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imontheoutside
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Number of ratings41 Number of reviews11 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceDec 18, 2016 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 361 People helped57 Chats166 Group support chats19 Listener group chats20 Forum posts82 Forum upvotes101
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Hello there! I'm Outside! I have been verified by the verified listeners team. I hope to be able to be a great listener for you all who need someone to talk to out there. Please feel free to message me in times of trouble and maybe in times of happiness too! I currently only take up chats regarding relationship stress, breakups and loneliness.

When am I available to talk to? From May to August, anytime from 8am to 8pm (DST)

I love the rain, the clouds, and the wind. I read books, write songs, eat a lot of food, actively listen, and like to study! If I'm not doing 1-1 sessions, I'll be popping in the support rooms to see how each member is doing. I do not have much close friends and often keep to myself so I do get lonely and know what loneliness is like. I believe in love and in hope.

Some lovely quotes that I love are: 

"Be who you are, not who the world wants you to be."

"Beauty begins when you decide to be yourself." - Coco Chanel

"When you are sad, you are not really sad. You are merely oblivious to the good things in your life. There is always a crack of light in the darkness. Find it." - Dianna Argon

I hope to hear from you soon, member/guest/listener! :) Thank you for stopping by!

Recent forum posts
Budding Relationships
Relationship Stress / by imontheoutside
Last post
 February 25th, 2017
...See more Budding relationships. When we're still at the start, we may be nervous to approach the person we like and the one who like us back. We'll also be nervous to be ourselves around that person even if it feels right to be ourselves. However, I hope each and every one of you remembers that you are loved. Perhaps the budding relationship we have is not just with another person but also ourselves. Here's a question for this thread: When and how did you get yourself comfortable enough to be yourself in a relationship? To you who is reading this, you are awesome! <3
How do you approach someone new?
Relationship Stress / by imontheoutside
Last post
 February 27th, 2017
...See more Hi, my fellow Relationship Support community members! In this thread, I'd like to ask you something. What do you usually do to approach someone you want to get to know better? Does it ever work out?
Feeling Insecure in a Relationship
Relationship Stress / by imontheoutside
Last post
 January 31st, 2017
...See more Sometimes, in our relationship, we may see ourselves as not being good enough for our partner. What advice would you give to someone who is insecure about themselves while they are in a relationship?
What do you wish your partner could understand about you when fights occur between the two of you?
Relationship Stress / by imontheoutside
Last post
 June 14th, 2019
...See more As a couple, there will be days where you two will be getting along and days where you just don't get each other. What do you wish your partner could understand better about you when such days come by?
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Very inspirational honestly xx
I was understood easily and received positive feedback. I enjoyed talking with this person because I felt like I was talking to a close friend. Great job, I'd defined come back for a second chat.
Good questioner
When I was really depressed Imontheoutide really knew how to help me she asked me questions about my relationship and how it was giving me stress and how I can talk to my gf and talk to her on how I feel she was very helpful and I recommend her to others that need help
This person is awesome mate!
This listener is the most genuine person I have talked to on here.
The best listener. Really caring and helpful. I felt like I was talking to my psychologist :)
This was delightful chat, and it felt good to get it all out
Really caring :)
the best ever
They helped me a lot. By writing all that I said made it easier to see that they were getting it.
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