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New to the Relationship Stress Community? Introduce yourself here!! ❤️

ASilentObserver August 1st, 2018

Greetings from the Relationship Stress Community!!

Are you new to the Relationship Stress Community? Tell us some things about yourself and get to know others that joined the community this month!
Question prompts:

What brings you to the Relationship Stress community?

What is one thing you love most about yourself (or, perhaps, your loved ones)?


Benefits of being a member of the Relationship Stress Community:

Give and receive support from others who are in relationships.

Share your relationship journey (memories, struggles, challenges) in relevant topics comfortably.

Participate in community activities and events (eg. Check-ins, Icebreakers, Forum Discussions)

Plus, members who participate regularly could become part of the Relationship Stress team, as well!


Here are some quick links for you to check out:

our taglist! Join in to get updates on discussions and events.

check out this post for updates on weekly discussions!

check out our newest check-in here!

check this post with more information on how to navigate the community.

If you have any question, do not hesitate to contact KatePersephone (teens and adults) or reply on this thread!


Do not be a lurker! Join us and introduce yourself here!!


tagging our newest subcribers: @determinedHuman6138 @delicateVision3519 @helpfulJar5066 @Volkswagen97 @Sleepingsnail427022 @jessihazel @andrewtan99 @tidyLand6622 @indigoChestnut8502 @sloven86 @Letstalk7 @limegreenPenguin1163 @ShamrockViking @creativeFig154 @warmheartedPenguin281 @KevinRodriguez @NiceThinker @neatmarii4ta @turquoisePond5890 @proactiveDrum6829

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Are you new to the Relationship Stress community? Introduce yourself here!

Do you want to be the first to get updates on discussions and events? Consider joining the taglist!

Do you want to be updated on the weekly discussions in the Relationship Support Room? Subscribe to this thread!

Do you want to help out in the Relationship Stress Community? Consider becoming a forum supporter or a room supporter!


Edited by KatePersephone on 11.11.24

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HerculesMadison August 28th, 2018

Hello, I'm new to this community, and not even two weeks in as a listener here. I'm very excited to be part of this community. I actually teach a class in Interpersonal Communication, and we largely focus on relationships and communication within those relationships, so I'm very excited to bring some of that knowledge here, as well as to learn from others - I find that every day I grow through learning, and I'm excited to be around so many people that truly care about others and want to help support them in their own growth. Thank you for welcoming me! :)

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AveryLove September 3rd, 2018

@HerculesMadison thats amazing!! welcome in our community, were so glad to have you with usheart

September 24th, 2018

@HerculesMadison

Welcome to our community, we're glad to have you here and we're sure you'd be awesome! ❤

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OperaDiva September 24th, 2018

Hello, I'm new here. I've just regained enough confidence to start dabbeling my toes back into the dateing world but this time round I have the added challenge of anxiety and lack of trust in men. Any tips of how to proceed would be greatly appreciated

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ASilentObserver OP September 27th, 2018

@OperaDiva Welcome Opera, glad to see you here. <3 Thank you for joining us.

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politeLake7105 September 25th, 2018

Hello,

New to this and new to opening up about my personal issues. Looking for advice and inspiration from others stories. Hope to be able to support anyone if needed. Have a wonderful day.

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ASilentObserver OP September 27th, 2018

@politeLake7105 awesome lake. Welcome aboard. We are glad to see you joined us. <3

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ASilentObserver OP September 27th, 2018

Hello, hello, hello

@HydrangeaField @crimsonalice97 @Jill7cups @warmheartedEyes7468 @resourcefulPond1641 @optimisticTurtle10 @diligentCat2623 @HearTheRhythm @MonahSil @LostAndBroken29 @SakuraRain9395 @GyanHalcyon26 @bethDM @pinkMoon660 @lovemusicpoetry023 @emotionalGrapefruit712 @sensibleSpruce3858 @kindTurtle1458 @Sadhappygirl95 @04GabrielleChar20

Welcome to Relationship and Friendship space.

