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Although i am not a professional therapist I try to apply my knowledge of psychology, mental health on stuff (p.s. - Undergraduate Bachelors Degree in Psychology completed. YAY 🧡🤩). I aim to be unbiased yet compassionate. Not a fairy godmother. If all the above sounds good let me know if you want a chat. 


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Purpose and experience - A poem
Positivity & Gratitude / by GoldenRuleJG
Last post
 July 21st
...See more 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸 Emotions and thoughts can go away like a cloud  What is forever is changes  Your resilience  You can bounce back  One dull moment can be an opportunity to uplift another person going through the same thing What you go through has purpose Keep growing  An unkind word - think of a funny tv character saying it A kind word - record it, make a collage of it, remind yourself you are appreciated   🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸
Is it my Fault?
Women's Issues / by GoldenRuleJG
Last post
 July 29th
...See more Hi all,  Hope you are doing well. TRIGGER WARNING: Before anyone chooses to read this post, I would like to say that content and discussion is around SA.  I wanted to speak about the rape myths surrounding abuse for women. What society teaches can be that: * The lady asked for it, look at what she is wearing - sexual availability is not reflected in clothing choices. It's not untrue that the lady can feel confident in what she is wearing.  *The lady was flirting so this is a clear invitation - Just because a lady pays a compliment and has a jokey, bubbly personality doesn't mean anything deeper under the surface.  *She did not say "no" so it's not abuse - Not all individuals will have the same reaction to abuse. Let's chat about the different automatic responses. There is Fight, Flight, Freeze and Fawn. What if the lady has a neurodevelopmental condition? She is very likely conditioned by society and depending on her upbringing to "fit in." She may say yes through her verbal response but her body language says otherwise. This is a fawn response.  A freeze response is about being paralyzed by fear and uncomfortable situations. The body is in a heightened state of shock and the individual feels very much overwhelmed and stuck.  * The lady cannot get assaulted by her husband/partner: There is this notion that a lady has to meet her husband's sexual, physical needs just because she is his wife. A lady may conform because her husband may threaten infidelity or it is within the cultural notions or within her strict religious system.  * The lady went out late: The lady can be called characterless for staying out too late and as someone asking for trouble.  *How can she be abused if she doesn't remember it all accurately? For some people they cannot recall their abuse completely. This is not to be deceptive or manipulative - it is possible to develop amnesia. Sometimes as a way to protect the mind, certain information from the trauma is stored and locked away and maybe this is an indication for therapy such as EMDR.  I can appreciate there are too many stereotypes and myths surrounding abuse against males and open to posts on these two. This post is to chat about the female experience. All experiences will be different whether it be based on culture, gender, sexuality. No, Survivors Of Abuse. It is not your fault!  Taglist: @adventurousBranch3786 @ashleybell415 @ASPIRINGCOUNSELOR @Aylathegreat @azuladragon34 @blxepxndx @calmmoon2104 @CocoaCassie @creativeTalker5179 @DaisyBeeBlooming @decisivePapaya238 @Eddy94 @emotionalkitty101 @fluffypickles123 @GentleLily3 @gentleWater9634 @halcyonCloud2036 @HarmonyBlossom @Jaeteuk @janiewanie423 @K87 @kala @KarmaTheRascal @KindnessMatters2020 @lalabrowni @listenwithempathy @littleLemon4973 @LovingPeacefulHeart @Noorahmed89 @OptimisticMoon1124 @PFord79 @pioneeringShade8010 @RainbowRosie @shyMoon8539 @sincereSkies9563 @SirenOfSerenity @Smilintru67 @softSummer7903 @SomeHope2022 @SoulfullyAButterfly @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @tealPark1424 @trueconfidant123 @woMango9097 @zaramerch 
Gratitude Check-In
Positivity & Gratitude / by GoldenRuleJG
Last post
 June 25th
...See more Hey everyone, Check in time with gratitude 🙏 The day may have went well or it may have went poorly. How are you feeling and what are your thoughts? 🤍 *To experience more gratitude what do you do? You may spend time alone to learn more about yourself and journal or read something inspiring to you. You may think of people in your life who help you grow into a person who is more confident, self-assured, fun, engaging, caring. You may appreciate the complexity with which you were created. To be a living breathing creation is a gift. 🎁 *What are your thoughts on gratitude? My thoughts are gratitude is a mindset. When we are thankful for the basic things we have in life it extends to greater faith that there is a purpose behind everything no matter if the grass looks dull on your end. 🌳🌸 Stay blessed in your week, the journey of life shapes you and moulds you. You can choose to make the best of each experience. #BeNo1notinspeedbutinpaceslowandsteadywinstherace🥇🕊️🐢 Tagging: @VerseArt, @heathermarie95, @Hope, @Heather225, @SoulfullyAButterfly, @BenittaJ, @JujuBears, @softmindsoul, @sadcat13, @SolitaryBird, @Suninshinningandsoareyou, @SpreadPeace20, @Rach4, @VictoriaLove7, @trueconfidant Ok to tag others in who would be interested too 🤗🤍
Check In Time! 17th June - 23rd June 2024
Women's Issues / by GoldenRuleJG
Last post
 July 1st
