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Hey i'm Kassidy. Im so glad now I'm a verified listener😃😃😃. I am so glad you have found me. I will try my best to help you with any problem you have. Feel free to message me if i'm online I will reply to you quickly and if i'm offline I will get back to you as soon as I can and then we can sort out a time to talk.

I struggle with anxiety and i'm also am sort of an a place between bisexual and lesbian i have had issues with drinking alcohol and i got into a really bad relationship he was controlling and I had no freedom i had about 5 suicide attempts and through all of this everyone abondand me and the person I was with just told me I was worthless and I was just a piece of dirt on the earths foot  i thought everything was over when we broke up I was just so mentally broken then i started talking to a therapist and things didn't get much better i just kept moving on there are still a few things from  this time that never went away still struggling with but the one tip is never give up because if one of those suicide attempts worked i would never have talked to so many wonderful people on here. YOU ARE STRONG because you know weakness YOU ARE BEUTIFUL because you know your imperfections and YOU CAN LAUGH because you have felt sadness
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Traumatic Experiences Community Daily Check-in Tuesday 29th January 2019
Trauma Support / by Softwhispers
Last post
 January 30th, 2019
...See more Hey everyone! Sorry this post is up a little later I had to work a late shift. I really hope all of you are doing well. I can't do a very detailed post today I'm so so sorry but I promise next week I will do a post focused on a topic. How is your week so far? Anything big happening this week? *huge Kass hugs* Click here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfQlyEdaj_ix_6ApWWp3zgqRa71Fz7VU5k0GSrUIID-Ydq1xA/viewform] to add or remove your name from the Tag List. Please only submit once, as we only update the tag list once a week. If it's urgent, feel free to PM Kate or Hoxenos. We will clean up the list every 3 months of site inactivity, but just sign up again and we'll put you right back, no worries! @Avaray @KLM3278 @Morfo66 @KatieMoon1 @Jenna0903 @melliotm @HearingYourHeart @Lilyflower0817 @AMusicalSilence @energeticPenny8 @Rebekahwriter13 @sensitiveShade5337 @singercrystalspirit @AriannaPink @sereneSoul23 @Zombii @resourcefulPond1641 @Lilibuth12 @Halogen @Hoxenos @Christine1980 @Compassionatelistener108 @TheHoneyDoll @silverIceCream21 @Bumblebee16 @Musicheals61 @orchard9786 @Calmlake1999 @emotionalMaple9419 @MoreThanAConqueror18 @Redhawk6547 @Sk1ttles @Shayc1 @stella17 @blinkk @Compassion21 @FangsInsanity @rissadawn @brokenflutterby @No715 @SpruceRaven @dynamicHemlock1736 @humorousBeing8966 @NancySV1 @ArianaMay @affectionateNorth4018 @FloweringBunny @loyalDrum2337 @InvaderStitch@redmark @CaringBrit @Ambrosia @practicalIdeal2007 @incompl @Forgive2Live @Ayla @RockClimber18 @rmickelpclr @ReallyRuth @friendlyLake5949 @CatCrazy0430 @PineappleCranberries @sympatheticPrune2000 @WoodViolet @Lisamarretta @isapheonix @childrenofbugs @Negihiko @Jackie @luckystrike99 @1CutecinnamonbabyXOXO @Karrotcake @Ayle
Traumatic Experiences Community Daily Check-in Tuesday 22nd of January, 2019
Trauma Support / by Softwhispers
Last post
 January 23rd, 2019
