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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

SilentSerenityy
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🌸 WELCOME! 🌸 I'm an experienced verified listener who is open minded, non-judgemental and I'm open to almost all topics. All I ask is that you respect my boundaries, such as my time constraints and/or my statuses (see at the bottom of bio). Whilst I support the topic of sexual health, this does not mean I am comfortable discussing kinks/fetishes, nor will I partake in anything of that nature either.  I cannot replace the role of a therapist/psychologist. If you feel that you need more support for your mental health condition or require advice, please reach out to a licensed professional. I am not able to support you during a crisis. If you feel you're experiencing a crisis, please contact a helpline here - https://www.7cups.com/crisis/ 🌸 AVAILABILITY 🌸 My time zone is GMT / BST. I am available to live chat for up to an hour at a time. I am open to arranging a time to chat if you'd like to chat for longer though! I work and am disabled, so my availability can vary quite a lot, which is why I'm much better at providing one off, short term support. However, I am happy for you to reach out to update me on what's been happening since we last spoke.  🌸 ABOUT ME  🌸 I'm in my late twenties, I have a cat who I adore and I spend a lot of my free time watching movies, cross stitching and playing video games. I live with multiple health conditions which makes life a little more challenging, but it means I can relate to members who are disabled or are living with chronic health conditions.   🌸 STATUSES 🌸S Online  I'm open to chatting/helping anyone, including listeners who might need some help with listening. Feel free to message me. Busy  You can request to chat, but I may not reply to your message or request, as I may be busy with other roles or helping others in chats.  Offline  I'm offline, having a self-care break, taking scheduled chats, supporting/hosting group discussions or unavailable to take personal requests. If I'm in a chatroom, please ask to send me a message. Being in a chatroom doesn't mean I'm available to take a 1-1 chat.
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LeGhost223
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Hey there. I've been through a lot, but I can still provide a listening ear.  
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InternalAcceptance
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I'm not currently accepting new member chats unless referred right now. Please search for a Listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] or connect with a live listener. I do not take relationship chats. Quality Ambassador Adult-Teen Listener Anonymous Evaluation Team Ambassador Doorkeeper Global Chatroom Moderator Global Forum Moderator Peer Support Quality Mentor Safety Patrol Team Member SPOT Team Member I'm glad that you have found this site are are reaching out for support through difficult times. I am a trained active listener and am able to offer support most effectively for those who are going through addiction, anxiety, domestic violence, eating disorders, grief, and trauma. Some of the things that I enjoy the most are reading, talking walks through the park, hiking, yoga, and writing. I've overcome many obstacles in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online please don't hesitate to reach out. If I happen to be offline, you are always welcome to send me a message and we can set up a time to talk. I'm glad that you are here.
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GentleHealingInitiative
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˚    ✦   .  .   ˚ .      . ✦     ˚     . ★⋆.    .     ˚     *     ✦   .  .   ✦ ˚      ˚ .˚      .  .   ˚ .             ✦  Welcome! It’s not always the easiest step to reach out for help when you are experiencing life’s struggles. I’d like to congratulate you on taking a step forward by just being here on 7 Cups.     ˗ˏˋ ★ Your presence here matters. ★ ˎˊ˗ Hello and a warm welcome once more to my profile! Currently, I am unable to take any personal requests. My sincerest apologies. If you are looking for an available listener, please browse: https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ While browsing, listeners will indicate if they are available by the green dots on their profiles. Also, feel free to view their profiles to know if they are accepting new chats. I appreciate your patience and understanding. I hope you receive the support you readily deserve. ˗ˏˋ ★Thank you for visiting. ★ ˎˊ˗    .     ˚     *     ✦   .  .   ✦ ˚      ˚ .˚      .  .   ˚ .             ✦
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DarkWolf
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If you don't stand for something, you will fall for everything.
