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Traumatic Experiences Community Daily Check-in: Tuesday December 11th

Softwhispers December 11th, 2018

Hey all! It's great to see you all again with the Tuesday check in. today will be short and sweet based off of the limited time I have sorry. I really hope eveyone is having an amazing December so far and hope all is going well for you over the holiday season. I know this time of year can be hectic but just stick with it and power on through you are all so so strong and amazing never forget that.

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CaringBrit December 11th, 2018

@Softwhispers heyy there whispers hope you are well

hope everyone else is well too

friendlyLake5949 December 11th, 2018

@Softwhispers

Hey I'm doing ok. I'm kinda stressed about having two papers to finish before break.

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Kate December 11th, 2018

@friendlyLake5949 Hey! When do they need to be done by? I hope they're at least on interested topics for you!

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RedHawk6547 December 12th, 2018

Hi. Feeling like I'm not good enough. My daughter's birthday is Thurs. and I'm a mess right now. It's hard with the holidays.

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naars December 12th, 2018

@RedHawk6547 are you alright? you can talk to us fam :) hope things will get better for you!

Wakeboarder222 December 12th, 2018

@RedHawk6547

Sorry you

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Wakeboarder222 December 12th, 2018

Hello.

I am still struggling a lot with flashbacks and slowly trying to put pieces together of what may have happened to me when I was young. Its kind of excruciating lately. I struggle bit to feel like I deserve to exist as a person. I have a therapy appointment in the morning so hopefully that will be beneficial.

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naars December 12th, 2018

@pioneeringBanana1598 hello, i'm so sorry terrible things happened to you when you was young. you deserve to live, everyone deserve to live so don't worry. things will get better. hope you'll feel better after your appointment. you're strong

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Rebekahwriter13 December 12th, 2018

I'm torn and I have that way for several days.

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AmityLagniappe December 12th, 2018

@Rebekahwriter13

Hey Rebekah, would you like to talk about what you're feeling torn about? That sounds rough to be feeling that way for days.

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Rebekahwriter13 December 12th, 2018

@AmityLagniappe my parents got divorced when I was 9 and I've felt torn ever since.

However since my dad got remarried for third time, my new stepmother is very controlling and manipulating and some issues we had in which my brother and I were pushed away from the family. I miss my younger brothers and my dad.

I feel bad as I am with my mom, but I always feel the other side pulling at me.

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AmityLagniappe December 12th, 2018

@Rebekahwriter13

I understand what you mean. I have experienced family estrangement too. That definitely does sound conflicting. I think the way you feel is totally valid. I'm sorry to hear that you and your brother are feeling pushed away from that side of the family, and that you're missing your younger brothers and dad. This must be very hard around the holidays.

When you mentioned feeling bad being with your mom, am I hearing that it's like a guilt feeling not being with the other side of the family?

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