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how long have you been self harm free? (possible trigger warning: SH)

User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle April 29th, 2015

I've seen this sort of thing on a couple of other sites.

It's to put your accomplishments, relapses or anything you want it to be

you could post every day if you need to or once a month, no accomplishments too small.

and if you relapse, you are strong. and you can do this.

I will try get back to as many people as I can and if you need message me on here.

if this doesn't work oh well, but id like to see it work.

Hope you are liking all the cute cat pictures! [v] here is your next clue, where can you introduce yourself if you're new to the subcommunity this month?

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User Profile: martaweirdo
martaweirdo September 8th, 2016

2 hours

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User Profile: RaCat
RaCat September 9th, 2016

@martaweirdo even the smallest step matters, you are strong for taking 2 hours free and I am sure you could take even more, just do it step by step and always remember it's ok to relapse as long as you are picking yourself up and doing progress!

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User Profile: martaweirdo
martaweirdo September 12th, 2016

@RaCat you're so nice, thanks <3

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User Profile: loyalThinker302
loyalThinker302 September 9th, 2016

I've been clean since July 27th. That's the longest it's been in a while smiley

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User Profile: RaCat
RaCat September 9th, 2016

@loyalThinker302 I am so happy to hear this, it's a long time for you being self harm free! And I believe in you, you can always do even better so keep fighting :)

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User Profile: ConsiderateFarm
ConsiderateFarm September 10th, 2016

I've only been a few hours free. But before that, it was 4 months free

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User Profile: RaCat
RaCat September 10th, 2016

@ConsiderateFarm it's ok to relase sometimes, it's a part of recovery so don't blame yoursel as long as you are getting up and picking yourself up :) I am sure you get go even more than 4 months now!

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User Profile: pilotmia21
pilotmia21 September 11th, 2016

It's been minutes since I last cut. The blood didn't flow enough for me. I am disappointed that I cant even cut enough to drip blood.

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User Profile: RaCat
RaCat September 12th, 2016

@pilotmia21 I am sorry to hear that you are feeling in this way but in the same time i happy that you didnt cut deep enough, I know seeing yourself bleeding makes you relax but it doesn't solve your problems. Could you try to reach one of our listeners another time when you would be about to cut?

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User Profile: alexaners7734
alexaners7734 September 11th, 2016

11months 9days.

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User Profile: enchantingvision94
enchantingvision94 September 17th, 2016

@alexaners7734

That's awesome Alex! good job!

Keep it up!

We are here to help you, so you can connect with us anytime you want to.

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User Profile: azuremagpie4024
azuremagpie4024 September 12th, 2016

...a day? I think? not proud of how I've done this summer haha

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User Profile: RaCat
RaCat September 12th, 2016

@azuremagpie4024 it's ok to relapse mu dear, always remember that it's ok as long as you picking yourself up and trying to stay clean again. Wanting to be self harm free is a huge step and I am glad you took it. And rememeber if you feel like you want to cut you can always came and talk with our listeners or use any other distraction.

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User Profile: alexaners7734
alexaners7734 September 12th, 2016

11months 10days

User Profile: alexaners7734
alexaners7734 September 14th, 2016

11 months 12 days

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User Profile: desertSunrise88
desertSunrise88 September 15th, 2016

@alexaners7734 Be proud of your accomplishment. You are awesome!

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User Profile: alexaners7734
alexaners7734 September 15th, 2016

@desertSunrise88 thnx! :D

the past month has been more of a struggle than the 8months right bfore it.....

so, yeah im glad ive made it. :)

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User Profile: desertSunrise88
desertSunrise88 September 15th, 2016

@alexaners7734 Each day is a victory. Remember that fear of failure or shame will only work against you. Each time you choose yourself over your guilt the stronger you become.

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User Profile: alexaners7734
alexaners7734 September 15th, 2016

11months 12days.

User Profile: BerryHugs
BerryHugs September 15th, 2016

2 days 😳

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User Profile: desertSunrise88
desertSunrise88 September 17th, 2016

@BerryHugs Thanks for sharing. Keep it up. We are here if you ever need to chat! :)

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