Member Oath - All Encouraged to Participate
Our member community is thriving! Now that we have our group support chat rooms, our members are able to interact and support each other in new and dynamic ways. You all have done a wonderful job adjusting to these chat rooms and supporting one another.
As a member of the 7 Cups community, you are all here for a variety of specific reasons. But one thing we all have in common is our love of the 7 Cups community. Our community is a safe haven, a place to find connection, compassion, love, and support.
Our community is only as strong as it's members. We ask each member to agree to these community guidelines and interact in ways that reflect these guidelines and the 7 Cups values.
Today, I would like all members of 7 Cups of Tea to take ownership of their home here. To show your commitment, we ask that you take the 7 Cups member oath. By completing this oath, you are promising to show kindness and support to all those you interact with here. It could be in the forums, with a listener in a 1-1 chat or in the group support chat rooms.
Below this post, type out your member oath. You could cut and paste it, but I feel like this takes away from it. Typing it helps you really think through what you are committing to. Next, at the bottom, sign in with your username like this:
I, ___________________, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.
I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.
I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community.
I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.
I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations.
I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community.
I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together.
I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.
I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.
Signed: //LauraS//
Date: 11/9/2014
NOTE: Eventually, we will be able to give a badge to all those who take this pledge. The badge will come, as long as you post in this thread, you will earn it!
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(Edit; ASilentObserver, 01/10/2020)
I have swam today.
And Monday ..drank more water
Eaten more healthy
Feelin more alert ..today.👍💗💕
@Laura
I'm not yet a supporter but I am planning to become one. I hereby pledge to this day forward that I will give nothing but the best and most appropriate service I could give to the troubled people who visit this website for self-esteem and advice.
//JustinJakeAshton//
7-20-16
@Laura
Right now, as I am, I know that I cannot help anyone here, but I can support 7cups with funding and I will continue to do so as long as they adhere to their own mission statement. This can help a lot of people, it has helped me, and I know I will need it again. I pledge my support, and promise to be civil, willing to help and be helped, and accountable for myself on this community.
@Laura not yet a listener, but I hope to be some day when I am doing much better. I still would like to take the oath because conversation between members and listeners go both ways! I vow to be kind, open minded and honest.
Thanks to everyone who is a listener. It's very incredible what you are doing. You are greatly appreciated!
@doeji
This is a oath for members, non-listeners! So you can take it :)
@Laura ooh I must have misunderstood! thanks for letting me know!!
I, LittleLotte, member of 7Cups, pledge to follow the Community Guidelines and support the 7Cups Values.
I pledge to use 7Cups to support my own mental wellbeing, as well as supporting others when I can.
I pledge to be kind to all I meet here.
I pledge to step away if I feel triggered or upset, and do my best not to trigger others.
I promise to show respect to this community and all who come here.
Signed: LittleLotte
Date: 20th July 2016
@Laura Hello:) I promise to show kindness and compassion. Thank you 7 Cups and all members for being here, just the thought that there is actually always somebody out there willing to listen is already helpful. I will be respectful and show support to others and I hope I will be able to help other people.
Signed: Anna117
Date: 20/7/2016
I pledge to abide by the 7 Cups rules for as long as I use this website.
I pledge to be kind and respectful when talking to a listener, even if what I'm talking about is upsetting me.
I pledge to do what I can to make this website as welcoming and inviting as possible, for those who need it.
Signed, QuietDime4559
20 July 2016
I promise to listen with respect and without judgement, to offer support and to continue to try and better myself.
I pledge to show kindness and support to everyone on 7 cups, just as many have done for me
I, Cyprin, pledge a moral oath before the entire community, making the community witness that I will fulfill to the best of my ability this covenant and undertaking. I will show kindness and compassion to all those I interact with. I will work towards bettering my health every time I log on.
I will show respect and never violate the boundaries of my fellow members or listeners. I will take ownership of my mental health and be forthcoming to build supportive relationships which encourage this endeavor. I will respect the time, love and commitment my volunteer listeners bring to 7 Cups of Tea every day. I will use the resources provided to me to continue to learn and grow.
I will believe in myself and understand that everyone's personal journey is unique. I will take every interaction I have on 7 Cups of Tea as an opportunity to grow and learn.I will honor the challenges presented to me in my life, believing in my soul, that no matter, how challenging, I can overcome. I will lean on the community in my time of need and I will let others lean on me in their time of need.
I recognize that my behavior is a reflection of me. I take ownership of my actions and will be thoughtful in all my interactions. I will keep these promises as a means of showing myself and the community that I am dedicated to my personal health and the betterment of the entire 7 Cups community.
Signed:
Cyprin
Date: 2016-07-21
