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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Sventek
L Marvel 8 2529
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“Be a lamp, or a lifeboat, or a ladder. Help someone's soul heal. Walk out of your house like a shepherd.” ― Rumi About Me I am here to offer focused, short-term support for relationship issues, including marriage, dating, alternative relationships (including polyamory or open relationships), and sexual matters for both men and women. If you're looking for a long-term Listener, I encourage you to find someone else on 7 Cups who can provide consistent care, as my work schedule is unpredictable. What I Handle: * Relationship challenges * Infidelity * Sexual concerns * Open and closed relationship dynamics What I Don't Handle: * Any issues outside of relationships or sexual concerns * Long-term support I do not engage in Listener Chats and only speak with member accounts, per 7 Cups' sitewide policy. NO EXCEPTIONS, ZERO, NONE. That policy is located here: https://www.7cups.com/forum/7cupsleadership/SafetyGuidelines_1374/ForumGuidelinesExpanded8ListenerBoundaries_175467/ I am direct, factual, and sometimes blunt, but always fair and non-judgmental. If you prefer sugar-coated advice, I may not be the right Listener for you. However, if you're seeking honest, straightforward support, I'm here to help. Background: I hold an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy (Summa Cum Laude) and am currently pursuing my Doctorate in the same field, which I expect to complete in January 2025. My MA in Psychology will be completed at the end of Summer 2025. In my academic pursuit, balance is everything. You can CHOOSE me as your Listener. If my approach resonates with you.
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dtanushree
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“Gratitude is the fairest blossom which springs from the soul.” – Henry Ward Beecher Would you like to appreciate a fellow listener/member? Click on this button below 👇and appreciate them for spreading love, compassion and kindness in their own unique ways in this community. Peer Appreciation Form [https://forms.gle/hfwDBA8dTaP6bhta9] Chats which I do NOT take: Loneliness Sexual health Self harm *Please pm me to schedule a chat* Warning: If you're here for inappropriate chats, you're on the wrong site. This place is not for those purposes. Thank you for reading my bio. You're always welcome to pm me and I'll try to reply you as soon as possible. I hope you find all the help you need on cups.  🍁 About me: I'm a Listener since 2018. I've been in to many leadership roles. Now I only focus on being a listener here. I love to listen without judgement, validate your feelings and be there for you as a friend. 🧸 *sends bear huggss to all those who need one*
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RarelyCharlie
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Not taking new chats. ------------------------- Coming, going, the waterbirds don't leave a trace, don't follow a path. I'm Charlie and I'm trained, verified and experienced as an active listener for both adults and teens. I like to support people who are struggling with something. Also people who aren't struggling with anything. And people who aren't sure whether they're struggling with anything or not. Please do not message me hoping to start a chat. I am not taking new chats. The poem is said to be by Eihei Dōgen, a Japanese poet who wrote it around eight hundred years ago. I don't know why I like it. I just do. My photo is the moon shining on the sea. There's some darkness and some clouds there but the light of the moon shines on everything. I like this too. Thank you for reading my profile. I'm glad you are here! ------------------------- In an emergency or a crisis: If you are in an emergency or a crisis—for example, if you are at immediate risk of suicide or other serious harm—7 Cups is not the right place, because we cannot deal with emergencies or provide crisis counselling. Click here for information about getting help: Get emergency or crisis support [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/howto/crisis] Listener support: I'm happy to support other listeners with issues related to listening, although I don't have any official role. Please do not message me from a listener account to chat about personal issues. Use a member account for that. To understand why, see: Listener and Member Roles [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/GlensThoughts_143/ListenerandMemberRoles_210/1/] Schedule: I don't have a fixed schedule. I'm online some weekdays between about 4:30 a.m. and 8:30 a.m. US Eastern Time. In the UK this is 9:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. On other days and at weekends I'm often online too, but at times that are not predictable. If you message me or tag me in a forum I'm usually able to respond within a day or two. Miscellaneous resources: For some other resources, mainly for listeners, see my unofficial companion site: The 8th Cup [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/]