...See more Hey everyone!, I hope all of you okay. We are almost past the first month of 2019. so far this year things in the world haven't been too bad. I hope it's the same for all of you. With every day comes an oppurtunity ot help yourself get better. The hard part is accepting that and realising you are strong enough to get better. I know no one experiences trauma in the same way but we all have one feeling in common after dealing with trauma, 'I'm not strong enough for this' which the reality is we are, you are strong enough to deal with this and get past it and get better. It might not feel like it and the strength might not be on the surface but deep inside of you, you have unlimited strength and you can deal with anything no matter how hard it is. I love each and everyone of you in the trauma family and I truly do hope everything is going well for you this week. *huge kass hugs* @Avaray @BeeLeigh @KLM3278 @jr50 @Morfo66 @KatieMoon1 @Tamba @Jenna0903 @melliotm @inventiveOrange1 @HearingYourHeart @Lilyflower0817 @exuberantTriangle2562 @Ivorycat5573 @weareall1 @moonchild95 @AMusicalSilence @catsith @energeticPenny8 @Rebekahwriter13 @sensitiveShade5337 @singercrystalspirit @Ocendade @Raveninthelabrynth @AriannaPink @sereneSoul23 @Zombii @Godborned @resourcefulPond1641 @Lilibuth12 @Tir @Halogen @Hoxenos @Christine1980 @Compassionatelistener108 @TheHoneyDoll @purpleWest8143 @silverIceCream21 @Bumblebee16 @archerzvy @Musicheals61 @placidFriend3007 @orchard9786 @Calmlake1999 @emotionalMaple9419 @MoreThanAConqueror18 @Redhawk6547 @Sk1ttles @Shayc1 @stella17 @blinkk @Equalnotabove @Compassion21 @lilblackcat89 @amiableSummer3420 @FangsInsanity @rissadawn @brokenflutterby @g00dwitch @No715 @SpruceRaven @tidyMoon3222 @dynamicHemlock1736 @Hope3729 @hardworkingStrawberries3477 @humorousBeing8966 @NancySV1 @spotthedot @ArianaMay @affectionateNorth4018 @FloweringBunny @loyalDrum2337 @InvaderStitch@redmark @CaringBrit @Ambrosia @practicalIdeal2007 @incompl @Forgive2Live @Ayla @RockClimber18 @rmickelpclr @ReallyRuth @friendlyLake5949 @hopetoday @CatCrazy0430 @PineappleCranberries @Asya @dianayang510 @sympatheticPrune2000 @WoodViolet @Lisamarretta @isapheonix @childrenofbugs @Negihiko @Jackie @luckystrike99 @Ophelia @1CutecinnamonbabyXOXO
Traumatic Experiences Community Daily Check-in: Tuesday January 15th 2019
Trauma Support / by Softwhispers
Last post
 January 17th, 2019
...See more Hello everyone! I just want to start by saying I'm extremely sorry for the no post last week a very last minute thing popped up. We are now a few weeks into 2019. I hope your 2019 has been good so far. How is your year going so far? (If you had any) have you been sticking to your new years resolutions? *Major hugs for all* @Avaray @BeeLeigh @KLM3278 @jr50 @Morfo66 @KatieMoon1 @Tamba @Jenna0903 @melliotm @inventiveOrange1 @HearingYourHeart @Lilyflower0817 @exuberantTriangle2562 @Ivorycat5573 @weareall1 @moonchild95 @AMusicalSilence @catsith @energeticPenny8 @Rebekahwriter13 @sensitiveShade5337 @singercrystalspirit @Ocendade @Raveninthelabrynth @AriannaPink @sereneSoul23 @Zombii @Godborned @resourcefulPond1641 @Lilibuth12 @Tir @Halogen @Hoxenos @Christine1980 @Compassionatelistener108 @TheHoneyDoll @purpleWest8143 @silverIceCream21 @Bumblebee16 @archerzvy @Musicheals61 @placidFriend3007 @orchard9786 @Calmlake1999 @emotionalMaple9419 @MoreThanAConqueror18 @Redhawk6547 @Sk1ttles @Shayc1 @stella17 @blinkk @Equalnotabove @Compassion21 @lilblackcat89 @amiableSummer3420 @FangsInsanity @rissadawn @brokenflutterby @g00dwitch @No715 @SpruceRaven @tidyMoon3222 @dynamicHemlock1736 @Hope3729 @hardworkingStrawberries3477 @humorousBeing8966 @NancySV1 @spotthedot @ArianaMay @affectionateNorth4018 @FloweringBunny @loyalDrum2337 @InvaderStitch@redmark @CaringBrit @Ambrosia @practicalIdeal2007 @incompl @Forgive2Live @Ayla @RockClimber18 @rmickelpclr @ReallyRuth @friendlyLake5949 @hopetoday @CatCrazy0430 @PineappleCranberries @Asya @dianayang510 @sympatheticPrune2000 @WoodViolet @Lisamarretta @isapheonix @childrenofbugs @Negihiko @Jackie @luckystrike99
Traumatic Experiences Community Daily Check In: Tuesday January 1st, 2019
Trauma Support / by Softwhispers
Last post
