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50 & Over Taglist!
by MistyMagic
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 January 1st
...See more This thread controls an auto-updating taglist. To add yourself to this taglist, press the Reply button in this post and write the exact words “ Please add me. ” To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Reply button in this post and write the exact words, “ Please remove me. ”
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Support discussions
by amiablePeace77
Last post
 August 23rd, 2024
...See more THREAD CLOSED Thanks everyone for submitting your ideas about discussion topics!  Hello everyone, we hope you’re all doing okay. 💙 Today, we would like to give you an update on discussions taking place in the 50+ and mindfulness community. At the moment we are in the process of working on discussion templates and also creating new ones for discussions in future. Soulsings [http://www.7cups.com/@soulsings], adventurousBranch3786 [http://www.7cups.com/@adventurousBranch8786]and me, amiablePeace77 [http://www.7cups.com/amiablePeace77]  want to offer you the best options possible and for this we need your help. Please submit possible discussion topics in this thread, example Dealing with feelings of loneliness. Kindly let us know as well what discussion times fit you best. Kindly also give us feedback on the how the discussions have been going and what you would like to see changed. We kindly ask you to use constructive criticism and avoid being critical and we can work on it.  We appreciate your help 🙏 www.7cups.com/@soulsings [http://www.7cups.com/@soulsings]amiablePeace77 [http://amiablepeace77]adventurousBranch3786 [http://www.7cups.com/@adventurousBranch8786]
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Celebrating 5th Cupversary adventurousBranch3786
by amiablePeace77
Last post
 July 24th, 2024
...See more Hello everyone!  Please join me in celebrating 5 years of @adventurousBranch3786 wonderful presence on 7 Cups!  In the past, adventurousBranch has supported everyone in their role as room supporter with incredible kindness and professionalism.   We are grateful to have you in the community and appreciate you being a great room supporter and teammate.  Happy 5th cupversary @adventurousBranch3786.  We hope there will be many more to come! <3 Please join this celebration and share some love with branch! 
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Ageing
by BookishWendy
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 21 minutes ago
...See more I wish I was about 35. I had energy and was the perfect weight. I'm not sure if it's my age (51) or being postmenopausal but I put on weight and I have no energy and motivation.
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summary of Self Compassion
by pamharley003
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...See more  Self - Compassion is giving the same compassion received by others back to them. 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Your First letter is last letter of last post
by CalmWhisper22
Last post
 3 hours ago
...See more The first letter of your word, will be the last letter of my word. No names, no words shorter than 3 letters. 1. Rainbow 2. Water 3. ????
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Let's Play - Change One Word
by CalmWhisper22
Last post
 7 hours ago
...See more Change One Word Here's how it works: Example -- Blowing leaves Turnover leaves Apple turnover Apple pie I'll start: Ocean waves
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Improving low self-esteem after 50
by courageouspanda2006
Last post
 18 hours ago
...See more Hello, Looking for advice on improving low self-esteem. I've always had self-esteem issues due to my height. Being 6'-8", I don't really blend into the crowd. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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Describe an accomplishment or achievement that you’re proud of.
by amiablePeace77
Last post
 20 hours ago
...See more Check-In 50+ January 20-22, 2025
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Anybody here taking Metoprolol and/or Anastrozole? Side effects?
by goodSpruce3041
Last post
 22 hours ago
...See more Hi, all. After I got breast cancer, my doctor prescribed Anastrozole post-surgery. Ever since then, I've experienced side effects like bone thinning, weight gain, and high blood pressure. Worse of all is the joint pain, especially in my knees. I was also prescribed Metoprolol to deal with the high blood pressure from the Anastrozole. And I'm getting side effects from it.  I swear to god, I managed to beat cancer, but the post-cancer medicine is killing me! My doctor has suggested I lay off the Anastrozole for two weeks and see if things get better. I'm also laying off the Metoprolol, because I read that both it and Anastrozole can cause arthralgia (joint pain or stiffness). I hope I see some change, because these medicines are making me miserable. Anyone else here taking these medicines, and, if so, have you experienced any side effects?
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Great Expectations
by belami2024
Last post
 23 hours ago
...See more One of the reasons many of the people I have chatted with on 7cups are troubled is, I feel, that they have sky-expectations from life.  When those expectations are not met, they come crashing down into various states of depression.
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Ramblings 3
by Iamwhoiamwhoami
Last post
 23 hours ago
...See more Nothing new, same issues . I miss the people here. I have been really struggling the last few months. I have been really trying and it seems like I am going back instead of forward.
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National Handwriting Day
by amiablePeace77
Last post
 1 day ago
...See more National Handwriting Day on January 23rd encourages us to put pen to paper and write out our thoughts. According to the Writing Instrument Manufacturers Association, it is a chance for all to re-explore the purity and power of handwriting. When was the last time you wrote a letter or wrote down your thoughts? 🤔 If you find it hard to remember, you probably belong to the increasing number of people who no longer use handwritten words at all but rather type on a device like a computer.  😮 Writing by hand though offers some valuable benefits like * Boosts learning * Sparks creativity * Sharpens your brain * Improves your problem-solving skills * Relaxes your mind Let's keep the art of handwriting alive for our own well-being! What are you doing to keep the art of handwriting alive for yourself?
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Long Illness
by Judecat42
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more Hi, I just need to talk to someone. I've been ill for going on a month with a weird bug that somehow morphed into an atypical UTI which has caused debilitating fatigue along with heart palpitations and blood pressure spikes. Took docs 2 weeks just to figure out what was going on. I'm on antibiotics and beta blockers now. I've missed more work than I can afford to and am quite stressed and anxious. I know things will turn out OK but I keep wondering how long this is gonna last? I've never been sick this long. It's like my worst fear has come true. I know there are many people out there who have worse health situations and they manage to cope,often with such grace. I guess I'm just impatient. But I so hate not feeling like myself and not being able to do and enjoy my usual activities! How do you cope?Thanks for lending an ear...or an eye, as it we're.
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What are three things you love about yourself, both physically and emotionally?
by amiablePeace77
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more 50+ Check-In January 13 to January 15, 2025 “Self-love is the first step towards self-improvement.”