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Antonio7Cups
L Master 6 286
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Unfortunality, I am not available to assist 1-1 member support chats. 🌟 About Me 🌟  😄 Hello! I am Antonio, a dedicated 7 Cups teen listener who cares about the mental health and psychological well-being of our society. 🌼 As someone deeply committed to lending a listening ear and a caring heart, I believe in the power of empathetic conversations to create a safe and non-judgmental space for you. 💖 Throughout my journey on 7 Cups, I've gained insights into resilience, positivity, and the strength of the human spirit. Excited to be a significant part of your support network and share in your experiences. 👨👧 My wonderful listener twin is the amazing @, adding another layer of support and understanding to my journey.  🎧 What to Expect 🎧 ✨ In our conversations, experience a warm and welcoming atmosphere where you can freely express yourself. I'm here to listen, provide emotional support, and offer a caring presence. Together, we can navigate challenges and celebrate successes. 💪 My goal is to help you find inner strength and resources to face life's ups and downs. Remember, you're not alone, and there's always hope for a brighter tomorrow. 🍵 My roles at 7 Cups 🍵 Current roles: Founder and Leader of the Kahoot Sessions TeamChatroom Moderator of the Newbie Hub Community (Teen Community Room 24/7, Support Room 24/7 and Sharing Circle Room)Doorkeeper. Group Support Mentor. Global Moderator. Past roles: Project Agent of the Outreach AL Team.Peer Supporter.Member of the Safety Patrol Team.Community Mentor of the TV & Movies Community. 📅 Availability 🕰️ - Days: Monday to Friday. -Time: 8:30 AM to 9:30 AM Eastern Time (ET) That is the time when I am normally available, but it does not mean that I cannot connect at other times, and you can see me, for example, in the chat rooms. ⏰ Response Time ⏰ You can expect my response within: 24 to 72 hours. 🤗 Let's Connect 🤗 Feel free to reach out anytime you'd like to chat or share your thoughts. I'm here to support you in your journey, making each day a little brighter. Remember, you matter, and your feelings are valid. 💕 Thank you for considering me as your listener on 7 Cups. Looking forward to getting to know you and being a source of encouragement and understanding in your life. Take care and be kind to yourself! 🌻 Updated on December 9, 2024.
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cal1860
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@cal1860   [https://www.7cups.com/13383367]I'm in my 60s and my main area of experience is Autism Spectrum, living with & managing disabilities.  I'm happy to chat about most topics.  I prefer to limit chats to about an hour.  I'm a Christian.  
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DanCat1128
L Maven 9 616
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Hi I'm Dandan and I'm a listener here on cups 😊 😊  Chat Overview: My chats include a 30-45 minute chats. I don't take inappropriate chats and/or depression chats. I say ok as acknowledge what is being said and process it. This is no sarcastic ok remark by any means. 
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Asher
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Hello, my name is Asher. I'm currently a student working on my Master of Business Administration. Looking forward to working with you. I have also provided 5,000 hours of Peer Support for those in need, while focusing on a holistic approach for each member. I do take all issues and will support you on them to the best of my ability (except issues of suicide or active self-harm).  Interests: Narrative Psychology, Mythology, Children Literature, Public Health, Mental Health, becoming a Doctoral student in Public Health or Healthcare Administration, Leadership, and Sociology of Health.  7 Cups Leadership Roles Project Lead, Being Asher Former Roles Community Ambassador  Executive Editor, 7 Cups Newsletter Community Admin Support, Group Support in Community Engagement Community Mentor Leader of 7 Cups Leadership Quality Mentor, Safety Patrol Outreach Team  Project Lead of International Resource Database Chatroom Support/ Teen Chatroom Support Safety Patrol Outreach Team  Peer Support / Teen Peer Support Forum Supporter, Need Replies "Cause I'll be there when you can finally make it home"                                                                 - Missing Piece, Vance Joy "We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly"                                             - Up, Disney            "Go big, get loud, or go home. You gotta check that bucket list before going to the crypt"                                                                                        - Chaz Cardigom                                                 
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SeenTarListener
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I have overcome depression and anxiety for the most part and I want to help others who are suffering from this.
