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Discussions of the Trauma Sub-Community Announcement Thread
by audienta
Last post
 11 hours ago
...See more Hello everyone, In this thread, the discussions of the trauma sub-community will be announced by the hosts 24 hours in advance. After a session has happened, I'll remove the post so that the thread stays nice and clean. If you want to be tagged for future discussions, please comment or pm me and I'll add you to the list. You can find the schedule of the discussions here (clickable) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaticExperiencesCommunity_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/ScheduleDiscussionsaboutDissociativeDisorders_302437/]. If you need to convert the time into your time zone, click here (clickable) [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/7cupstime]. Please let me know if you have any questions! Take care, audienta (lastly updated: 6/13/2023)
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Trauma Support Automated Taglist
by CaringBrit
Last post
 February 9th
...See more This thread controls an auto-updating taglist. To see the current list, go to Trauma Support Community [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/taglist?23eb3b680028ac32c998125af8d8f262]. <<<< checkin posters refer to this click then copy for taglist its instant updated To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button above and write the exact words Please add me. To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button above and write the exact words, Please remove me. highlighting keywords as these are needed no forms to fill in just type to this thread . dont need to copy the colouring though just the keywords highlight is so they stand out is all. New taglist as of August 9th 2024 by audienta @0Some0where0I0BELONG0 @13irth @adaptableLake3534 @adequatelyInadequate @adventurousAcres9344 @adventurousBranch3786 @AffyAvo @AguaNector6700 @allYou @Amelia2324 @amiableBunny4016 @AshFox2007 @AstronomySkies @audienta @Avaray @BeautifulCreation999 @BeenAKiwi @bela12345 @BillyJoeBobb @blueScarf9326 @bouncyBreeze44 @BraveAdventurer @BrokenDreamsPalace @BrokenMedic @bubblegumPuppy68 @bumblebee2307 @Bunnylovesyou @CalmRosebud @CaptainTrev @carefulKitten1131 @CaringBrit @charmingSky5972 @Chrissy911666 @Claireolomi @clare7199 @Colorfulcatsofhope @communicativePond1728 @communicativeYard2325 @conicha @CoolBeans29 @coolvibes @Crakyz @creativeStrings1531 @crimsonLime6525 @crxxtvfl0w @cueball @cyanPlatypus6370 @DaniAleah156 @Dannc7c @DarkGalaxy55555 @daydreammemories @Deadtiredperson175 @delicatepunk @depressedsatellite1452 @diligentDime8651 @DinaElwy @domesticEmerald50s @Eitas @emotional232023 @emotionalTalker2260 @emylly @FallenAngel0128 @Feathersfall @FigureskatingEquestrian @Fireskye13 @Fleggles @fluien @forcefulFriend4768 @Gagaintheroom @gentleLand5245 @Ghxstie @goldenSpruce1512 @Grandmaof10 @Greenchoice1 @gregariousBeing5071 @Grits1910 @helpfulLion92 @hillsideblues @honestpanda81 @HonestWarrior6624 @HopeNChayil @HumanPersonThingy @Iamwhoiamwhoami @IceCream4IceCream @iloveyouxx @IndigoWhisper @InfinityandBeyond23 @inventiveOrange1313 @Itisbailey @jcqlinshots @Journey144 @jovialButterfly6752 @jr50 @Judy7 @jupitermatilde @JustSmilingThruHell @Kekesea11 @Kickiree @Kimmkimm @kindTurtle3738 @kittydragon771 @Kunoichi91Warrior @LightofWorld @LillithHolly @Lilly28 @lilmissjaded @lionsaether @littleHuman9247 @littleOtter1342 @LordFireStorm71 @lovehummingbirdsCindy @LovelyForever6990 @LovelyOrangeJuice @LoveMyMoonflowers @lowkeyem1001 @Lubo123 @Luchelle @lyricalAngel70 @Marigold357 @maya6548 @mcooper7583 @Meenagirl @Mellietronx @mish3l @MistyMagic @mkaitx @Mooglethefluffy @MunchieTaters @MVObserver @mytwistedsoul @navyMango2804 @neatBlueberry3608 @neonDog3649 @neonOwl3442 @NevaehRose @Nolanhm @NoneTheWiser @nonethewiser @notmyselftoday @Novelwriter @npos25 @oceancruiser48 @Oceanwaves16 @OffDutySeraph @OneErased @OneWithSugar @ottersngiggles @parkey @Parvlakin @PatienceImpatiens @pencilmarks @Petrichor2000 @Philowl @Pidgeymon @PinkestOctopus @politeBunny7572 @practicalIdeal2007 @purpleWheel873 @QuietLotus @rainbow3140 @Randomperson453 @RansviewTheWizard @raspberry563 @ReallyRuth @Rebekahwriter13 @Redhawk6547 @Redirecting @redmark @reliablePeach8464 @Rosa9570 @SafeSpace1776 @SapphireSoul @SarahAlaina15 @scarletPear1945 @selfdisciplinedTiger5523 @sensitiveShade5337 @ShapeshiftSystem @shellofashell @shiningDay80 @Silverviolets @sincereThinker3571 @sleepingd0gg0 @SmileSravani @SnippyHam @sofiamartino18 @SoftForestHSP77 @SoulSupporter102 @StarlightSystemDID @stickercollection @Storyhymns1234 @straightforwardSkies7721 @sugarcookies7 @Summer899 @SynSavory @Taylorz27 @tealOak8933 @teenytinyturtle @The0Vetoed0System @TheAutumnWitch @TheFisherKing @ThisIsLogan @ThreadbareThinker @Tinywhisper11 @TransparentPuzzle @turquoiseHemlock900 @Turtlegrrrl8 @u1146 @underapinetree @Understandingempath @UndomesticGoddess @unique73 @uniqueDaisy @veeceebee @Verysadperson101 @Vivikun9 @WarriorHeartsSystem @weepingwillow5489 @WelcomeToChat @wontwakewontsleep @WorkingitThrough2 @Worrior22Warrior @Writersworld @WriteToHeal42 @xandia @xmoonsie16x0