...See more Hi everyone,  Hope everyone is doing well.  Days can be sunny, cloudy and stormy. We can be thinking of things that have triggered us and things we've taken into our heart. Sometimes we feel we are anchored and other times we feel we are drifting away.  It's check in time! Q1: What has been one thing this week has taught you today?  Q2: How emotionally challenging has this week been for you if at all?  Q3: What helps you to feel calm when you feel angry, upset?  Q4: Define yourself in three words In the dark you can find stars - so thank you so much Women's issues community for welcoming me in and as always thank you almighty.  Tagging: @adventurousBranch3786 @ashleybell415 @ASPIRINGCOUNSELOR @Aylathegreat @azuladragon34 @blxepxndx @calmmoon2104 @CocoaCassie @creativeTalker5179 @DaisyBeeBlooming @decisivePapaya238 @Eddy94 @emotionalkitty101 @fluffypickles123 @GentleLily3 @gentleWater9634 @halcyonCloud2036 @HarmonyBlossom @Jaeteuk @janiewanie423 @K87 @kala @KarmaTheRascal @KindnessMatters2020 @lalabrowni @listenwithempathy @littleLemon4973 @LovingPeacefulHeart @Noorahmed89 @OptimisticMoon1124 @PFord79 @pioneeringShade8010 @RainbowRosie @shyMoon8539 @sincereSkies9563 @SirenOfSerenity @Smilintru67 @softSummer7903 @SomeHope2022 @SoulfullyAButterfly @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @tealPark1424 @trueconfidant123 @woMango9097 @zaramerch
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Women's Issues / by GoldenRuleJG
Last post
 June 21st
...See more Hello everyone,  I am GoldenRuleJG. I thank you for your warm acceptance and welcome of me into your community.  I am looking forward to learning from others and offering  my perspectives too. :)  Tagging in: @adventurousBranch3786 @ashleybell415 @ASPIRINGCOUNSELOR @Aylathegreat @azuladragon34 @blxepxndx @calmmoon2104 @CocoaCassie @creativeTalker5179 @DaisyBeeBlooming @decisivePapaya238 @Eddy94 @emotionalkitty101 @fluffypickles123 @GentleLily3 @gentleWater9634 @halcyonCloud2036 @HarmonyBlossom @Jaeteuk @janiewanie423 @K87 @kala @KarmaTheRascal @KindnessMatters2020 @lalabrowni @listenwithempathy @littleLemon4973 @LovingPeacefulHeart @Noorahmed89 @OptimisticMoon1124 @PFord79 @pioneeringShade8010 @RainbowRosie @shyMoon8539 @sincereSkies9563 @SirenOfSerenity @Smilintru67 @softSummer7903 @SomeHope2022 @SoulfullyAButterfly @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @tealPark1424 @trueconfidant123 @woMango9097 @zaramerch
Honesty and Positivity
Positivity & Gratitude / by GoldenRuleJG
Last post
 May 29th
...See more Hi everyone, Good morning/evening/afternoon/night  You maybe asking yourself how can one be honest and positive at the same time is that possible for anyone? We do not associate being honest with the connotation of gentleness.  We can find gentleness to be an ability to be softer version of "thanks but no thanks",  *Has there ever been a time where you have been honest with someone ? Think of the time it went well, what do you notice versus the time it did not go well?  *Has there ever been a time where someone has been honest with you?  Think of the time it went well, what do you notice versus the time it did not go well? *Rare and weird as it is to say, did you feel a sense of gratitude for a persons honesty whether it be something you are insecure about or not at all? Lets say if someone commented asked "Did you lose weight?," you may mind that comment being a person who struggles with their body image  We all at some point will appreciate and not appreciate honesty. We can feel attacked or we can give honesty that much needed push to help us grow and spark challenge in a way that is loving and caring. Afterall we can be grateful that we have learnt somethign new about ourself. Honesty works when there is care and love behind it. You need to get in touch with the inner child. Intention and motivation is the key. Intention and motivation asks what in the internal monologue emotions, thoughts, past experiences behind why I am saying this? Could I feel motivated in this way of honesty? Would I feel disempowered in that way of honesty? When you are honest the positive thing is you are likely to be with people who match your values. Honesty can feel like standing tall like a tree, letting whichever fruits grow in your life grow (e.g. relationships, trust) and letting whichever fruits which are not needed in your life rot (e.g. a love for materialism, accolades). It can feel like sliding into whatever life has to offer you.   Open to thoughts and feelings  How do you see honesty? Has is served you well? Do you feel there have been ways honesty has not served you well?  Tagging: @VerseArt, @ASilentObserver, @LittleBirdie30, @SoulfullyAButterfly, @Hope, @Heather225, @DreamTouch, @ThoughtLight, @melonMeloncholy, @DanCat1128, @daydreamemories, @MindfulJourney22, @Kristynsmama , @OceanWhisper, @WhyThoughJosh, @SnowTabby, @cal1860, @starryWillow9852 Welcome to tag others who maybe interested
Welcoming Gratitude
Positivity & Gratitude / by GoldenRuleJG
Last post
 May 20th
...See more Hi everyone  Hope you all are having a week that has moments to be grateful for.  Gratitude can be easy when we feel helped and can feel difficult in other times when the difference we are making isn't as obvious.  The colours of life make me feel grateful. The downs just as much as the ups, because they keep me wanting to get better and think "Hey, what did I learn from this experience?" In general what are your thoughts and feelings on gratitude. Do you find this easy or do you find it hard?  1; What ways can you show your gratitude? For example it could be you are grateful for this
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