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Phoenixthepoised
L Explorer 6 107
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Hi, I’m Phoenix! I’m deeply passionate about exploring the intersections of psychology, philosophy, and spirituality. These fields help me navigate the complexities of human experience, making sense of our shared journey. I believe in nurturing a strong inner world as it builds resilience and self-awareness while also fostering a compassionate outlook on life. I love connecting with others and sharing stories that inspire growth and understanding, making each day a little more meaningful. ------------------------- Why the name 'Phoenixthepoised'? Phoenixthepoised embodies a powerful blend of transformation and tranquility. The phoenix represents rebirth and resilience, illustrating the strength to rise anew after setbacks. "The poised" signifies a graceful, balanced presence, reflecting the importance of staying centered amid life's chaos. Together, this name conveys a journey of inner growth, empowerment and a dedication to navigating challenges with both strength and compassion. It’s a reminder to embrace change while remaining anchored in self-awareness. ------------------------- What can you expect? Welcome to a space where vulnerability meets warmth! Our conversations will feel like a stroll through a peaceful garden, where you can express yourself freely without any rush or pressure. I’m here to listen with an open heart, validating your feelings and offering support without any judgment. My goal is to make sure you feel truly heard and appreciated because every story is worth sharing. I take 1-on-1 chats for a maximum of 45 minutes, allowing me to fully focus and delve into your concerns without distractions. Also, I'm not available to take any 1-on-1 chats on Saturdays and Sundays ------------------------- Life can feel like a lot sometimes but you don’t have to carry it alone. Whether you’re in search of a friendly chat, a little laughter or just someone who truly understands, I’m here to walk alongside you on this journey. Looking forward to connecting with you and being a part of your journey! https://www.7cups.com/113948727
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Priscilaxx
L Advanced 1 456
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💜hello💜 (not as active at the moment) 💜Verified Listener & QLP Grad & Intern Grad 💜 Twins with @Thedoctorno12  smile-smile-smile-smile-smile-smile-smile-smile-smile-smile-smile  
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HannahSupportBuddy
L Connoisseur 2 1116
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Hi, I'm Hannah, a verified listener here at 7 Cups! I'm a listening enthusiast, because I believe everyone has a story worth hearing. I strive to support YOU, no matter your race, gender, disability, religion and others. I am here to provide a supportive space for you to express yourself. I do not have any triggers, so feel free to reach out on any topic that you wish to discuss 👂 I'm a hospital volunteer/worker (NICU 'parent' & hospitality) and high school student. I'm in a relationship with my partner (@HaydenSupportHomie), whom I've known for 13 years now. I'm a teen mum (was 16), baby was born in January of 2024 [I have loved them for a thousand years, I'll love them for a thousand more. 💕]. I promise to treat people seeking help with dignity and respect. I promise you, you're enough and things will get better.  My story/experiences include topics such as having addictions (3 years), in a relation with someone who has ADHD, foster care (as a child), alcohol/drug abuse (3 years), anxiety (since becoming an adolescent), breakups (three times, same person), bullying, depression, diabetes (type 1 diabetic), domestic violence, eating disorders, exercise motivation, family stress (divorced + absent parents), financial stress (being on tight budgets, low on earnings while having to support self), forgiveness, general mental health, getting unstuck, grief (of pets, people, children), LGBTQ+ Issues (inner questioning + have a queer half brother who is happily married), loneliness (losing friends, struggling to make them, struggling to feel noticed), managing emotions, panic attacks (in different settings), parenting (baby turns one soon, have been through teen pregnancy and taking care of many siblings in a parental way for numerous years now), perinatal mood disorder (postpartum depression), PTSD, Racial and Cultural Identify, recovery (from delivery, labour, addictions,  breakups, etc), self-esteem (how to maintain), self-harm, sexual health, sleeping well, social anxiety (struggle to communicate), spirituality, student life (while balancing many part time jobs), weight management, women’s issues, and work stress (have worked many part time jobs, kudos to everyone who works).  