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It can be scary to confront people because....

Laura July 19th, 2018

It can be scary to confront people because....

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Weebits July 20th, 2018

They can hurt u..

Bomoko July 20th, 2018

They can hurt you

LadyInSilence July 20th, 2018

The fear of them hurting me

of me hurting them

of regretting words that can makes us apart

of loosing them to death and not having the chance to apologize

Guilt

Megmandalorian July 20th, 2018

They might believe I

Megmandalorian July 20th, 2018

They don

laurendivide July 20th, 2018

I'm always worried about what people will think if I do that. I never say what I want to. I don't know how to say no, or stop, so I just let people treat me as they want to, because I don't want them to dislike or judge me. I'm so done with that...

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Jonsi July 20th, 2018

@laurendivide I hear you. Time to heal from codepence and love ourselves in a healthy way.

calmPomegranate2721 July 20th, 2018

@laurendivide me too!

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Romanticism July 20th, 2018

We forget they

viola05 July 20th, 2018

Because we don't know how the other person will react to our confrontation and yes of course the fear of loosing the person is the foremost thing which stops people to confront.

Nabee1988 July 20th, 2018

Fear of being judged

turquoiseCurrent2508 July 20th, 2018

I agree with the people saying that it's easier to confront strangers.

The thing is I don't confront strangers that easy because I don't care about them. They don't know me and I can't please 7 billion people.

I sometimes confront family and friends. The consequences can be terrible because sometimes I end up losing them (they abandon me and run away). That's the unpleasant and scary part. Especially because I don't have many friends and losing one of them after telling him that he should care more about his wife and not a female collegue is what brought me here. LOL