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Member Oath - All Encouraged to Participate

Laura November 9th, 2014

Our member community is thriving! Now that we have our group support chat rooms, our members are able to interact and support each other in new and dynamic ways. You all have done a wonderful job adjusting to these chat rooms and supporting one another.

As a member of the 7 Cups community, you are all here for a variety of specific reasons. But one thing we all have in common is our love of the 7 Cups community. Our community is a safe haven, a place to find connection, compassion, love, and support.

Our community is only as strong as it's members. We ask each member to agree to these community guidelines and interact in ways that reflect these guidelines and the 7 Cups values.

Today, I would like all members of 7 Cups of Tea to take ownership of their home here. To show your commitment, we ask that you take the 7 Cups member oath. By completing this oath, you are promising to show kindness and support to all those you interact with here. It could be in the forums, with a listener in a 1-1 chat or in the group support chat rooms.

Below this post, type out your member oath. You could cut and paste it, but I feel like this takes away from it. Typing it helps you really think through what you are committing to. Next, at the bottom, sign in with your username like this:

I, ___________________, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community.

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations.

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community.

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together.

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

Signed: //LauraS//
Date: 11/9/2014

NOTE: Eventually, we will be able to give a badge to all those who take this pledge. The badge will come, as long as you post in this thread, you will earn it!

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(Edit; ASilentObserver, 01/10/2020)

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jormia624 October 28th, 2016

@Laura

Even though I'm not a listener, I still adhere to all of the values and goals of 7 Cups.

jormia624

10/27/16

quietBeach575 October 28th, 2016

@Laura I pledge as botha member and listener!

Genevieve123 October 28th, 2016

I undertake to be kind, caring, empathetic and considerate in my appraaches with 7 cups members. I willnot judge. I will keep confidences. I will try to act with grace, humour and compassion . Gx

ScorpioxZ October 28th, 2016

I solemnly swear, before those witnesses who stand before me, that I shall adhere to and uphold the oath I take today. To respect all individuals as they respect me. To be supportive of others as they support me. To abide by the rules and guidelines of this community which were established for the security and well being of all.

sociableStrings2600 October 28th, 2016

I take a member oath to adhere to all the goals, values and guidelines set up by the moderators on 7 cups. @Laura

kattyaw October 28th, 2016

Today I take my oath as a 7 cups member. I would like to frequently come by to improve myself, to chat with others so i can gain a better perspective of my current situation and also eventually help others too.

Signed: //kattyaw//
Date: 28th October 2016

conscientiousVase6150 October 28th, 2016

As a thankful member of 7cups this is my Oath, to be supportive, compassionate and kind to all I encounter. To share love and tenderness. To be there and listen without judgement.

Deb

oliveCoconut2394 October 28th, 2016

@Laura

I promise to give positive responses to those I listen to. I promise to maintain respect for every individual I come in contact with as a member of 7 Cups. I promise to give insight and thoughtfulness. I promise, where I can help, I will help. As in these promises, I take the oath to be a member adhereing to all rules, regulations and moral support that is required. I will help make the world a better place to all the best of my ability.

oliveCoconut2394

28/10/2016

October 28th, 2016

@Laura I'm not a listener here (yet!) but I promise to adhere to all of 7cups values (:

jr50 October 28th, 2016

I hereby take the 7 cups oath ,I promise to treat listeners and other members with compassion,kindness and respect, I will try my best to encourage others and help make this a safe place to come.

Signed // jr//

10/ 28/2016