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Do you occasionally pause during moments of uncertainty or doubt to reaffirm your values?

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User Profile: Zeraphim
Zeraphim Friday

No, but perhaps I ought to.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP Friday

@Zeraphim

Reaffirming our values can help with reducing stress and feel more confident inside.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 Saturday

@amiablePeace77 I do, but only when it's to late and I've locked myself in a room crying under my blanket. Then I think about it🙂 you know I cried for 14 hours once.. I must of set a record there😂😂

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User Profile: resilience2025
resilience2025 Saturday

You have an amazing sense of humour!! I feel so uplifted reading your responses everytime!

Thank you Whisper! 💗💗🥺

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@resilience2025 awwww thanks sweetie ❤❤hugs you tightly ❤

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🫂🫂🥺🥺

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User Profile: resilience2025
resilience2025 Saturday

Well, I guess my record is a bit less than 10 but close to yours 😂😂

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@resilience2025 😂😂😂 we both deserve an award I think😂😂😂😂


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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings Sunday

@Tinywhisper11 you have a lot of losses in your life. Hugs.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 3 days ago

@soulsings ❤ hugggs ❤

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Yes, it's actually impossible to not have self doubt. I do pause by taking a break. It helps me relax and think clearly.

@amiablePeace77 yes! it helps to think things through by looking at the bigger picture, especially when in doubt :)

User Profile: CharisB21
CharisB21 Saturday

@amiablePeace77

Yess

@amiablePeace77

Do you occasionally pause during moments of uncertainty or doubt to reaffirm your values?

Yes when I am uncertain of something I think before doing or speaking 



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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP 2 days ago

@pamharley003

Responding mindfully instead of reacting instantly can prevent much trouble! 🌟 

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@amiablePeace77 I do all the time, definitely. It worries me that this is strange about me, but sometimes when doing so I get very confused about what my values are. Sometimes they’re very different than the people around me. I don’t know if my values are right, because they seem to frustrate people who I think are good. So sometimes I don’t live the way I agree with just so I won’t feel lonely. But inevitably my values creep back into conversation and cause problems. I feel better when my conscience is clear. I just have to be ok with not having those people in my life so much.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP 2 days ago

@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas

Stepping back from your values for the sake of company can lead to feelings of self-doubt and more. Sometimes we just need to look out for people who share the same values as we do. 

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@amiablePeace77 I am learning that for sure. I wish I had understood this truth earlier in life and saved myself a lot of heartache. The right people really are worth waiting for.

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings 1 day ago

@amiablePeace77  Do you occasionally pause during moments of uncertainty or doubt to reaffirm your values?

I am pausing more these days and letting the confusion in my ind settle and reveal a subtle clarity that is what I value above all.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP 23 hours ago

@soulsings

Good that you take that time to clear your mind!

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User Profile: Gettingbettertoday
Gettingbettertoday 24 hours ago

@amiablePeace77

I have yet to determine my values. 

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP 23 hours ago

@Gettingbettertoday

Here are some questions I find helpful to establish one's values:

  • What are you passionate about?
  • What do you want to contribute to the world?
  • What are you grateful for?


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