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Number of ratings146 Number of reviews58 Listens toTeens & Over 18 LanguagesEnglish, German Listener sinceMay 31, 2017 Last activein last 6 months GenderFemale PathStep 634 People helped224 Chats385 Group support chats184 Listener group chats441 Forum posts3,370 Forum upvotes7,516
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Hello! I am Avery, It is very nice to meet you 🌞


I am a young woman in her 20s, a girlfriend, friend, student, and daughter who wants to spread some love and compassion. Looking back at my teenage years, I often find myself wishing to have had a support system around me. And I want to be that support system for you - to be the person who makes you feel heard without judgment. To help you feel less alone. To help you take on whatever it is that is weighing you down. 


Personally, I have the most first-hand experience with a range of issues such as LGBTQ+ related struggles (I myself am in a queer relationship), loneliness, family stress, relationship stress, toxic relationships, self-destructive behavior, burnouts, overcoming sexual trauma, self-esteem, girl's issues, .... but you can come to me with anything that is on your mind and I will try my best to assist you. I want to make the world, even if only a little, a more gentle place for you. 


A little bit about me: I am in my second year of studying Political Science. In my free time I like to do yoga, and I love to read. People always say if I was a fruit, I'd be a fig. I am good at making iced matchas. My current music obsession is Chappell Roan! Love the coziness of the colder months but am a summer girl at heart. 

 


Recent forum posts
P&G Check-In 11th July - 17th July
Positivity & Gratitude / by AveryLove
Last post
 July 16th, 2022
...See more Hi dear community <3 I hope you are all doing well and that you had a few good moments in July so far. For this week's check-in .... - Describe how you are feeling using three words - What is your favourite comfort movie / book / show? - One thing I am looking forward to in July ... @4GetMeNottt @AbHinc @Actuallynobody017 @AddictedTealover98 @aditighosh02 @alphav7 @AmethystAngel @Antthony101 @ArtemisGrey @avahenrie123 @AveryLove @awesomeMoment4384 @black1995 @blissedNblessed @BlueRiver5968 @Bluesky1964 @BlueSkyes1125 @Bnaner55 @Booklover95 @breeuniqemsns @brendenjensen @brilliantMoment97 @brutalBiscuit @bubbleBalsam6602 @Bubbles2025 @BwahahaLove @calmsoulmeet @calmWillow5266 @caringCreature8571 @caringHope1976 @catlover456 @centremid @Christiinee @ColorfulKiwi436 @comfortingRose21 @CompassionateDave @CompassionCake @considerateParadise6717 @cosmicats @courteousWater2527 @decisiveOcean892 @DeeGold @diamondintheROUGH2022 @diligentChestnut509 @easyRaspberries164 @EmbStitcher33 @endyb156 @exquisitePeace7976 @exuberantMaple397 @fearlessFriend6573 @Fearlesslake610 @ferventflame @fluffyunicorns84 @frostyOcean72 @futuredavidblue98 @fy64 @genie20 @GhostLily @glisteningeyes @GloriaD @GoldenRuleJG @Gozzil @GustyOne4U @happyface1014 @HappyTree906 @healinghearts0718 @HealingSinthia @healingWhisper @herealways27 @higherselfhealing999 @Hope3729 @Hpoole @immaddie @incredibleWatermelon1029 @intellectualDrum3128 @ItsReganingRain @IvyL @JayTheBird14 @Jennifer164 @JetBlu2507 @JoyfulUnicorn @JustOneMoreEpisode @K87 @KACOSMIC @Kassy7cups @Katiets @kindKitten1457 @KoiFish @korange @Ktlev07 @Lavenderaesthetic081401 @Lexloveslife @lightingsun12345 @LightofWorld @LilyLe @lilypilli @lindseynlola @littleSky9143 @Ljubicica5 @Lolowise475 @LovetoGod @lunaa1990 @mellietronx @melliotm @MiCha1005 @MissPen @MissSkeleton @moonrust @MrJacob @mxmes @nadiasaleh26 @neatBalloon7178 @Nerdtastic @neverendingMermaid74 @niceDaisy36 @nickname55304 @nordurnStar @oliqia @optimisticRaspberries5247 @orangeyouglad68 @Orthrus @Paprika001 @parisliangbts @Peaceintruth @peppermintlove @Pidge2 @princesstears @PumpkabooKayla @PurpleSnail @purpleWheel873 @Ramiluz1 @Redmark @Redmitray19 @reliablebutoftenforgotten @resourcefulPond1641 @river @SadHippo208 @sail46 @sarang26 @SavoyTruffle20 @SeekingOkay @selena555 @selflessSpruce1515 @serenitysearch @ShyCat1678201 @SilverSeastar @sincerePenny4591 @Skyy0 @SofiaStardust @Softhearted975 @Solitary3102 @Stardew3 @Storyhymns1234 @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @sunshinegiraffe123 @supportiveApple61 @SweetDreamer69 @sweetlife101 @Swiftygirl13 @tealCurrent9178 @TheAutumnWitch @Themorningowl @tillyszarawarski02 @TNTDynamite @Totheskyandbeyond @Tye00 @VerseArt @Violiness @warmheartedBlackberry592 @WarmLightXO @WelcomeToChat @WhiteAlbatros @WhiteDolphin27 @WowThatsABigHug @Zeraphim @zulegirl @zunygne0505