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Military and First Responder Trauma Support Group
by Kieran000
Last post
 February 8th
...See more Hi everyone,  I’m excited to announce the new launch of a Military and First Responder Trauma Support Group following wider community feedback requesting this support space.  The first session will take place on Sunday 9th February in the trauma support room on the adult side from 2:00pm to 3:00pm (2:55pm) ET and will provide a space for active or veteran military service members, emergency medical staff and law enforcement officers to share their experiences of trauma.  The timing is a little difficult at the moment as my availability for this weekend is extremely low and I’m not sure about the expected activity levels depending on times it takes place but hopefully this will provide enough time to have lots of thoughts shared and listened to, as well as the opportunity to suggest your own preferred times for future sessions possibly through a google forms document that will be sent out at the end of the session.  Hope to see many of you there! @Nick003 @SleeplessVet 
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By now I don't know what will trigger my Trauma
by FaithMonk9473
Last post
 February 12th
...See more I have recovered mostly from the unbearable situation. Though I don't remember most of it but somehow certain random things triggers me as in suddenly I become aloof and stop doing things. My mind starts playing old memories and i become more depressed. I really don't know how to deal with this when I don't know what will generate response for me. 
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Feel my trauma is dictating my life
by ExploringPanda
Last post
 February 5th
...See more Last year, I have been in therapy, digging up all kinds of trauma. I have been made more aware of them, plenty of digging left, but feel more insecure about it all. I feel my emotions of guilt, anger, sadness, etc are all more logically related to my trauma's. But everything seems to be relating to my trauma, unable to navigate without it linking it to my trauma (with some negative connotation). I no longer know who I am, and what my trauma is... It makes me feel guilty for being me... or what I thought to be me.
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ran into a bunch of people celebrating child abuse
by goldenFriend9441
Last post
 February 4th
...See more it was pretty triggering .
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I have started binge eating again
by FaithMonk9473
Last post
 January 28th
...See more I have been through alot in recent past in 2023. The trauma though past and still follows me in my mind. I have recovered alot past year in 2024 but again same mind state is coming back.  I used to be obese due to stress eating. Lost weight voluntarily for health reasons and good signs were that I had stopped stress eating. But now suddenly I have started binge eating and downside is that doesn't take away the stress. I am just gaining weight simply. I want to control myself but I am helpless.  My mind is just playing tricks on me and it becomes heavy with thoughts. My breathing increases and I can't help it. Overthinking has taken a permanent place in my life and focus on productive things have gone.  It is like I know what work should be done but I procrastinate and things go pending. I thought to not take stress further and distant myself from stress giving things to focus on being productive but I guess I just procrastinate now. I don't know what I want.. so much mind blurr is there
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CPTSD, possible tw*
by amiableBlackberry92
Last post
 January 25th
...See more I'm in the middle of a bad CPTSD episode. It's like a fog that hijacks the brain. It creates suicidall ideation thoughts out of nowhere. I'm tired. I'm sad. I feel alone. Distractions don't work. I've been doing this way too long. Triggers come from unexpected places. I hate those former friends who are gossipping untruths about me. I guess they are perfect with no trauma. Wish I was perfect like them * sarcasm. Is it possible to ever get well and get past some seriously cr*ppy trauma inflicted on me as a child and then as an adult. I feel defective and stupid. How did I get here? ABB 😓
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Betrayal Trauma - Partner of a Porn addict
by purpleYard1149
Last post
