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What do you wish your partner could understand about you when fights occur between the two of you?

imontheoutside January 15th, 2017

As a couple, there will be days where you two will be getting along and days where you just don't get each other.

What do you wish your partner could understand better about you when such days come by?

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ASilentObserver May 30th, 2019

This is really an interesting discussion and I would love to invite some of my amazing community members to share their thoughts on it.

I wish she understood I did not argue because I cared for her emotions rather than I have nothing to say.

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Rebekahwriter13 June 2nd, 2019

What do you wish your partner could understand about you when fights occur between the two of you? Do not tell to calm down

What do you wish your partner could understand better about you when such days come by? I have mood swings from my health issues, sometimes you just need to ride the coaster. . . when I snap 9 times out of 10 it's not you.

easyWater4109 June 14th, 2019

I wish my partner would understand Im uncomfortable talking loudly in public. Im a private person and low key is my style. Thats never going to change about me. Its annoying to still have to explain that at this point.

Rebekahwriter13 June 14th, 2019

What do you wish your partner could understand about you when fights occur between the two of you?

I am usually fighting with myself first and probably 8 out 10 times my partner is simply getting in the middle of my own fight in my head between emotions.
It's also best to let me walk out of the door to cool off before both shout and say things we will regret,

DO NOT CORNER ME: I will push, punch, kick or anything to get out of the corner.

What do you wish your partner could understand better about you when such days come by?

Be patient, sometimes I am right and someone time you're right. I will try my best not to push it in if you don't. We need to talk and listen to each other.

The worst part of this. . . I know all of this now, but I am single.