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ToniJayne
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Hi, I'm Toni (she/her/they)   Thank you for reaching out today, count it as a self-care success! (Go you!) ------------------------- If in urgent need of a listener, please click here: ⏩Need to Talk to Someone? - 7 Cups [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/?badge=0&find=&sort=availability&category=&ageGroup=&listType=&gender=&religion=&country=&language=] ⏪ ------------------------- I bring compassion, acceptance, empathy, respect & curiosity to every session. Exploration, expression & brainstorming are key elements of my chats and my approach to mental health. Aligned with GMT. When Offline: Please drop me a message, I will respond as soon as possible, this may take some time as I have infrequent activity. More about me: ⋆ Proudly NEURODIVERGENT: AuDHD & Dyslexic. ⋆ 3+ years working in NHS Talking Therapies. ⋆ BSc in Psychology from Cardiff University.  ⋆ Has lived experience with long-term depression, anxiety & panic disorder. ⋆ Has several hidden disabilities and long-term health conditions including: Autism, Fibromyalgia, PCOS, Chronic Migraines, Dyslexia, POTS, IBS, Chronic pain, ADHD, Asthma, Vasovagal syncope, Acne, Hypermobility Spectrum Disorder... ⋆ Hobbies & Interests: Manga/Webcomics, Cats, Skincare, YouTube, Art, Reading, Driving, Gaming, Fantasy, Crafts, Science, Alternative Music & Learning. My roles at 7cups: ✧ Verified Active Listener ✧ Intern Graduate! With Honours ✧ Former Room Supporter (Mindfulness, 50+, Positivity & Gratitude) ✧ Former Safety Patrol Team ✧ Past ON-SPOT Sharing Circle Host (Listener & Member)
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TogetherForeverAlways
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Sventek
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“Be a lamp, or a lifeboat, or a ladder. Help someone's soul heal. Walk out of your house like a shepherd.” ― Rumi About Me I am here to offer focused, short-term support for relationship issues, including marriage, dating, alternative relationships (including polyamory or open relationships), and sexual matters for both men and women. If you're looking for a long-term Listener, I encourage you to find someone else on 7 Cups who can provide consistent care, as my work schedule is unpredictable. What I Handle: * Relationship challenges * Infidelity * Sexual concerns * Open and closed relationship dynamics What I Don't Handle: * Any issues outside of relationships or sexual concerns * Long-term support I do not engage in Listener Chats and only speak with member accounts, per 7 Cups' sitewide policy. NO EXCEPTIONS, ZERO, NONE. That policy is located here: https://www.7cups.com/forum/7cupsleadership/SafetyGuidelines_1374/ForumGuidelinesExpanded8ListenerBoundaries_175467/ I am direct, factual, and sometimes blunt, but always fair and non-judgmental. If you prefer sugar-coated advice, I may not be the right Listener for you. However, if you're seeking honest, straightforward support, I'm here to help. Background: I hold an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy (Summa Cum Laude) and am currently pursuing my Doctorate in the same field, which I expect to complete in January 2025. My MA in Psychology will be completed at the end of Summer 2025. In my academic pursuit, balance is everything. You can CHOOSE me as your Listener. If my approach resonates with you.
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dtanushree
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“Gratitude is the fairest blossom which springs from the soul.” – Henry Ward Beecher Would you like to appreciate a fellow listener/member? Click on this button below 👇and appreciate them for spreading love, compassion and kindness in their own unique ways in this community. Peer Appreciation Form [https://forms.gle/hfwDBA8dTaP6bhta9] Chats which I do NOT take: Loneliness Sexual health Self harm *Please pm me to schedule a chat* Warning: If you're here for inappropriate chats, you're on the wrong site. This place is not for those purposes. Thank you for reading my bio. You're always welcome to pm me and I'll try to reply you as soon as possible. I hope you find all the help you need on cups.  🍁 About me: I'm a Listener since 2018. I've been in to many leadership roles. Now I only focus on being a listener here. I love to listen without judgement, validate your feelings and be there for you as a friend. 🧸 *sends bear huggss to all those who need one*
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RarelyCharlie
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Not taking new chats. ------------------------- Coming, going, the waterbirds don't leave a trace, don't follow a path. I'm Charlie and I'm trained, verified and experienced as an active listener for both adults and teens. I like to support people who are struggling with something. Also people who aren't struggling with anything. And people who aren't sure whether they're struggling with anything or not. Please do not message me hoping to start a chat. I am not taking new chats. The poem is said to be by Eihei Dōgen, a Japanese poet who wrote it around eight hundred years ago. I don't know why I like it. I just do. My photo is the moon shining on the sea. There's some darkness and some clouds there but the light of the moon shines on everything. I like this too. Thank you for reading my profile. I'm glad you are here! ------------------------- In an emergency or a crisis: If you are in an emergency or a crisis—for example, if you are at immediate risk of suicide or other serious harm—7 Cups is not the right place, because we cannot deal with emergencies or provide crisis counselling. Click