 January 23rd
...See more Does anyone here have experiance with betrayal trauma? Just wanting to chat to people about it. My 2 previous marriages were with men who were addicted to porn. And my last partner was also a sex addict and mentally abusive.
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Trigger Warning: Drugging, Manipulation, Psychopathic Behavior
by 1amHuman
Last post
 January 22nd
...See more -------------------------  For over a year, I endured a cycle of manipulation, violence, and gaslighting that shattered my sense of reality. Not only did he hold a gun to my head on multiple occasions, including one time where I watched him load a shotgun before pressing it against my skull, but he also drugged me with meth for an entire month. I had no idea what was happening to me until I started noticing the changes in my behavior and the toll it was taking on my body. When I finally caught him using, his response wasn’t one of remorse but a chilling justification—he claimed that I used it too, so I couldn’t be mad at him. ------------------------- This manipulation was classic—he used the drugs to control me, keeping me in a vulnerable state so I couldn’t think clearly or leave. His psychopathic tendencies allowed him to view everything as a game—my pain, my fear, my dependence on him—it was all part of his twisted plan to dominate me. He never took responsibility for his actions, and his threats toward me and my family were constant. 9 months later and heavy police intervention and a court order, he continues to reach out daily, alternating between professing love and threatening my life. ------------------------- ------------------------- Thank You For Listening 🫶🏽
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Suicide Loss & Grief & PTSD
by LovelyFrog8934
Last post
 January 14th
...See more Almost 5 yrs ago I lost my brother in law to mental illness Scizoprenia he was 24 at the time of his death he married my sister @ 18 when they both graduated High School in 2012. I miss him alot and I get PTSD from his passing,I try to keep him in my memory and make him proud of me by doing what he wasn't able to considering I to suffer from Depression as well too. I sometimes get worried that I may fall i to the trap of *Suicide* as well but I do try to remember that everyone is different and copes better than others and sometimes do fail to make life worth living and continue on. Grief is difficult and never easy to go through no matter what whether its a death or change of life ect. I've never liked the world Suicide I always call it a symptom of deep depression and say the death by mental illness. ❤❤❤❤❤
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Manipulated and betrayed by men. Now I dont have trust any longer.
by Dellanguyen
Last post
 January 12th
...See more 2 years have passed, but I'm still sitting here, tears streaming down my face whenever I think about what happened. I feel completely broken and lost. It all started in October 2021 with Antonio, that fool from Puerto Rico. We were in a long-distance relationship and, after months of talking, we decided to meet in April 2022. I had no idea that this would turn into the worst experience of my life. As the date to meet approached, we fought more and more. He became insecure but didn’t tell me, and when he finally arrived in Vietnam, he had second thoughts. The nightmare began. He didn’t tell me about his insecurities and lied about flying to my province. I waited THREE HOURS at the airport, excited to meet him... but he never showed up. When I finally messaged him, he confessed that he wasn’t ready. I cried. I cried more than I thought was humanly possible. My heart felt like it was breaking, and I didn’t even know how to stop. I couldn’t walk, so strangers had to put me in a wheelchair and take me to a waiting room. I was completely shattered. But the story didn’t end there... A few days later, he decided to come after all, but once again, he lied. Instead of coming to meet me, he flew to Japan and told me he had been deported and robbed of all his money. I panicked, flew 1000 km to meet him... only to find out it was another lie. Two lies in one week. I couldn’t take it anymore. He told me he wasn’t ready, that all the fights had left him mentally disturbed, and that he was afraid our relationship would turn bitter. I wanted to fix things. I loved him. I forgave him. So I gave him another chance. The cycle repeated. In September, he returned to Vietnam. Again, I waited for him. And again, he lied. He missed his flight and rescheduled. When he finally made it to Vietnam, he said he wasn’t ready to meet me. He made up an excuse about food poisoning, and when I offered help, he snapped: “You can’t help yourself, how can you help me?” He stayed for a month before flying back to the US, leaving me feeling like I was nothing. Sometimes, I still cry, and sometimes, I feel so ashamed. I can’t believe I let someone hurt me like this. I still blame myself for being so blind, for loving him so deeply that I lost all self-respect in the process.