What is the relationship or friendship to you?

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HydrangeaField September 27th, 2018

@ASilentObserver Hello. Thank you for welcoming me. I hope that I can learn more things about relationships here, as well as improve my own, and hopefully help someone else with their problems someday. Right now, I'm a little confused and sad about some of mine, but I'm hoping that will improve someday.

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resourcefulPond1641 September 28th, 2018

@ASilentObserver I'm trying to get better at making and maintaining friendships, which hasn't always been easy for me.

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ASilentObserver OP October 1st, 2018

@resourcefulPond1641 I understand Pond. It is not easy. I appreciate you trying best to do it. We are here to support you.

hugs

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September 28th, 2018

Hi, I am new here, and not to write a novel, but this is what I am dealing with. For background information, I have anxiety, depression, ocd, and ptsd. The ptsd stems from being raped. I have just gotten out of an emotionally and physically abusive relationship and feel as if I have had no closure. I am 21 and I was dating a 39 year old psychologist. He was previously married and has a kid. What I didn't know is that he had another girlfriend, which I found out when she called me in the middle of the night off of his phone. The girlfriend informed me that the guy I was seeing is a sociopath and has aspd. I felt so stupid that I didn't see the signs, they were all there, from him acting carelessly and trying to get me pregnant just a few weeks into the relationship to being dependent on alcohol and extremely charming and deceiving. Over the course of two months, he manipulated me and tried to get me in a vulnerable position that would make me decide between him and a baby with him and my family. I thought I would be safe and taken care of dating a psychologist. He drunk called me last night, saying that I was stupid and betrayed him and asked why I would ever talk to the girl on the phone without talking to him. He says that she is a psychopath and just friends and then goes on to contradict himself by saying that he had slept with her with a condom on and then goes on to get mad saying why should I presume that he was sleeping with her. He then blocked my number and I have absolutely no closure and no answers. Is he the sociopath or is she the psychopath? I feel hate towards myself because I told myself that I would never let anyone take advantage of me physically or otherwise. And he took advantage of me physically and emotionally.

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September 28th, 2018

@brookie345 Also wondering if anyone has had similar situations, would love the support and would love to support them

ASilentObserver OP October 1st, 2018

@brookie345 oh no, I am sorry to hear about it Brookie. I understand how difficult it is. It is difficult to say who is right or wrong. Feeling betrayed hurt. Take your time to get over this. And take care of yourself. You are the priority for yourself over others.

We all are with you here to support. Feel free and comfortable to connect with us. Hugs <3

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anniezhe September 29th, 2018

@ASilentObserver Hey there! Thank you for the message.

anniezhe September 29th, 2018

@ASilentObserver Hey guys! My name is Annie. Nice to meet you.

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ASilentObserver OP October 1st, 2018

@anniezhe Hey Annie, Glad to meet you. Hugs.

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spacedoutskid03 September 29th, 2018

Hi, I'm new to 7 Cups of Tea. i joined bc I get really stressed and panic more than I'd like. So far just coming on here and doing the little growth path exercises has helped a lot. I have problems with acting on my feelings, which is why I joined this community. I love music and my friends, and am happy to be here.

~Sofia

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ASilentObserver OP October 1st, 2018

@spacedoutskid03 I appreciate your efforts Sofia. I am glad you joined us. We all are with you here to support. Sending hugs

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JazzyQueen September 30th, 2018

There

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ASilentObserver OP October 1st, 2018

@TigerStripesx It is difficult to assume Tiger. Probably you both need to communicate to have a clear view on this. You may take your time to see how it goes.

Welcome aboard. We are glad to see you here. Hugs.

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MizzD320 October 1st, 2018

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ASilentObserver OP October 1st, 2018

@MizzD320 I am sorry to hear about it Miss. I understand how difficult it is for you to get over this. I appreciate you both communicated to fix this. Probably we can give a try and give our best efforts.

We all are with you here to support. hugs

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