Weekly Prompt #15: What is your biggest fear?
Hello everyone, I hope you are all being easy on yourself this week.
Last week we discussed: How do you ensure a good night's sleep despite the anxiety? Thank you to all who participated and shared their thoughts for discussion. I enjoyed them. I hope you all did too. If you didn't share yours, please share them here and I look forward to reading and discussing them with you.
This week's prompt: What is your biggest fear? Describe it in as much detail as possible. What triggers this fear? How does it make you feel?
This week I want us to reflect and explore this topic that can help us understand and deal with our biggest fears. Let's get started and all thoughts are welcomed!
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My biggest fear is being alone. I fear that if my husband ever did decide to leave me, that I would be alone. Insecurities trigger this fear. It makes me fee insecure and scared.
@compassionateFriend6011 I understand this fear must feel difficult to experience. Being alone can trigger feelings of insecurity for many. You're not alone in having insecurities at times, it's part of being human. Know that you have strength inside to face what comes, as you always have. What thoughts tend to come up that strengthen this fear?
@ASilentObserver
Falling into old, unhealthy patterns. I go through a period of healing and growing only to find I haven't made as much progress as I originally thought.
My biggest fear is losing my grasp of reality “going so deep into my own dark thoughts that I never return” and this is a great struggle for me everyday as I’m suffering from MAD along with a whole bunch of other undiagnosed mental illnesses that have been ruining my life everyday for it feels like forever but probably as long as I can remember, if anyone has any suggestions on how I can climb out of this head space would be greatly appreciated <3
@EverydayIsTheSame202 Thank you for sharing your struggles. It takes strength to live with mental illness each day. I can understand why losing your grasp on reality would be frightening. A caring community can make a big difference. What support systems do you currently have that help during difficult times?
dying..
it makes me go crazy, i can’t phantom it
i hope there’s something afterwards otherwise i feel like i’ll just go crazy
.. sorry for the ranting
@brightWheel5343 Thank you for sharing, wheel. It's understandable that thoughts about death can be frightening. How are you currently feeling as these concerns arise for you? You must feel quite alone in grappling with such existential questions. We are all here with you to listen to and to support.
I would have to say my biggest fear is drowning. Like it's something that is a consistent being in all of my anxiety dreams either drowning or flood or water overwhelming me. I know it's partially because I nearly drowned as a little kid, but actually remembering that doesn't feel as traumatic so I don't think it's entirely at fault. I think it's really a lot to do with feeling so overwhelmed all the time.
@esaisme Thank you for sharing, Esa. It's understandable that nearly drowning as a child could influence fears around water and feeling overwhelmed. Feeling overwhelmed so often also sounds challenging. What's it like for you when you feel overwhelmed in your daily life? You're not alone in dealing with anxiety, we are all here with you. <#
I think my biggest fear is everything that has to do with changes and the future. I can't cope with changes at all and it makes me extremely anxious when I can't predict what will come next. This also includes growing up, and losing my family/friends.
My biggest fear that's not related to a concept would definitely be my fear of heights lol!
@romanity Thank you for sharing about your fears of changes, the future, and heights. It sounds like not knowing what's to come can feel quite unsettling. How do you usually cope when facing uncertainty? You're not alone in finding change difficult - it's very common to feel anxious about the unknown. We are all here with you to support. please feel free to share more!
My biggest fear is ending up alone and dying alone. As an only child and someone who never wants children, I just feel hopeless about my love life sometime. It seems like everyone I’ve talked to lately thinks I’m a selfish person, but I’m not selfish. It’s debatable if not wanting children is selfish but other than that I am really selfless. The people who called me this were really immature. But it’s still affecting me.
@TheJenInBlack Hi Jen, thank you for sharing. I am sorry to hear that. I understand this is weighing heavily on you. It can be difficult when others don't understand your perspective. You seem frustrated yet also want to feel heard and accepted for who you are. Your values and choices are personal to you.
@ASilentObserver my biggest fear would be to get raped and getting victim-blamed as some aspect of mine as triggering the perpetrator. Living in a patriarchal society, it often seen that the victim or woman is blamed for her clothes or behavior.
What is your biggest fear? Describe it in as much detail as possible. What triggers this fear? How does it make you feel? My biggest fear was losing a sibling and sadly it happened on 1/21/20.
@blissfulTouch29 I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your sibling. That must be incredibly difficult to go through. What kinds of memories do you have of them that bring you comfort during this painful time? You're not alone in your grief. We are all here with you, Touch.
@ASilentObserver
I have a lot of memories about my brother however i also still remember the night he died even when i dont think about it
Wishing you a deep journey of reflection and treating yourself with grace in this challenging time - we are thinking if you . :( May the memories be very much alive of the happier times ❤️Sorry ❤️
My biggest fear right now is related to my job. I don't feel like I fit in with the two people who I work with, and that because of that I will be let go. I don't feel like I have support at this workplace and feel alone.
@Bberry999 I'm sorry to hear you're feeling alone and unsure about fitting in at work. It sounds like this is causing you some distress. It's understandable to worry about job security in that situation. You must care deeply about your job to be concerned. What makes you feel like you don't fit in with your coworkers?
Hey @ASilentObserver,
Thank you for your reply! Since I started there was barely any training, the basically just explained basic information about what the weeks are like. I work in payroll, and this is a software I've never used before. I've had questions about issues that I've had when using the software, but they respond with "figure it out yourself" or "I dont have time to deal with you". They've also said to my face that they talk about me behind my back. So every time if we are all in the office together and I hear their teams notifications going off it makes me wonder if they are talking about me. I don't really mind if they talk about me behind my back, that's more their problem in that case. But all of this makes me feel unwelcome, and that they just want to push me out.