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My personal healing journey with flower essence
by Lieschen01
Last post
 December 18th, 2024
...See more        Personal Journey with Flower Essence My personal journey with flower essences began during a profound period of grief and darkness. In February 2008, at the age of 19, I experienced the devastating sudden loss of my father. This traumatic event plunged me into an emotional abyss, leaving me feeling lost and overwhelmed by and in a dark depression. It was during this challenging time that a close friend, a holistic practitioner, introduced me to flower essences, specifically recommending Rescue Remedy and Star of Bethlehem. As I began incorporating these essences into my daily routine, I noticed subtle yet significant changes in my emotional state. The overwhelming waves of grief became more manageable, and I found myself better able to process my emotions without being completely overwhelmed by them. This experience sparked a deep interest in understanding how flower essences work and their potential for trauma recovery. Understanding Trauma and Flower Essences Trauma, as defined by van der Kolk, is "an experience of helplessness and terror" that fundamentally alters how we perceive danger. This definition resonated profoundly with my experience. I discovered that trauma healing requires looking inward and facing both visible and non-visible wounds. Flower essences are subtle liquid extracts made from the flowering parts of plants. Unlike essential oils or herbal remedies, they don't contain physical plant material. Instead, they are believed to carry the energetic or vibrational pattern of the flower. The process of making flower essences typically involves collecting fresh blossoms, floating them in pure spring water under sunlight, and then preserving the resulting infusion with brandy. Indigenous Trauma Theory and Complex PTSD Indigenous Trauma Theory expanded my perspective beyond individual trauma to understand the broader implications of collective wounds. This theory emphasizes the multigenerational impacts of colonization and historical oppression on Indigenous peoples, encompassing collective, cultural, and intergenerational aspects of trauma. Complex PTSD, with its five key features - emotional flashbacks, toxic shame, self-abandonment, a vicious inner critic, and social anxiety - described exactly what I was experiencing. The gentle nature of flower essences proved particularly effective in addressing these multiple layers of trauma response, offering support without overwhelming an already stressed system. Dr. Edward Bach's Work Dr. Edward Bach, born in 1886, was a British physician who developed the Bach flower remedies in the 1930s. During World War I, Bach worked with soldiers suffering from shell shock, which we now recognize as a form of PTSD. This experience likely influenced his later work with flower remedies. He observed that personality and emotional state played a crucial role in recovery and overall health. Bach's approach was revolutionary for its time. He moved away from conventional medicine, believing that healing should address the whole person, not just physical symptoms. His system of 38 flower remedies was designed to correct emotional imbalances, which he saw as the root cause of many physical ailments. Personal Experience and Effectiveness Through my experience with flower essences, I found them to be particularly valuable for addressing early childhood trauma and the effects of Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs). They offered gentle yet profound support for processing these deep-seated issues. I like to say they do behind the scenes work,because they work within our energetic bodies and they do this  without retraumatization. Specifically, I experienced: * A sense of calm during moments of overwhelming anxiety (Rescue Remedy) * Ability to process grief in a more gentle manner (Star of Bethlehem) * My night terrors slowly faded * A feeling of being more at peace Conclusion My journey with flower essences has been transformative, offering a gentle yet profound path to healing from trauma. While scientific validation of flower essences remains limited, the personal experiences of many, including myself, testify to their potential in trauma recovery. As we continue to explore and understand the intricate connections between mind, body, and spirit, flower essences stand as a promising tool in our healing arsenal. This holistic approach has been crucial in my journey toward wholeness, addressing trauma's impact on both body and spirit. Flower essences, with their subtle yet powerful influence, offer a path to this holistic healing, supporting us as we navigate the complex landscape of trauma recovery and personal growth. Works Cited: Bach, Edward. The Twelve Healers and Other Remedies. C.W. Daniel Company, 1936. Brave Heart, Maria Yellow Horse. "The Historical Trauma Response Among Natives and its Relationship to Substance Abuse." Journal of Psychoactive Drugs, vol. 35, no. 1, 2003, pp. 7-13. Felitti, Vincent J., et al. "Relationship of Childhood Abuse and Household Dysfunction to Many of  The Leading Causes of Death in Adults: The Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE) Study."  