the small joys, this is a time to celebrate the abundance that surrounds us. How Can You Participate? It’s simple and everyone can get involved! Here's how: Reflect on What You’re Grateful For: Each day leading up to Thanksgiving, take a moment to reflect on something that has brought joy or peace into your life. Whether it’s a big life change or a small act of kindness, everything counts! Share your thoughts in the Harvest of Gratitude thread: We’d love to hear about the people, experiences and moments that have brought joy to your life. Engage with Others: Take a moment to read through other’s responses and leave a comment or reply to spread more positivity. You might find new ways to express your own gratitude or be inspired by the stories of others. Tag Fellow Listeners/Members: Got a friend or someone you think would love to join the challenge? Tag them here! Let’s get everyone involved and create a wave of gratitude that flows through our community. Here are some ideas to get you started: * Who in your life has made a difference this year? Share a story or a shoutout to those who’ve been your support system. * Sometimes it's the little things that make the biggest impact. What small moments or simple pleasures are you thankful for? * Has this year brought personal growth or a valuable lesson? What new perspective are you carrying into this Thanksgiving? Let’s Make This Thanksgiving Extra Special! Together, we can fill this forum with reflections, stories and words of gratitude that will make this holiday season even brighter. Your gratitude, no matter how big or small has the power to inspire and uplift those around you. So, let’s get started! Join the Harvest of Gratitude Challenge today and let’s celebrate the blessings in our lives, big and small. Happy Thanksgiving, everyone! 🧡 Let’s celebrate our harvest of gratitude and inspire one another to see the beauty that surrounds us. 🌾🍁
💬✨Celebrate the Good: Weekly Check-In & Welcome!✨💬
Positivity & Gratitude / by Phoenixthepoised
Last post
Friday
...See more Hey, wonderful community! Welcome to a brand new week filled with endless possibilities and bright moments! We’re so grateful to have each and every one of you here in our vibrant community, whether you’re returning or joining us for the first time! ✨ Let’s brighten the day with a check-in! How’s everyone feeling? Here are a few questions to help us shine together: * What’s a small win you celebrated that brought you joy? * Who in your life has inspired you lately and how? * What small act of kindness have you experienced or given recently? * How do you plan to practice self-care this week? Let’s inspire one another and spread that good energy! I can’t wait to hear your updates and celebrate all the positivity we create as a community! 💖🌻 Here’s to a week overflowing with love, light and life! With all my heart, Phoenix
💞Appreciation: Cultivating Joy in Our Connections!💞
IDG 7 Cups Community Hub / by Phoenixthepoised
Last post
Friday
...See more Greetings, Amazing Humans! 💫  Appreciation is the magic of connecting with others and the world around us through gratitude and joy! It helps us see the little things that often go unnoticed and strengthens our bonds with others. When we express gratitude, we not only uplift ourselves but also create a ripple effect of positivity in our communities.  Ready to sprinkle some appreciation into your life? Here are some fun ideas to try: Gratitude Journaling: Take a few minutes each day to jot down three things you appreciate whether it’s a kind word from a friend, a beautiful sunset, or a favorite song. This simple practice can shift your mindset and help you notice the positives around you! 📓✨ Thank-You Notes: Grab some cute stationery and write spontaneous thank-you notes to people who make your life brighter—your barista, a coworker, or a friend. Hand them out with a smile! It’s like giving a little piece of happiness. 💌 Create an Appreciation Wall: Find a space at home or in your community where people can post sticky notes of what they appreciate about others. Watch as the wall fills up with positivity and love! It’s a visual reminder of all the goodness around us. 📝💕 Discussion Questions: * Can you recall a time when someone’s appreciation left a lasting impact on you? What did they say or do, and how did it change your perspective? * If you could write a thank-you note to your future self, what would you say? 
🧭Letting Your Inner Compass Guide You🧭
IDG 7 Cups Community Hub / by Phoenixthepoised
Last post
November 18th
...See more Hey there, fellow explorers! 🧭 Are you ready to tap into the power of your Inner Compass? Think of it as your personal navigation system, guiding you through life’s wild adventure, no map needed!😉  Your Inner Compass helps you tune into your gut feelings and aligns your actions with what truly matters to you. It’s like having a built-in radar for what feels right and authentic. When you’re in sync with your values, decisions become easier and life feels way more enjoyable like finding that perfect slice of pizza! So, how do we get in touch with this magical Inner Compass? * Vision Board: Create a vision board that reflects your top values and dreams. Hang it somewhere you’ll see every day to keep your values front and center. It’s a daily reminder of what truly guides you! * Intuition Check-Ins: Set a daily reminder to pause and check in with yourself. Ask, “How am I feeling about today’s choices?” This practice can help you stay attuned to your Inner Compass! * Reflection Journaling: Start a journal dedicated to your Inner Compass adventures! Write about times you followed your intuition, moments of alignment with your values or even instances where you ignored it and learned something valuable. It’s a great way to track your growth and insights! ------------------------- Discussion Questions: * Think of a time when your Inner Compass led you in an unexpected direction. What was the outcome and what did you learn from that experience? * If you could choose any fictional character to be your Inner Compass guide, who would it be and why? Let’s explore these questions and strengthen our Inner Compass together! 🧭✨
A Day for Every Mind: Celebrating Mental Health Awareness 🧠✨
Positivity & Gratitude / by Phoenixthepoised
