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Member Oath - All Encouraged to Participate

Laura November 9th, 2014

Our member community is thriving! Now that we have our group support chat rooms, our members are able to interact and support each other in new and dynamic ways. You all have done a wonderful job adjusting to these chat rooms and supporting one another.

As a member of the 7 Cups community, you are all here for a variety of specific reasons. But one thing we all have in common is our love of the 7 Cups community. Our community is a safe haven, a place to find connection, compassion, love, and support.

Our community is only as strong as it's members. We ask each member to agree to these community guidelines and interact in ways that reflect these guidelines and the 7 Cups values.

Today, I would like all members of 7 Cups of Tea to take ownership of their home here. To show your commitment, we ask that you take the 7 Cups member oath. By completing this oath, you are promising to show kindness and support to all those you interact with here. It could be in the forums, with a listener in a 1-1 chat or in the group support chat rooms.

Below this post, type out your member oath. You could cut and paste it, but I feel like this takes away from it. Typing it helps you really think through what you are committing to. Next, at the bottom, sign in with your username like this:

I, ___________________, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community.

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations.

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community.

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together.

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

Signed: //LauraS//
Date: 11/9/2014

NOTE: Eventually, we will be able to give a badge to all those who take this pledge. The badge will come, as long as you post in this thread, you will earn it!

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(Edit; ASilentObserver, 01/10/2020)

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RebelHawk December 14th, 2016

I vow to show compassion to others and treat other members the way I would like to be treated. I vow to love and support my fellow members. I vow to uphold the guidelines of 7 Cups and be a positive model of this community.

Signed: //tiggerthepenguin//
Date: 12/14/2016

littleWater7718 December 21st, 2016

I pledge to treat fellow 7 cups users with compassion, to approach everyone I meet with empathy, to strive to turn hurt into beauty and, to the best of my ability, to pay forward the kindness that has been shown me.

discreetBalsam3833 December 21st, 2016

I pledge to use seven cups in order to enable me to cope better with stress.

stacy46 December 21st, 2016

I pledge to use seven cups in order to enable me to cope better with stress.

lightTortoise1929 December 21st, 2016

I pledge to treat everyone on 7cups with compassion and to follow all rules and guidelines to the best of my ability.

phi123 December 22nd, 2016

I pledge to show compassion, empathy and understanding to all those who seek a listener here on 7 cups. I pledge to use this plaform to help those who seek it and to spread positivity whilst improving my listening skills.

Signed: phi123

Date: 22/12/2016

athinker December 25th, 2016

I pledge to treat everyone on 7cups with compassion and to follow all rules and guidelines to the best of my ability.

RETT January 19th, 2017

I pledge to show kindness and respect to all I interact with on 7cups and to follow all rules and guidelines to the best of my ability.

Signed: RETT

Date: 1/19/17

missSmile January 22nd, 2017

Signed: //missSmile//
Date: 27/11/2016

Moosewithducks January 26th, 2017

I, Moosewithducks, pledge a moral oath before the entire community, making the community witness that I will fulfill to the best of my ability this covenant and undertaking.

I will show kindness and compassion to all those I interact with.

I will work towards bettering my health every time I log on.

I will show respect and never violate the boundaries of my fellow members or listeners.

I will take ownership of my mental health and be forthcoming to build supportive relationships which encourage this endeavor.

I will respect the time, love and commitment my volunteer listeners bring to 7 Cups of Tea every day.

I will use the resources provided to me to continue to learn and grow.

I will believe in myself and understand that everyone's personal journey is unique.

I will take every interaction I have on 7 Cups of Tea as an opportunity to grow and learn.

I will honor the challenges presented to me in my life, believing in my soul, that no matter, how challenging, I can overcome.

I will lean on the community in my time of need and I will let others lean on me in their time of need.

I recognize that my behavior is a reflection of me. I take ownership of my actions and will be thoughtful in all my interactions.

I will keep these promises as a means of showing myself and the community that I am dedicated to my personal health and the betterment of the entire 7 Cups community.

signed: Moosewithducks

1/26.17