It can be scary to confront people because....
It's not scary. I refuse to give energy to certain situations. People sometimes do things just to see if you will confront them. No time for it. They just want a reaction, everyone doesn't deserve a reaction. In fact, ppl who want a reaction usually get snipped. ✂✂✂ Cut off. If I feel so inclined, I will confront. If not, you either get snipped or it's noted and stored in the mental database.
It is scary ro confront people because of the hostility it can create. There are people that see confrontations as a way to escalate and become violent.
I've confronted my mom before and she said I shouldn't get help because it will look bad
I can't read people well. I feel like anything negative will cause people to hate me. I let a lot of things slide and agree to things I don't like because I'd rather be unhappy than make someone else unhappy.
Im a coward
I fear when people misjudge me. Seems that happens often. I am always worried to control myself, my words, but all this control makes me feel nervous and anxious. I feel that I cannot be myself. I feel la ke hiding.
The more you care about the person the scarier it is. I get scared I will push them away so I just put up with whatever it is that made me want to confront them in the first place. I can confront strangers no problem.
@ComposedLemon48 My words, exactly!
@gentleDreamer12 nice to know someone else feels the same. Does it mean that loved ones that confront us don
@ComposedLemon48 I feel the people who do confront us still fear of losing us, but they overcome their fear knowing that truth and honesty is appreciated and also it is the base/pillar of a strong relationship.
About two years ago, I faced a situation with a guy. I trusted him and talked to him about my then-boyfriend. He went and blabbered to his friends all about it. I was devastated when I found out from a third person. I was so angry I stopped talking to him. But, it was eating me up. Finally, I mustered all my courage and confronted him. He sincerely apologised. I needed some time to forgive him. Eventually, I did. And, I never shared the same bond with him again.
Fear of an argument.
the mere thought of angering them scares me enough :(
You might loose thr ones you love 