Ramblings 3
Nothing new, same issues . I miss the people here. I have been really struggling the last few months. I have been really trying and it seems like I am going back instead of forward.
@Iamwhoiamwhoami but whatever happens we are here together ❤ we will see each other through ❤❤ hugs you tightly ❤❤ I love you more ❤🙂
@Iamwhoiamwhoami now go to bed, it's late for you!!!!!
I'm not bossy😏
@Tinywhisper11
Already there. ❤️💕Hugs ❤️💕
@Tinywhisper11
Had you not come into my life, I have a feeling that I would be in a worse place than I am now. You’re my Angel. There are many more that have their wings as well. They are also angels who have reached out. @Mytwistedsoul and @DarkBlueAurors and @Helgafy are also my angels. There are several more but unfortunately I can’t remember their names.
However you have managed to reach out and somehow reached into my darkness. Into my darkest of thoughts. You have intertwined with my thoughts. I don’t know how, It doesn’t matter how. I will never understand why. You definitely don’t have an easy life. Your struggles are overwhelming. You continue to push through it all. None of it can be easy. With all that you spread your love and kindness all over. For whatever reasons you have continued to read my writings and all its negative thoughts and feelings. You keep coming back to my little corner and shine your warmth into the depths of my cold darkness. I am forever thankful and grateful for your love and friendship. 💕💕💕I Love You….Hugs 💕💕💕
@Iamwhoiamwhoami
How wonderful you're writing about Tiny. Excellent!
And you…and several others. You all are angels in my life. I miss your writings. I backed away because you had wonderful conversations with several others.All of you spreading positivity, while I am only negative. So I chose to stay in the corner and listen to your conversations envying everyone’s ability to have those conversations regularly. Then one day …poof….you all were gone.
@Helgafy
the above writing is for you
@Iamwhoiamwhoami
Friend - I'm sorry - maybe I have hurted you by not being on your thread any more. Beneath I have written a bit of my story. I have to choose my battles and I'm sorry because of that. And yes - we people hurt each other with not being what other persons expect. And yes - I'm a sinner - but that is OK for me because in the eyes of God I'm good enough because of Calvary. That's my hope, that's my wisdom for my everyday life.
I have been sick for many years - ME (Myalgic encephalomyelitis/CFS-chronic fatigue syndrome). I also have in between depression. Because of that sickness I have to be in bed or at the couch in my living room - watching TV. I have not been walking around outside my flat for 2 years now. So because of this sickness there is a lot of sorrow in my life (cannot do this - cannot do that). Often I just lie in my bed thinking - well I can breathe. Sometimes I have asked the Lord to take me home (to heaven). Sometimes I also think; Am I alive tomorrow?
I'm aware of the "now". I thank Jesus Christ when I can give water to a flower in my home. I thank him when I can walk on my feet to another room - because I know what the opposite would be - not being able to walk to that room.
@Helgafy hi Helga ❤ hugs you tightly ❤❤ I hope your doing ok, with your health??
I want to give in and give up completely, that is what has played on repeat for so many years. But something, I don’t know what or why, something is holding that last string, that something keeps reinforcing that string so that I can’t break it. As much as I try . It must be reinforced with something not known to humankind.
This mess won’t let me sleep. Constantly thinking about how worthless I have become. .
@Iamwhoiamwhoami I believe in you, all your friends do ❤ and why cause we are holding your light, your hope until maybe oneday, you'll be ready to have it back🙂❤ but if your never ready then don't worry I got you ❤ that thread that keeps you hanging on is strength and hope. I love you so so much, and I pray for you everyday. I will never give up on you, even if you already have. I'm here for you, always ❤
@Iamwhoiamwhoami That's tough, all the negative thoughts come rushing with the greatest of force right before sleep @_@ Somethings that help me when this happens is to tackle them back with reasons, I know you counter your self blame with reasons and that helps you. Counting something positive that happened that day helps too, like for me watching a pretty cloud counts as positive too as it gives me pause of appreciation even if just for a second.
Our worth can be defined by a lot of things if we keep the defination external but the true one is internal. You've fought all that life has thrown at you, you've survived all through this time and still managed to keep your gratitude and kindness alive and that makes you very worthy.
@BlueDarkAurora
Right now my mind is back to a racetrack/ demolition derby of thoughts bouncing around and I am somewhat understanding what you are saying but far from comprehending it.
I will try and remember to come back and reread it again later. So for now I’m only going to say is
Thank you for being a friend to me, is it alright to say that? Thank you for your kindness and support. Thank you
@Iamwhoiamwhoami yes ^-^ and this is one other positive quality of you that you are so willing to understand what others come here and say to you, you're willing to take it and let it help you in anyway it can and still being appreciative of the words even if they don't make sense now. That's great as well :)
@Iamwhoiamwhoami the message you write me ❤ telling me you love me, and using heart emojis😁 it brings a tear to my eye. But don't worry happy tears ❤ I'm just glad I get to be a part of your life, even if it's just here at cups. We both have no family, but your my chosen family ❤ and chosen family, the bond never leaves, I will never leave you ❤
how are you feeling today?? I know you had a bad week, and it's made you sick. But are you feeling even a teeny bit better??
@BlueDarkAurora
I do recognize positivity in others and in the love and kindness that you all share with others. I just fail to see it in me . I only see darkness. In everything I do I see darkness. I don’t like it but that is the way it is and has been. I see the selflessness of many of you in your reaching out with the warmth of your angelic light towards those of us in need. I’m lucky enough to be a part of this community. Ok I am rambling again, my apologies.
Maybe someday I will see in me what you do.
Thank you and I am always open and welcoming of your thoughts and kindness.