Welcome, friends, to the 50 & Over Community Online Community at 7 Cups of Tea. This is a place where anyone dealing with 50plus issues can meet with others and share ideas and community together. The name of our community is “50plus” but the community is open to all people, adults and teens (teens in forums), that are interested in discussion topics that people midway through life face and beyond.

We are here for serious and lighthearted discussion, for dealing with challenges and having fun. You are not alone; we are all here with you 💙

Main Forums: Discussions Schedule and Topics , New Member Welcome ----   Check In ----   Games, Quizzes and Fun  ----  Wellness and Health   Challenges We Face   ----  Enjoying Life Hobbies, what gives us joy, creativity, ideas, poetry, art, music  ----   Team Tools and Announcements   ----   Welcome, friends, to the 50 & Over Community Online Community at 7 Cups of Tea.

Please let us know what works for you and other ideas you have that will make 50plus a supportive place for you.

Please respect others opinions, even if we strongly disagree. There is no right or wrong answer here. Please avoid conflict or arguments. If something occurs that seems objectionable, message me and send link soulsings  

For more detailed information about how to behave in the forums and in 7 Cups in general:(these are copy and paste until the Dev Team fixes links permissions)

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Here are the guidelines for the 50plus Sub Community at 7cups to ensure a safe and supportive environment for everyone.  Here are Community Guidelines

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https://www.7cups.com/forum/50plus/QAsDiscussionsResources_1770/50communityforumguidelines_305799/?post=3280924


50plus is a place where anyone dealing with 50plus issues at this time of life can meet with others and share ideas and community together. We are here for serious and light hearted discussion, for dealing with challenges and having fun. You are not alone, we are all here with you.

Please let us know what works for you and other ideas you have that will make 50plus a supportive place for you.

Please respect others opinions, even if we strongly disagree. There is no right or wrong answer here. Please avoid conflict or arguments. If something occurs that seems objectionable, please send a message to with a link so they can easily find the spot.   http://www.7cups.com/@soulsings

Please refrain from religious talk that is about the benefits or details of your religion. This includes talking about religious figures in your religion, the consequences of not believing in your religion, the detriment of any other religions, and any other religious talk that may state the exclusive benefits of your religion or may trigger others that have other beliefs.

For more detailed information about how to behave in the forums and in 7 Cups in general:

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