here for information about getting help: Get emergency or crisis support [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/howto/crisis] Listener support: I'm happy to support other listeners with issues related to listening, although I don't have any official role. Please do not message me from a listener account to chat about personal issues. Use a member account for that. To understand why, see: Listener and Member Roles [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/GlensThoughts_143/ListenerandMemberRoles_210/1/] Schedule: I don't have a fixed schedule. I'm online some weekdays between about 4:30 a.m. and 8:30 a.m. US Eastern Time. In the UK this is 9:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. On other days and at weekends I'm often online too, but at times that are not predictable. If you message me or tag me in a forum I'm usually able to respond within a day or two. Miscellaneous resources: For some other resources, mainly for listeners, see my unofficial companion site: The 8th Cup [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/]
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Peacefulgardens
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Welcome, my name is Naira. I believe that one of the most effective ways to make healthy changes is to focus on building up self-compassion and understanding.  At 7Cups, in addition to earning verification, I have also completed the Quality Listening Program and Community Track Internship with Honors. I'm open to conversations on a variety of mental health topics as long as they remain appropriate and respectful.  Please keep in mind that responses to support requests may take up to 24 hours. ------------------------- Helpful Resources It is important keep in mind that listeners like me are volunteers, and we do not have the same responsibilities or expertise as licensed therapists or counselors. If you are in the United States and interested in booking an appointment with a trained therapist or counselor, some additional ways to find affordable options are Open Path Collective [https://openpathcollective.org/], Psychology Today [https://www.psychologytoday.com/us], Psychologist Locator [https://locator.apa.org/], and your local National Alliance of Mental Illness chapter [https://www.nami.org/findsupport/]. I believe in advocating for people seeking mental health care which is why it's important to help make this process more accessible. Although I am okay with discussing self-harm and we even have a self-harm recovery community forum [https://www.7cups.com/forum/selfharm/], listeners must refer anyone actively at risk of harming themselves or others to crisis resources [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238093-Crisis].  7Cups offers a variety of self-help guides here [https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php/] for anyone wanting information on a specific topic. Listeners aiming to expand their skills can read all training guides offered here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerResourcesMockChatGuides_2381/ListenerSupportResourcesandMockChatGuidesMasterList_228279] and here [https://www.7cups.com/listener/training.php#training/].  My profile icon is photography by Cy Twombly.
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Antonio7Cups
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Unfortunality, I am not available to assist 1-1 member support chats. 🌟 About Me 🌟  😄 Hello! I am Antonio, a dedicated 7 Cups teen listener who cares about the mental health and psychological well-being of our society. 🌼 As someone deeply committed to lending a listening ear and a caring heart, I believe in the power of empathetic conversations to create a safe and non-judgmental space for you. 💖 Throughout my journey on 7 Cups, I've gained insights into resilience, positivity, and the strength of the human spirit. Excited to be a significant part of your support network and share in your experiences. 👨👧 My wonderful listener twin is the amazing @, adding another layer of support and understanding to my journey.  🎧 What to Expect 🎧 ✨ In our conversations, experience a warm and welcoming atmosphere where you can freely express yourself. I'm here to listen, provide emotional support, and offer a caring presence. Together, we can navigate challenges and celebrate successes. 💪 My goal is to help you find inner strength and resources to face life's ups and downs. Remember, you're not alone, and there's always hope for a brighter tomorrow. 🍵 My roles at 7 Cups 🍵 Current roles: Founder and Leader of the Kahoot Sessions TeamChatroom Moderator of the Newbie Hub Community (Teen Community Room 24/7, Support Room 24/7 and Sharing Circle Room)Doorkeeper. Group Support Mentor. Global Moderator. Past roles: Project Agent of the Outreach AL Team.Peer Supporter.Member of the Safety Patrol Team.Community Mentor of the TV & Movies Community. 📅 Availability 🕰️ - Days: Monday to Friday. -Time: 8:30 AM to 9:30 AM Eastern Time (ET) That is the time when I am normally available, but it does not mean that I cannot connect at other times, and you can see me, for example, in the chat rooms. ⏰ Response Time ⏰ You can expect my response within: 24 to 72 hours. 🤗 Let's Connect 🤗 Feel free to reach out anytime you'd like to chat or share your thoughts. I'm here to support you in your journey, making each day a little brighter. Remember, you matter, and your feelings are valid. 💕 Thank you for considering me as your listener on 7 Cups. Looking forward to getting to know you and being a source of encouragement and understanding in your life. Take care and be kind to yourself! 🌻 Updated on December 9, 2024.
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