American Journal of Preventive Medicine, vol. 14, no. 4, 1998, pp. 245-258. Herman, Judith Lewis. Trauma and Recovery: The Aftermath of Violence - From Domestic Abuse to Political Terror. Basic Books, 1997. Smith, Heidi. The Bloom Book: A Flower Essence Guide to Cosmic Balance. Sounds True, 2020. van der Kolk, Bessel A. The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma. Viking, 2014.
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Now I have to be Selfish, and It HURTS
by OceanWaves37
Last post
 December 14th, 2024
...See more I found out I'm pregnant with my second child. I work a demanding, draining, and honestly not-worth-the-pay job. I love my work as a counselor and helping clients, but the job is such a drain and full of so much bureaucratic *** that I don't get a lot of time to really provide quality care that I want to. Office politics. Certain people in positions of power get to show up late every day and skimp on their work with no repercussions, while us "grunts" always pull the slack and get jumped if things do not get done properly, which certainly does happen when one clinician is doing the work of three people at any point in time.  If I'm being one hundred percent honest, it's toxic, which is ironic since it's supposed to be a program to help others. My son already suffers enough from me working so much overtime at times. I took the job because it was all I could get with my degree. My husband couldn't keep us all up financially anymore and I had to work. I got a year and a half experience here and I'm DONE. I already placed an application for some remote work and I have a backup just in case. Now that I'm pregnant, exhausted, hormonal, and already stretched to the max, I am ready to go. I'd quit tomorrow if I could, but I have to give one months' notice, which I will this coming week.  Not gonna lie, I'm terrified of change, even if I know it's the right thing to do for myself and my kid and future baby. I'm just *** TIRED. I work all the time, try to parent my toddler with utmost exhaustion, and feel guilty because I'm spending more time on a job that doesn't care than anything in general.  I'm on the verge of tears as I type this. I miss my little boy. I miss peace of mind.  I do consider going back to the helping profession, but I need a break. I don't need to do this to myself- my family. I'm constantly on call in some way. Group chat going off at any hour of the night asking work-related *** questions. There have been days I've worked over, went home to calm down, only to be called about some *** something that could probably wait. Even worse if it couldn't wait, because then it's an emergency. Ugh. I'm crying now.  I held on so long to gain the experience. Now I have it for my resume in the future. I'm done. Worst of all, due to past abuse, I will feel GUILTY, no matter what. No way out of it.  I had a good talk with my own therapist today, and she solidified it for me. It's time for me to move on. She told me that unfortunately community mental health often does not provide an environment for good therapists to thrive.  I know I'm not some great therapist, but I feel like a *** one here.  I just want to work at whatever part-time to make ends meet, spend more time with my boy and his future sibling while they're little, and then I'll go back, get my masters, and stay the *** away from the place I work now.  It hurts so bad. I wish it didn't hurt so bad to put myself first. Trauma has caused this. ***! Thanks for listening. I'll be okay. One day at a time now until my last day of work.   
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I'm not doing ok! I'm really not doing ok 😞
by Tinywhisper11
Last post
 December 9th, 2024
...See more TW- This month has been so hard. So many bad memories and fear. I'm not sure what to do how to handle everything.😞 I don't know who to talk to, who to trust. I had 24 owners. I was a sex slave, till I was 18. Lots of torture was a big part of it too. Kept in a cage. I'm just not coping well. I don't know what to do anymore 😞 I put in a smiley face. But I'm not smilling. I'm a scared idiot