 January 3rd, 2019
...See more Hey everyone! It's now officially a new year. I'm going to keep this brief because I'm a little hungover. I hope all of you enjoyed your new years eve. I'd love to hear your new years resolutions if you have them. Mine are to try and spend more time with my family this year and look after myself better *Huge Kass hugs for all of you* @Avaray @BeeLeigh @KLM3278 @jr50 @Morfo66 @KatieMoon1 @Tamba @Jenna0903 @melliotm @inventiveOrange1 @HearingYourHeart @Lilyflower0817 @exuberantTriangle2562 @Ivorycat5573 @weareall1 @moonchild95 @AMusicalSilence @catsith @energeticPenny8 @Rebekahwriter13 @sensitiveShade5337 @singercrystalspirit @Ocendade @tenacity37 @Raveninthelabrynth @AriannaPink @sereneSoul23 @Zombii @Godborned @resourcefulPond1641 @Lilibuth12 @Tir @Halogen @Hoxenos @Christine1980 @Compassionatelistener108 @TheHoneyDoll @purpleWest8143 @silverIceCream21 @Bumblebee16 @archerzvy @Musicheals61 @placidFriend3007 @orchard9786 @Calmlake1999 @emotionalMaple9419 @MoreThanAConqueror18 @Redhawk6547 @Sk1ttles @Shayc1 @stella17 @blinkk @Equalnotabove @Compassion21 @lilblackcat89 @amiableSummer3420 @FangsInsanity @rissadawn @brokenflutterby @g00dwitch @No715 @SpruceRaven @tidyMoon3222 @dynamicHemlock1736 @Hope3729 @hardworkingStrawberries3477 @humorousBeing8966 @NancySV1 @spotthedot @courteousNorth5140 @ArianaMay @affectionateNorth4018 @FloweringBunny @loyalDrum2337 @InvaderStitch@redmark @CaringBrit @Ambrosia @practicalIdeal2007 @incompl @Forgive2Live @Ayla @RockClimber18 @rmickelpclr @ReallyRuth @friendlyLake5949 @hopetoday @CatCrazy0430 @PineappleCranberries @Asya @dianayang510 @sympatheticPrune2000 @WoodViolet @Lisamarretta @isapheonix
Traumatic Experiences Community Daily Check-in: Tuesday December 25th
Trauma Support / by Softwhispers
Last post
 December 26th, 2018
...See more Hey everyone, Merry Christmas all. I am going to have to keep this post brief I do apologise but it's a very busy day. I really hope all of you are enjoying this destive season, but to those who are struggling remember there's still a communtiy here to support you so you not alone. I love each and every one of you. all of you are absolutly amazing and strong. I wish you all a Happy Holidays. *Big Festive Kass Hugs For All* >Click here to be added or removed from the taglist< [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfQlyEdaj_ix_6ApWWp3zgqRa71Fz7VU5k0GSrUIID-Ydq1xA/viewform] @Avaray@BeeLeigh@KLM3278@jr50@Morfo66@KatieMoon1@Tamba@Jenna0903@melliotm@inventiveOrange1@HearingYourHeart@Lilyflower0817@exuberantTriangle2562@Ivorycat5573@weareall1@moonchild95@AMusicalSilence@catsith@energeticPenny8@Rebekahwriter13@sensitiveShade5337@singercrystalspirit@Ocendade@tenacity37@Raveninthelabrynth@AriannaPink@sereneSoul23@Zombii@Godborned@resourcefulPond1641@Lilibuth12@Tir@Halogen@Hoxenos@Christine1980@Compassionatelistener108@TheHoneyDoll@purpleWest8143@silverIceCream21@Bumblebee16@archerzvy@Musicheals61@placidFriend3007@orchard9786@Calmlake1999@emotionalMaple9419@MoreThanAConqueror18@Redhawk6547@Sk1ttles@Shayc1@stella17@blinkk@Equalnotabove@Compassion21@lilblackcat89@amiableSummer3420@FangsInsanity@rissadawn@brokenflutterby@g00dwitch@No715@SpruceRaven@tidyMoon3222@dynamicHemlock1736@Hope3729@hardworkingStrawberries3477@humorousBeing8966@NancySV1@spotthedot@courteousNorth5140@ArianaMay@affectionateNorth4018@FloweringBunny@loyalDrum2337@InvaderStitch@redmark@CaringBrit@Ambrosia@practicalIdeal2007@incompl@Forgive2Live@Ayla@RockClimber18@rmickelpclr@ReallyRuth@friendlyLake5949@hopetoday@CatCrazy0430@PineappleCranberries@Asya@dianayang510@sympatheticPrune2000
Traumatic Experiences Community Daily Check in: Tuesday December 18th
Trauma Support / by Softwhispers
Last post
 December 20th, 2018
