It can be scary to confront people because....
Truth or lies, excuses or reasons, it's always going to hurt.
very true@plumField5702
Because all I hear is words, words, words, followed by actions that never back up those words, and people are stupid.
@Magrathea95 Yes, this goes under my list of things I wish I had been told when I was a child. "Pay attention to what people do more than what they say". Choose people who do what they say they are going to do OR who's actions mirror their words.
Ultimately people are just looking out for themselves only - humans are just animals and very few rise above animal instincts.
Christianity is about rising above those animal instincts, but unfortunately these teachings are being rejected these days. With things like the law of attraction, people are being told it's ok to be completely self centered.
Because we know all the worst things about ourselves and don
i might say somthing wrong or we might have different opinions or they might not like me or maybe they would judge me and so much more its really scary to confront ppl idk in person
@otto123 also i think that ppl dont really care about me all i am to them is some other idiot so i guess i dont see why its worth it to talk to someone u dk
@Laura I'm a too honest realistic person. unfortunately it is misunderstood most of the time.
Their emotional reaction can vary and being someone living with PTSD I don
Because there are multiple variables of life where each of them adds complexity of its own on confronting people. It can be fear of getting judged or any truth that people don't want to hear and the list goes on and on. But each of them can be conquered using right approach. So my friend. identify the variable and it's requisite approach, then it's all a matter of courage. So, happy confronting then :) .
I expect them to be hostile with me. I try to say what I think they want to hear.
I become afraid of confronting people because most of the time it causes arguments with hurtful words and sometimes actions. My anxiety and bad self-talk also kick in which is why I try to stay quiet most of the time or approach situations carefully. Be safe everyone! <3
It is scary for me to confront people because I'm scared of being embarrassed and being made fun of.
