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Member Oath - All Encouraged to Participate

Laura November 9th, 2014

Our member community is thriving! Now that we have our group support chat rooms, our members are able to interact and support each other in new and dynamic ways. You all have done a wonderful job adjusting to these chat rooms and supporting one another.

As a member of the 7 Cups community, you are all here for a variety of specific reasons. But one thing we all have in common is our love of the 7 Cups community. Our community is a safe haven, a place to find connection, compassion, love, and support.

Our community is only as strong as it's members. We ask each member to agree to these community guidelines and interact in ways that reflect these guidelines and the 7 Cups values.

Today, I would like all members of 7 Cups of Tea to take ownership of their home here. To show your commitment, we ask that you take the 7 Cups member oath. By completing this oath, you are promising to show kindness and support to all those you interact with here. It could be in the forums, with a listener in a 1-1 chat or in the group support chat rooms.

Below this post, type out your member oath. You could cut and paste it, but I feel like this takes away from it. Typing it helps you really think through what you are committing to. Next, at the bottom, sign in with your username like this:

I, ___________________, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community.

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations.

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community.

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together.

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

Signed: //LauraS//
Date: 11/9/2014

NOTE: Eventually, we will be able to give a badge to all those who take this pledge. The badge will come, as long as you post in this thread, you will earn it!

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(Edit; ASilentObserver, 01/10/2020)

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delicateBubbles94 November 21st, 2016

I pledge to use 7 cups with kindness and compassion, helping anyone in any way I can. I promise to be considerate and understanding, and do as much as I can to support whoever is going through a hard time.

NathanPham November 23rd, 2016

@Laura I promise to be kind, caring ,and helpful to everybody. I will try to do my best to help improve our community :)

TheHuggleMonster November 24th, 2016

Well as a member I'd pledge to try to always follow the guidelines and stay supportive and nice to all the people I talk to even if I do need support myself ^-^

amazingSunshine91 November 27th, 2016

As an active listener on 7 Cups of Tea this is my oath to:

1) Treat every person who I connect with as I would a close friend: with empathy, respect, and dignity.

2) Help out others, but also make sure that I am taking care of my own needs

3) Feel honored and proud to be part of this big community helping so many people

4) Adhere to community guidelines and confidentiality out of respect for users and professional integrity

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Guyno1 December 12th, 2016

@amazingSunshine91 Can I talk to you

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amazingSunshine91 December 13th, 2016

@Guyno1

Hey, sure! You can PM me whenever, and we can set up a time to connect :)

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TheHuggleMonster December 5th, 2016

I pledge to adhere to the rules and know kindness and support everywhere and anywhere I am on 7cups.

Skuhlm1 December 7th, 2016

I promise to compassionately listen and be of service to those I come into contact with in the 7 cups community. I promise to empathize and to the best of my ability to reflect back to others that they are heard, understood and valued because of who they are. I promise to uphold the highest respect and utmost dignity to the 7 cups community.

TropicalWatermelon December 8th, 2016

I promise I will be kind and caring to everyone on this website and that I will follow the guidelines.

confidentHeart99 December 9th, 2016

I promise to always be supportive and loving the the poeple that need it. I promise to stick to the guidelines and not get involved in negativity. I will do everything in my power to keep this promise.

@Confidentheart99

December 8, 2016

jr50 December 9th, 2016

I promise to abide by the 7 cups rules and guidelines, I will be kind, compassionate, and show empathy to all members and listeners

Jr50

12/08/2016

themainjane December 11th, 2016

@Laura

what is the oath - i couldnt find it?