...See more Hey everyone! sprry the post is going up later than usual having major internet issues at the moment, I hope everyone is having an amazing Tuesday and if the week is being awful then if your a Christmas person just think to yourself there's only 1 week left to go now until it's Christmas, I personally am looking foward to it as it's my first one celebrating with my own 'new' family. Connecting with others is something that's difficult especially when it comes to people who have gone through trauma and I know it's hard but i also know it's different for everyone like I know I can't speak for everyone because I only know my experiences and I know sometimes an issue with connecting with people can be like a barrier between you them because they don't understand trauma and the reality is no one will ever truly understand it and that's ok it's how they deal with the knowledge and just use patience and try their best to help is what matters. I know the post is a bit rambly but I felt after two weeks then I sorta need to do a post based off of a topic. I love all of y'all so much, all of you are so amazing and strong and always remember your never truly alone Tag List form link [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfQlyEdaj_ix_6ApWWp3zgqRa71Fz7VU5k0GSrUIID-Ydq1xA/viewform] @Avaray @BeeLeigh @KLM3278 @jr50 @Morfo66 @KatieMoon1 @Tamba @Jenna0903 @melliotm @inventiveOrange1 @HearingYourHeart @Lilyflower0817 @exuberantTriangle2562 @Ivorycat5573 @weareall1 @moonchild95 @AMusicalSilence @catsith @energeticPenny8 @Rebekahwriter13 @sensitiveShade5337 @singercrystalspirit @Ocendade @tenacity37 @Raveninthelabrynth @blissedNblessed @AriannaPink @sereneSoul23 @Zombii @Godborned @resourcefulPond1641 @Lilibuth12 @Tir @Halogen @Hoxenos @Christine1980 @Compassionatelistener108 @TheHoneyDoll @purpleWest8143 @silverIceCream21 @Bumblebee16 @archerzvy @Musicheals61 @placidFriend3007 @orchard9786 @Calmlake1999 @emotionalMaple9419 @MoreThanAConqueror18 @Redhawk6547 @Sk1ttles @Shayc1 @stella17 @blinkk @Equalnotabove @Compassion21 @lilblackcat89 @amiableSummer3420 @FangsInsanity @rissadawn @brokenflutterby @g00dwitch @No715 @SpruceRaven @tidyMoon3222 @dynamicHemlock1736 @Hope3729 @hardworkingStrawberries3477 @humorousBeing8966 @NancySV1 @spotthedot @courteousNorth5140 @ArianaMay @affectionateNorth4018 @FloweringBunny @loyalDrum2337 @InvaderStitch@redmark @CaringBrit @Ambrosia @practicalIdeal2007 @incompl @Forgive2Live @Ayla @RockClimber18 @rmickelpclr @ReallyRuth @friendlyLake5949 @hopetoday
Traumatic Experiences Community Daily Check-in: Tuesday December 11th
Trauma Support / by Softwhispers
Last post
 December 14th, 2018
...See more Hey all! It's great to see you all again with the Tuesday check in. today will be short and sweet based off of the limited time I have sorry. I really hope eveyone is having an amazing December so far and hope all is going well for you over the holiday season. I know this time of year can be hectic but just stick with it and power on through you are all so so strong and amazing never forget that. Tag List form link [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfQlyEdaj_ix_6ApWWp3zgqRa71Fz7VU5k0GSrUIID-Ydq1xA/viewform] @Avaray @BeeLeigh @KLM3278 @jr50 @Morfo66 @KatieMoon1 @Tamba @Jenna0903 @melliotm @inventiveOrange1 @HearingYourHeart @Lilyflower0817 @exuberantTriangle2562 @Ivorycat5573 @weareall1 @moonchild95 @AMusicalSilence @catsith @energeticPenny8 @Rebekahwriter13 @sensitiveShade5337 @singercrystalspirit @Ocendade @tenacity37 @Raveninthelabrynth @blissedNblessed @AriannaPink @sereneSoul23 @Zombii @Godborned @resourcefulPond1641 @Lilibuth12 @Tir @Halogen @Hoxenos @Christine1980 @Compassionatelistener108 @TheHoneyDoll @purpleWest8143 @silverIceCream21 @Bumblebee16 @archerzvy @Musicheals61 @placidFriend3007 @orchard9786 @Calmlake1999 @emotionalMaple9419 @MoreThanAConqueror18 @Redhawk6547 @Sk1ttles @Shayc1 @stella17 @blinkk @Equalnotabove @Compassion21 @lilblackcat89 @amiableSummer3420 @FangsInsanity @rissadawn @brokenflutterby @g00dwitch @No715 @SpruceRaven @tidyMoon3222 @dynamicHemlock1736 @Hope3729 @hardworkingStrawberries3477 @humorousBeing8966 @NancySV1 @spotthedot @courteousNorth5140 @ArianaMay @affectionateNorth4018 @FloweringBunny @loyalDrum2337 @InvaderStitch@redmark @CaringBrit @Ambrosia @practicalIdeal2007 @incompl @Forgive2Live @Ayla @RockClimber18 @rmickelpclr @ReallyRuth @friendlyLake5949 @hopetoday
Traumatic Experiences Community Daily Check in: Tuesday December 4th 2018
Trauma Support / by Softwhispers
Last post
 December 12th, 2018
...See more Hey all chrsitmas season is here and I know the holdidays can be a major issue for some but always remeber we are all here to support each other and help each other when times are a little rough. But to those who love Christmas just think of it like this if your having a tough week, you now only have 2 Tuesdays between now and Christmas :). To wrap up this short post, How do you find the Holidays? tough? Fun? What are you most looking foward to over the holidays month? doesn't even need to be related to the holidays Love you all so so much x Tag List form link [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfQlyEdaj_ix_6ApWWp3zgqRa71Fz7VU5k0GSrUIID-Ydq1xA/viewform] @Avaray @BeeLeigh @KLM3278 @jr50 @Morfo66 @KatieMoon1 @Tamba @Jenna0903 @melliotm @inventiveOrange1 @HearingYourHeart @Lilyflower0817 @exuberantTriangle2562 @Ivorycat5573 @weareall1 @moonchild95 @AMusicalSilence @catsith @energeticPenny8 @Rebekahwriter13 @sensitiveShade5337 @singercrystalspirit @Ocendade @tenacity37 @Raveninthelabrynth @blissedNblessed @AriannaPink @sereneSoul23 @Zombii @Godborned @resourcefulPond1641 @Lilibuth12 @Tir @Halogen @Hoxenos @Christine1980 @Compassionatelistener108 @TheHoneyDoll @purpleWest8143 @silverIceCream21 @Bumblebee16 @archerzvy @Musicheals61 @placidFriend3007 @orchard9786 @Calmlake1999 @emotionalMaple9419 @MoreThanAConqueror18 @Redhawk6547 @Sk1ttles @Shayc1 @stella17 @blinkk @Equalnotabove @Compassion21 @lilblackcat89 @amiableSummer3420 @FangsInsanity @rissadawn @brokenflutterby @g00dwitch @No715 @SpruceRaven @tidyMoon3222 @dynamicHemlock1736 @Hope3729 @hardworkingStrawberries3477 @humorousBeing8966 @NancySV1 @spotthedot @courteousNorth5140 @ArianaMay @affectionateNorth4018 @FloweringBunny @loyalDrum2337 @InvaderStitch@redmark @CaringBrit @Ambrosia @practicalIdeal2007 @incompl @Forgive2Live @Ayla @RockClimber18 @rmickelpclr @ReallyRuth @friendlyLake5949 @hopetoday
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such a beautiful soul!
lovely person, hope to meet u again
she is very nice and kind listener :)
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epic listener.
literally the best
She is a very kind young lady :)
This listener was great, I really recommend her.
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so kind caring and helpful, understanding and non judgemental! thankyou!
She can relate to what I'm going through and it's nice to know that you're not alone in a diffi situation.
Fast replier with good answers!
I cannot recommend Kass enough, she brings a real-life wisdom.
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Amazing listener, extremely helpful !
Thank you for being sweet, Kassidy. You really did you're best to help and me and you listened to me just as well. Thank you xx
ur the best listener 😃😃
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Youre good at what you do! keep it up :)
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Kassidy is almost like a therapist she is so helpful and positive
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