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Iamwhoiamwhoami December 31st, 2023

Nothing new, same issues . I miss the people here. I have been really struggling the last few months. I have been really trying and it seems like I am going back instead of forward.

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Tinywhisper11 September 2nd

@Iamwhoiamwhoami but whatever happens we are here together ❤ we will see each other through ❤❤ hugs you tightly ❤❤ I love you more ❤🙂

Tinywhisper11 September 2nd

@Iamwhoiamwhoami now go to bed, it's late for you!!!!!

I'm not bossy😏

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 2nd

@Tinywhisper11

Already there. ❤️💕Hugs ❤️💕

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Tinywhisper11 September 2nd

@Iamwhoiamwhoami tucks you into bed ❤ kisses your forehead, goodnight angel ❤❤

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 2nd

@Tinywhisper11

Good night. 💕Love you too 💕

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 2nd

@Tinywhisper11

Had you not come into my life, I have a feeling that I would be in a worse place than I am now. You’re my Angel. There are many more that have their wings as well. They are also angels who have reached out. @Mytwistedsoul and @DarkBlueAurors and @Helgafy are also my angels. There are several more but unfortunately I can’t remember their names.

However you have managed to reach out and somehow reached into my darkness. Into my darkest of thoughts. You have intertwined with my thoughts. I don’t know how, It doesn’t matter how. I will never understand why. You definitely don’t have an easy life. Your struggles are overwhelming. You continue to push through it all. None of it can be easy. With all that you spread your love and kindness all over. For whatever reasons you have continued to read my writings and all its negative thoughts and feelings. You keep coming back to my little corner and shine your warmth into the depths of my cold darkness. I am forever thankful and grateful for your love and friendship. 💕💕💕I Love You….Hugs 💕💕💕

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Helgafy September 2nd

@Iamwhoiamwhoami

How wonderful you're writing about Tiny. Excellent!

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 2nd

And you…and several others. You all are angels in my life. I miss your writings. I backed away because you had wonderful conversations with several others.All of you spreading positivity, while I am only negative. So I chose to stay in the corner and listen to your conversations envying everyone’s ability to have those conversations regularly. Then one day …poof….you all were gone.

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Helgafy September 2nd

@Iamwhoiamwhoami

Friend - I understood the fine writing was also for me. I think I have to tell; I keep in contact with the persons for a while - and so there will be some others to write to. You're a wonderful human being. Maybe you want to listen to Dan Vasc "O holy night"? (LOL - not Christmastime yet!) I just found him on YouTube. He's like healing power to my soul - I can understand music is also used in therapy. 

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 2nd

@Helgafy

the above writing is for you

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Tinywhisper11 September 2nd

@Helgafy hi Helga ❤ hugs you tightly ❤❤ I hope your doing ok, with your health??

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 2nd

How can people that I have never actually seen or met believe in me and yet I do not believe in me.

Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 2nd

I want to give in and give up completely, that is what has played on repeat for so many years. But something, I don’t know what or why, something is holding that last string, that something keeps reinforcing that string so that I can’t break it. As much as I try . It must be reinforced with something not known to humankind.

Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 2nd

This mess won’t let me sleep. Constantly thinking about how worthless I have become. .

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Tinywhisper11 September 2nd

@Iamwhoiamwhoami I believe in you, all your friends do ❤ and why cause we are holding your light, your hope until maybe oneday, you'll be ready to have it back🙂❤ but if your never ready then  don't worry I got you ❤ that thread that keeps you hanging on is strength and hope. I love you so so much, and I pray for you everyday. I will never give up on you, even if you already have. I'm here for you, always ❤

BlueDarkAurora September 2nd

@Iamwhoiamwhoami That's tough, all the negative thoughts come rushing with the greatest of force right before sleep @_@ Somethings that help me when this happens is to tackle them back with reasons, I know you counter your self blame with reasons and that helps you. Counting something positive that happened that day helps too, like for me watching a pretty cloud counts as positive too as it gives me pause of appreciation even if just for a second.

Our worth can be defined by a lot of things if we keep the defination external but the true one is internal. You've fought all that life has thrown at you, you've survived all through this time and still managed to keep your gratitude and kindness alive and that makes you very worthy. 

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 2nd

@BlueDarkAurora


Right now my mind is back to a racetrack/ demolition derby of thoughts bouncing around and I am somewhat understanding what you are saying but far from comprehending it.

I will try and remember to come back and reread it again later. So for now I’m only going to say is

Thank you for being a friend to me, is it alright to say that? Thank you for your kindness and support. Thank you

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BlueDarkAurora September 2nd

@Iamwhoiamwhoami yes ^-^ and this is one other positive quality of you that you are so willing to understand what others come here and say to you, you're willing to take it and let it help you in anyway it can and still being appreciative of the words even if they don't make sense now. That's great as well :) 

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 2nd

Thank you

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Tinywhisper11 September 2nd

@Iamwhoiamwhoami the message you write me ❤ telling me you love me, and using heart emojis😁 it brings a tear to my eye. But don't worry happy tears ❤ I'm just glad I get to be a part of your life, even if it's just here at cups. We both have no family, but your my chosen family ❤ and chosen family, the bond never leaves, I will never leave you ❤

how are you feeling today?? I know you had a bad week, and it's made you sick. But are you feeling even a teeny bit better??

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 2nd

@Tinywhisper11

I am still at the lowest of lows, still not feeling very well.

❤️❤️Hugs❤️❤️

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Tinywhisper11 September 2nd

@Iamwhoiamwhoami I'm very tired and week. So I'm gonna go to bed now ❤ I still feeling like crap! Stupid pneumonia. But don't worry about me, cause I'm definitely getting better slowly ❤❤ good night angel ❤ hugs you tightly ❤❤ I love you ❤

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 2nd

@Tinywhisper11

💕💕I Love You Too💕💕

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 2nd

@BlueDarkAurora

I do recognize positivity in others and in the love and kindness that you all share with others. I just fail to see it in me . I only see darkness. In everything I do I see darkness. I don’t like it but that is the way it is and has been. I see the selflessness of many of you in your reaching out with the warmth of your angelic light towards those of us in need. I’m lucky enough to be a part of this community. Ok I am rambling again, my apologies.

Maybe someday I will see in me what you do.

Thank you and I am always open and welcoming of your thoughts and kindness.

Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 2nd

I so want everyone’s warm bright light to shine on me and my darkness and push this darkness away forever and bring me into the light. Unfortunately I don’t see that happening.