Last post
October 12th
...See more Today, we come together to raise awareness about mental health and the importance of taking care of our minds just as we do our bodies. Millions around the world face mental health challenges and it’s vital that we break the stigma and foster open conversations. 🗣️ Reach Out: One of the most powerful things we can do is simply check in on those around us. A heartfelt “How are you?” can open the door for someone who may be struggling. Let’s encourage our friends, family, and colleagues to share their feelings. Just knowing someone cares can be a lifeline. 💚 Embrace Learning: Knowledge is empowering! By educating ourselves about mental health, we can break down barriers and create an environment of understanding. The more we know, the better we can support ourselves and those around us. 🤝 Be a Supportive Friend: When someone confides in you, listen with empathy and compassion. Remind them that it’s okay to feel overwhelmed sometimes. A little encouragement can go a long way: “You’re not alone in this. I’m here for you, and we’ll figure it out together.” 🌈 Self-Care But Make It Fun: Self-care isn’t just bubble baths and candles (though those are great too). It can be dancing like no one’s watching, binge-watching your favorite show, or trying that new hobby you’ve been putting off. Treat yourself like the superstar you are! 💪 Advocate Like a Boss: Channel your inner superhero! Whether you’re advocating for mental health resources at work or just spreading awareness on social media, every little action counts. Your voice can inspire others to take action and seek support. This World Mental Health Day, let’s commit to breaking the stigma and creating a culture of openness and support. 💖✨ Let’s stand together, listen, learn, and lift each other up. 💖✨ ------------------------- To wrap up, I’d love to hear from you! * What steps do you take to prioritize your mental health? * How do you support friends or loved ones who may be struggling? * What’s your favorite self-care activity that brings you joy? Share your thoughts and let’s inspire one another to create a more supportive community for mental health. Your voice matters!  ------------------------- @1CuriousHeart @AnnaSilverberg @affectionatePlane7599 @BlackBlueWhite @CafeGirl42 @compassionateMoon4024 @dtanushree @eternalHeart2708 @Feelfree667 @frankieCherry3347 @gentleHealingInitiative @Happy2Help18 @hansck1006 @HealingTalk @hopefulDew435 @Hope @humansmakemistakes @Ivy229 @jesusredeemedme2425 @KaylaBella @KenzoLena @KristenHR @lalabrowni @mandalamom314 @Nilakshmi @neonChestnut9655 @problematiclife27 @plumStrawberries6432 @quietOcean1819 @SaddyMary @Selina123love @SerenNova @scorpionpolktanktree @slowdecline48 @Tulipsmile @uniqueGrace8272 @VerseArt @VictoriaLove7 @Viepies007 @Winzone699 @wonderfulHoliday6588 @winterbreeze0405 @YourCaringConfidant
🌻Introduction and Check-in!🌻
Positivity & Gratitude / by Phoenixthepoised
Last post
October 9th
...See more Hey there wonderful community! I’m Phoenix and I’m beyond excited to dive into this vibrant space focused on positivity and gratitude as a Forum Supporter. I’ve always been a firm believer that a sprinkle of gratitude can turn an ordinary day into something extraordinary✨🌻 As I get familiar with the forum tools, I’d love any suggestions you have for engaging more deeply with the community! Currently, I’m on a mission to find joy in the little things. For instance, I’ve started a “Gratitude Jar” where I drop in notes about things I’m thankful for, both big or small! It’s a delightful surprise to read them at the end of the month. What are some of the little things that make your heart smile?   ✨And I can’t wait to connect, share some positive energy and learn from each of you. Let’s make this journey a fabulous one!✨ ------------------------- @tommy @VerseArt @heathermarie95 @GoldenRuleJG @KaylaBella   
🎉Celebrating One Month on 7 Cups🎉
Newbie Hub / by Phoenixthepoised
Last post
October 10th
...See more I can’t believe it’s already been a month since I became a listener on 7 Cups! This experience has truly opened my eyes to the power of connection. Every conversation has been a reminder of our shared humanity—the struggles, the triumphs and the moments in between❤️ One of the most surprising lessons I've learned is the profound impact of simply being present. Many people just want someone to listen without judgment and I’ve realized how healing that can be. It’s taught me the importance of creating a safe space for others to express themselves which can lead to unexpected insights and deeper connections. Moreover, hearing people's stories has taught me so much about empathy and the strength it takes to reach out. It’s a privilege to be part of their journeys and I’m excited for what lies ahead. 💖A huge shout-out to each and every one of you for making this journey truly unforgettable! Your openness, kindness and willingness to connect have brought so much warmth and inspiration into my life. I’m really grateful for each one of you! 💖 ✨Here’s to many more meaningful conversations and those beautiful connections that remind us we’re never alone on this path. Let’s keep supporting each other and sharing our journeys together! ✨ ------------------------- What has been the most surprising lesson you’ve learned in your journey? And have you experienced a moment that reshaped your perspective?
🌟 Courage, Hope, Healing and Connection 🌟
Positivity & Gratitude / by Phoenixthepoised
Last post
October 1st
...See more Hey everyone! Lately, I've been thinking a lot about the role of courage in our healing journeys. It’s incredible how much strength it takes to confront our challenges and allow ourselves to be vulnerable. For me, one brave step was sharing my story with a close friend. I was nervous but I opened up about my experiences and how they were affecting me. To my surprise, not only did they listen but also shared their own struggles. That moment of honesty deepened our friendship and reminded me how important it is to let others in. What about you? What’s one brave step you’ve taken toward healing? Let’s create a safe space to share our experiences and support one another. 💖✨  
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