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Do you occasionally pause during moments of uncertainty or doubt to reaffirm your values?

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User Profile: Zeraphim
Zeraphim Friday

No, but perhaps I ought to.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP Friday

@Zeraphim

Reaffirming our values can help with reducing stress and feel more confident inside.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 Saturday

@amiablePeace77 I do, but only when it's to late and I've locked myself in a room crying under my blanket. Then I think about it🙂 you know I cried for 14 hours once.. I must of set a record there😂😂

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User Profile: resilience2025
resilience2025 Saturday

You have an amazing sense of humour!! I feel so uplifted reading your responses everytime!

Thank you Whisper! 💗💗🥺

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User Profile: resilience2025
resilience2025 Saturday

Well, I guess my record is a bit less than 10 but close to yours 😂😂

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings Sunday

@Tinywhisper11 you have a lot of losses in your life. Hugs.

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@soulsings ❤ hugggs ❤

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Yes, it's actually impossible to not have self doubt. I do pause by taking a break. It helps me relax and think clearly.

@amiablePeace77 yes! it helps to think things through by looking at the bigger picture, especially when in doubt :)

User Profile: CharisB21
CharisB21 Saturday

@amiablePeace77

Yess

@amiablePeace77

Do you occasionally pause during moments of uncertainty or doubt to reaffirm your values?

Yes when I am uncertain of something I think before doing or speaking 



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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP 2 days ago

@pamharley003

Responding mindfully instead of reacting instantly can prevent much trouble! 🌟 

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@amiablePeace77 I do all the time, definitely. It worries me that this is strange about me, but sometimes when doing so I get very confused about what my values are. Sometimes they’re very different than the people around me. I don’t know if my values are right, because they seem to frustrate people who I think are good. So sometimes I don’t live the way I agree with just so I won’t feel lonely. But inevitably my values creep back into conversation and cause problems. I feel better when my conscience is clear. I just have to be ok with not having those people in my life so much.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP 2 days ago

@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas

Stepping back from your values for the sake of company can lead to feelings of self-doubt and more. Sometimes we just need to look out for people who share the same values as we do. 

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@amiablePeace77 I am learning that for sure. I wish I had understood this truth earlier in life and saved myself a lot of heartache. The right people really are worth waiting for.

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings 1 day ago

@amiablePeace77  Do you occasionally pause during moments of uncertainty or doubt to reaffirm your values?

I am pausing more these days and letting the confusion in my ind settle and reveal a subtle clarity that is what I value above all.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP 1 day ago

@soulsings

Good that you take that time to clear your mind!

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@amiablePeace77

I have yet to determine my values. 

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP 1 day ago

@Gettingbettertoday

Here are some questions I find helpful to establish one's values:

  • What are you passionate about?
  • What do you want to contribute to the world?
  • What are you grateful for?


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User Profile: akunknown
akunknown 2 hours ago

@amiablePeace77

Do you occasionally pause during moments of uncertainty or doubt to reaffirm your values?

Yes. I believe it’s important and healthy as well as helpful/beneficial to do so. I mean if you go into something with uncertainty or doubt, which I used to do a lot before so I’m talking from experience here, that doubt will be in your mind to the point where it hinders your ability, your performance, etc whereas if you go into anything with all certainty, no doubt, 100% sure of your values, the exact opposite will most definitely happen and I’m talking from experience here too ever since I’ve done it this way :)

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP 13 minutes ago

@akunknown

I believe some doubt is normal at times, but I agree with you on being 100 % sure about our values! 

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