Trauma Support

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Welcome to Trauma Support! We aim to provide a safe, empowering, inclusive, supportive and proactive community for trauma survivors to have the opportunity to begin healing from our experiences, in a non-judgmental environment. We also want to help spread awareness about trauma and its impact on individuals' lives while validating the members of this community, reducing the isolation many people feel. Therefore, trauma survivors as well as loved ones of them or people who want to learn about trauma are welcome here. 

What are the different forum topics for Trauma Support?

Bluelight, Medical & Veterans Trauma Support: Support for those who experience or witness trauma at work

Check-Ins & Prompts:  Regular check-ins and prompts, created by our leadership team

Child & Domestic Abuse: For people who have experienced child abuse, domestic abuse or even both

Coping with Attachment Difficulties: Help and support for people with attachment difficulties

Creativity Corner: A creative space for poetry, art, and healing and recovery quotes

Dissociation & Related Disorders: A place to discuss your struggles with dissociation and how it relates to your trauma

Introductions & Welcomes: Are you new to the Trauma Community? Share a little about yourself!

Journaling Stories: This area is for sharing your story or creating a diary

PTSD & Complex Trauma: Share stories and seek support for PTSD and complex PTSD

Resources: Share and seek resources here

Sexual Assault and Sexual Abuse: A place for those affected by sexual assault and sexual abuse

Trauma through Bullying: A place to seek support around the issue of suffering traumatic experiences as a result of bullying

Trauma through War: This section is there for people who have been impacted by war

Traumatic Loss: For survivors of traumatic loss of any kind

How can I help?

You can help us by simply responding to threads and sharing your story (if you're comfortable to). 

Alternatively, you may wish to join us as a Forum Leader. Check out this thread for more information.

In addition to that, you can take part in discussions or become a host for them.

Finally, you could also have a look at the posts of our trauma support sub-community writing team or even join it. 

Helpful Threads

Taglist: Do you want to stay up to date with our community? Then join our taglist to be notified for important posts.

Discussions: Here you can find out when the next discussion takes place.

Trauma Support Room Access: Find out how you can access the trauma support room here. The room is open during the discussions and on Sundays.

Masterpost: Within this thread, you can find a number of educative and supportive posts that our writing team has written.

Leadership Team: In this thread, you can get to know our leadership team.

Trauma Support FAQ

Are there any sub-community specific guidelines that we need to adhere to? 

- Yes, all sub-community specific guidelines can be found below and should be followed in addition to the general forum guidelines.

How can I give feedback or ideas to the leadership team?

- You can either pm audienta directly, use this form to contact the forum leaders, or this form for general feedback about the trauma support sub-community.

Help... I still have a question! 

You can ask your questions in this thread and someone will respond to you as soon as possible.

Community Guidelines

These are the Trauma Support Sub-Community Guidelines, which have been drawn up in addition to the 7 Cups main guidelines and are specific for the Trauma Support community:

  • Uphold and comply with the 7 Cups main guidelines
  • Respect everyone, members and listeners alike
  • Do not discourage/be unsupportive/blame/judge one another for their past
  • No graphic, in depth descriptions or pictures which could be triggering for others - in forums, chat and support session
  • Please always add a trigger warning if you believe your thread could be potentially triggering/harmful and/or contains one of the topics on this list. Also, please add a short topic description to the trigger warning (e.g. "Trigger Warning: Domestic Abuse) and if you're in a group support chat, wait a moment to see if everyone is comfortable with the topic. If not, agree on a time span during which the person who's not comfortable with the topic leaves the chat. Once they come back after this time span, change the topic.
  • Cursing not permitted and must be asterisked. (It is fine to vent and to express appropriate anger, but as curse words have often been used during abusive and traumatic experiences, we ask members and listeners to asterisk abusive/curse words to avoid triggering and upsetting members where possible and to maintain a respectful environment and to encourage positive and healthy expression of anger.)
  • Forums postings made by listeners and members should be transparent, made in English and should not be blocked out using colouring to disguise content of wording/messages sent between members/listeners, to maintain the safety of all users of the trauma sub community and to ensure all rules are being complied with.
  • Everyone is unique and their experiences are individual to them. Everyone’s experiences and how they think and feel about these are valid. Everyone reacts to traumatic experiences differently. This will be respected and appreciated without judgement.
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