If you took time to read all that, I hope you feel a bit more comfortable and are able to resonate with some of these topics. When I say I understand you, I can guarantee that I truly do. ❤️‍🩹 Quotes/Lyrics! "You're not a prisoner of your past, it was a lesson not a life sentence". (For regret) "I'll look after you." (For support) "I was enchanted to meet you." (For gratefulness) "Nothing prepared me for, what the privilege of being yours would do.." (For mamas, for my Harmony) "Well I would've known, what I've been living for." (For a reason to live that might be unseen now, but it's there) Some of my hobbies include playing guitar, hockey, lacrosse, reading and crochet! For anyone who needs to hear any part of this, this is for you. From @HannahSupportBuddy & @HaydenSupportHomie. 💙 I love your hair  I love your forehead I love your eyebrows I love your eyelashes I love your eyes I love your ears I love your nose I love your cheeks I love your mouth I love your laugh I love your teeth I love your chin I love your neck I love your shoulders I love your chest I love your arms I love your hands I love your tummy I love your hips I love your thighs I love your knees I love your shins I love your feet (not in that way.) I love your moles/marks I love your scars I love your voice I love what you do I love your personality I love you on your good days I love you on your bad days I love you when you when you wear makeup I love you when you don’t wear makeup. I love your skin I love you when you’re sad I love you when you’re mad I love you when you’re happy I love you when you hate me I love you when you love me I love you when you forget me I’m proud of you for getting some sleep I’m proud of you for trying to sleep I’m proud of you for waking up I’m proud of you for getting up I’m proud of you for brushing your teeth I'm proud of you for tending toward your braces I’m proud of you for doing your hair I’m proud of you for washing your face I’m proud of you for doing skin care I love you for doing your makeup (if you wear it) I’m proud of you that you got out of your room I’m proud of you for getting dressed  I’m proud of you for eating breakfast  I’m proud of you for being clean I’m proud of you for trying to be clean I’m proud of you for being alive  I’m proud of you for being a good friend I’m proud of you for trying to be a good friend I won’t judge you for your looks I won’t judge you from your race I won’t judge you for your life I won’t judge you for your family I won’t judge you for your past/childhood I won’t judge you for your body I won’t judge you for your tears I wont judge you for your age I won’t judge you for your sexual orientation  I wont judge you for your gender I wont judge you for your money I won’t judge you for where you come from I won’t judge you for your language You aren’t ugly You aren’t too fat  You aren’t too skinny You aren’t annoying You aren’t mean You aren’t evil You aren’t crazy You aren’t weird You aren’t worthless  You aren’t scary You aren’t selfish You aren’t too feminine You aren’t too masculine You aren’t too young You aren’t too old You aren’t disgusting  You aren’t a doormat You aren’t a toy You aren’t a monster You are beautiful You are pretty You are handsome You are kind You are cool You are everything you want to be You aren’t perfect, nobody is, but you are perfect in my eyes. I won't judge you for anything. I'm so proud of you. I love you.
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hellopeople304
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Hi, I'm River, an 18 years old listener on the chat support  I'm here to provide a compassionate and non judgmental space for you to share whatever’s on your mind. Whether you’re facing challenges or just need someone to talk to, I’m ready to listen and support you. My goal is to ensure you feel heard, valued, and understood. Let’s connect I’m here for you. ABOUT CHAT : i) anonymous ii)safe  ABOUT ME : I am a 18 years old who cares about you and wishes  you to feel better after sharing  your feelings  with me, as all conversations  you might have on 7 cups 🤔💭:When can we talk? - That depends on the cycle's color near my profile  picture 🟢 Green:I am free to talk with you 🟠 Orange:I am busy at talking  with other members, but still caring about you♥️ 🔴 Red I am inactive  ! UNFORTUNATLY I AM NOT ABLE TO PROVIDE HELP TO! *PERSONALITY DISORDERS, AUTISM, ADHD, SCHIZOPHRENIA  *PHYSICAL'S HEALTH ISSUES (diabetes, cancert e.t.c) *BREAK UP, RELATIONSHIP STRESS *SEXUAL TOPICS  If that describes what brings you here, I wish you to find what you are looking  for on an other listener's  account♡ Thanks for reading! Have a wonderful  day or night! 
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