Positive reminders of the day :)
Positivity & Gratitude / by AveryLove
Last post
 August 13th, 2022
...See more hi lovely community! there are a few reminders i wanted to share with you today. which one resonates with you specifically? tag someone who could use a positive reminder and share the love 😊
P&G Check-In 18th June - 30th June
Positivity & Gratitude / by AveryLove
Last post
 June 20th, 2022
...See more hey dear community!! i hope you are all doing well. welcome to this week's check-in :) how are you doing? what is something that recently went well, as small as it might be? Bonus question - if you could be any animal, what would you be? would love to see your answers.
What does questioning feel like to you?
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by AveryLove
Last post
 June 20th, 2022
...See more Hello dear LGBTQ+ subcommunity and happy pride month <3 This post is part of the pride month event, you can see the masterpost here (click me) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/LGBTQMOGIISupport_58/LGBTQMOGIICommunitySpecialandGlobalEvents_1333/LGBTQMOGIIPrideMonth2022EventsMasterpost_278846/] Today’s topic - questioning. Questioning our identity or sexuality is a totally natural part and experience in our life. It can be challenging to discover where we fit exactly in, if there is even a term for that. However, questioning or being unsure of what you are feeling does not make your experience or what you feel any less valid. And it is okay to not really know how to describe what you are feeling right now. But it doesn't make it any less real. On that note - how does questioning feel like to you? Let’s open up a safe space in this thread for you to talk about your experience. @KateDoskocilova
Create your own mantra
Positivity & Gratitude / by AveryLove
Last post
 June 23rd, 2022
...See more hi lovely community! mantras can be an amazing way to start off the day on a right note or end it with a positive mindset. I myself really love to work with mantras. so as an exercise, I would love for you to create your own mantra. This could be an evening or morning mantra. It could be something you need to hear, something you want to remind yourself of or some belief you would like to change that you have about yourself. Some examples: I am worthy of compassion. I am super smart. I am doing the best I can. What is your new mantra? Feel free to share, would love to hear it 😊
P&G Check-In 16th May - 22nd May
Positivity & Gratitude / by AveryLove
Last post
 December 16th, 2022
...See more hello lovely P&G community <3 i hope you are all doing well, it is lovely to see you in our check-in today. We have officially reached the middle of the month! I feel like the first 6 months of the year always go by so incredibly fast :O How is the month of May treating you so far? What is something you are grateful for today, in this very moment? Fun question: - if you could be any animal, what would you be? Tagging the P&G community - @4GetMeNottt @AbHinc @Actuallynobody017 @AddictedTealover98 @aditighosh02 @alphav7 @AmethystAngel @Antthony101 @ArtemisGrey @avahenrie123 @AveryLove @awesomeMoment4384 @black1995 @blissedNblessed @BlueRiver5968 @Bluesky1964 @BlueSkyes1125 @Bnaner55 @Booklover95 @breeuniqemsns @brendenjensen @brilliantMoment97 @brutalBiscuit @bubbleBalsam6602 @Bubbles2025 @BwahahaLove @calmsoulmeet @calmWillow5266 @caringCreature8571 @caringHope1976 @catlover456 @centremid @CheeryMango @Christiinee @ColorfulKiwi436 @comfortingRose21 @CompassionateDave @CompassionCake @considerateParadise6717 @cosmicats @courteousWater2527 @decisiveOcean892 @DeeGold @diamondintheROUGH2022 @diligentChestnut509 @easyRaspberries164 @EmbStitcher33 @endyb156 @exquisitePeace7976 @exuberantMaple397 @fearlessFriend6573 @Fearlesslake610 @ferventflame @fluffyunicorns84 @frostyOcean72 @futuredavidblue98 @fy64 @genie20 @GhostLily @glisteningeyes @GloriaD @GoldenRuleJG @Gozzil @GustyOne4U @happyface1014 @HappyTree906 @healinghearts0718 @HealingSinthia @healingWhisper @herealways27 @higherselfhealing999 @Hope3729 @Hpoole @immaddie @incredibleWatermelon1029 @intellectualDrum3128 @ItsReganingRain @IvyL @JayTheBird14 @Jennifer164 @JetBlu2507 @JoyfulUnicorn @JustOneMoreEpisode @K87 @KACOSMIC @Kassy7cups @Katiets @kindKitten1457 @KoiFish @korange @Ktlev07 @Lavenderaesthetic081401 @Lexloveslife @lightingsun12345 @LightofWorld @LilyLe @lilypilli @lindseynlola @littleSky9143 @Lolowise475 @LovetoGod @lunaa1990 @mellietronx @melliotm @MiCha1005 @MissPen @MissSkeleton @moonrust @MrJacob @mxmes @nadiasaleh26 @neatBalloon7178 @Nerdtastic @neverendingMermaid74 @niceDaisy36 @nickname55304 @nordurnStar @oliqia @optimisticRaspberries5247 @orangeyouglad68 @Orthrus @Paprika001 @parisliangbts @Peaceintruth @peppermintlove @Pidge2 @princesstears @PumpkabooKayla @PurpleSnail @purpleWheel873 @Ramiluz1 @Redmark @Redmitray19 @reliablebutoftenforgotten @resourcefulPond1641 @river @SadHippo208 @sail46 @sarang26 @SavoyTruffle20 @SeekingOkay @selena555 @selflessSpruce1515 @serenitysearch @ShyCat1678201 @SilverSeastar @sincerePenny4591 @Skyy0 @SofiaStardust @Softhearted975 @Solitary3102 @Stardew3 @Storyhymns1234 @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @sunshinegiraffe123 @supportiveApple61 @SweetDreamer69 @sweetlife101 @TheAutumnWitch @Themorningowl @tillyszarawarski02 @TNTDynamite @Totheskyandbeyond @Tye00 @VerseArt @Violiness @warmheartedBlackberry592 @WarmLightXO @WelcomeToChat @WhiteAlbatros @WhiteDolphin27 @WowThatsABigHug @Zeraphim @zulegirl @zunygne0505
Self-Love: What is one non-physical & physical thing you like about yourself?
Positivity & Gratitude / by AveryLove
Last post
 August 15th, 2022
...See more hello dear P&G community! I am back with my self love exercises for you. Today I would really like to discuss two things you like or even love about yourself, one thing being non-physical and one being physical, as we want to increase our self love for our inner self as well as appearance. Both play an important role in our well-being. So ... What is one non-physical & physical thing you like about yourself? I will start as an example - I love my blue/grey-ish eyes because they look like the ocean. I also love how i can see the beauty in my surroundings. @4GetMeNottt @AbHinc @Actuallynobody017 @AddictedTealover98 @aditighosh02 @alphav7 @AmethystAngel @Antthony101 @ArtemisGrey @avahenrie123 @AveryLove @awesomeMoment4384 @black1995 @blissedNblessed @BlueRiver5968 @Bluesky1964 @BlueSkyes1125 @Bnaner55 @Booklover95 @breeuniqemsns @brendenjensen @brilliantMoment97 @brutalBiscuit @bubbleBalsam6602 @Bubbles2025 @BwahahaLove @calmsoulmeet @calmWillow5266 @caringCreature8571 @caringHope1976 @catlover456 @centremid @CheeryMango @Christiinee @ColorfulKiwi436 @comfortingRose21 @CompassionateDave @CompassionCake @considerateParadise6717 @cosmicats @courteousWater2527 @decisiveOcean892 @DeeGold @diamondintheROUGH2022 @diligentChestnut509 @easyRaspberries164 @EmbStitcher33 @endyb156 @exquisitePeace7976 @exuberantMaple397 @fearlessFriend6573 @Fearlesslake610 @ferventflame @fluffyunicorns84 @frostyOcean72 @futuredavidblue98 @fy64 @genie20 @GhostLily @glisteningeyes @GloriaD @GoldenRuleJG @Gozzil @GustyOne4U @happyface1014 @HappyTree906 @healinghearts0718 @HealingSinthia @healingWhisper @herealways27 @higherselfhealing999 @Hope3729 @Hpoole @immaddie @incredibleWatermelon1029 @intellectualDrum3128 @ItsReganingRain @IvyL @JayTheBird14 @Jennifer164 @JetBlu2507 @JoyfulUnicorn @JustOneMoreEpisode @K87 @KACOSMIC @Kassy7cups @Katiets @kindKitten1457 @KoiFish @korange @Ktlev07 @Lavenderaesthetic081401 @Lexloveslife @lightingsun12345 @LightofWorld @LilyLe @lilypilli @lindseynlola @littleSky9143 @Lolowise475 @LovetoGod @lunaa1990 @mellietronx @melliotm @MiCha1005 @MissPen @MissSkeleton @moonrust @MrJacob @mxmes @nadiasaleh26 @neatBalloon7178 @Nerdtastic @neverendingMermaid74 @niceDaisy36 @nickname55304 @nordurnStar @oliqia @optimisticRaspberries5247 @orangeyouglad68 @Orthrus @Paprika001 @parisliangbts @Peaceintruth @peppermintlove @Pidge2 @princesstears @PumpkabooKayla @PurpleSnail @purpleWheel873 @Ramiluz1 @Redmark @Redmitray19 @reliablebutoftenforgotten @resourcefulPond1641 @river @SadHippo208 @sail46 @sarang26 @SavoyTruffle20 @SeekingOkay @selena555 @selflessSpruce1515 @serenitysearch @ShyCat1678201 @SilverSeastar @sincerePenny4591 @Skyy0 @SofiaStardust @Softhearted975 @Solitary3102 @Stardew3 @Storyhymns1234 @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @sunshinegiraffe123 @supportiveApple61 @SweetDreamer69 @sweetlife101 @TheAutumnWitch @Themorningowl @tillyszarawarski02 @TNTDynamite @Totheskyandbeyond @Tye00 @VerseArt @Violiness @warmheartedBlackberry592 @WarmLightXO @WelcomeToChat @WhiteAlbatros @WhiteDolphin27 @WowThatsABigHug @Zeraphim @zulegirl @zunygne0505
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Feedback & Reviews
I reached out to Avery when most of the people gave me the traditional dialogue of "forget and move on". But Avery acknowledged where I was coming from ,made me feel heard and provided me a mature insight. I truly appreciate her for being empathetic,kind and willing enough to listen to people. Thank you Avery!
Good at explaning and providing information
You're an amazing friend, Avery. I cannot appreciate you enough. It meant a lot to me that you listened to me. You're very empathetic, kind, sweet and so good at reflection! I really love your support through everything. Thanks for making it a little softer here for me. I loaf you!
They were super helpful and nice
She was very understanding and replied quick
thank you so much for listening to me
Hope3729 is good, it makes you feel that it can really help you. Kudos to this listener!
Very professional and I like that. Really helping me
it helped a lot
Really nice person! Listens well and empathizes with you! :)
so kind! really makes you feel like she cares and is willing to try and understand.
Awesome!
Honestly she gives better advice than anyone on 7cups. Practical, down to earth, realistic, mature. I feel motivated and ready to first take on my issues, then the world!
I really liked how she literally let me do the talking and I was desperate for someone to listen n she did!so thumbs up for that!☺ thank u so much
Felt good
she is kind and understanding, and creates a no judgement space -- she also goes out of her way to find materials to support you.
This person is so sweet and good hearted. They're willing to listen and help and they offer positivity when things seem bad. Thanks so much for your help!
I loved this conversation,helped me a lot. Thank you very much.
She I said very good! I would highly recommend using her.
very friendly
Really appreciated this chat, made me think a lot clearer.
Nice
Very good
❤️❤️thank you
Very kind and was really good at talking me through the situation.
awesome!!!
Fast at responding, always in the one chat and willing to listen all the way through
Great to talk with. Compassionate.
Your support is kind and pleasant :)
Very caring and understanding
Really helpful at giving advice and listens to you with great empathy THANK YOU Hope!
What a great listener and non-judgemental just like it says!
A wonderful listener! Incredibly helpful and understanding. They are very friendly and welcoming, it was very easy to open up and to talk about things. I highly recommend sending them a message if you need someone to chat with!
Super helpful! Really boosted my mood and gave me hope!
Thanks!I felt much better! :)
You were great! I feel better now.Thanks!
:)
They were good
I think this person is quite understanding and they get me quite well. It's worth talking to them!
Great.
There's nothing you could have done better. The calming exercise....really helped me. It really did. Thank you.
Really good
Really good
Hello! your a great listener considering your only on step 46! You are great at active listening and keeping our chats as positive as possible and as a listener I am glad to see another listener take 7 cups seriously! Great listener! Great job!
Was really sweet, thanks for all your help!
what a lovely person, after a long time she made me feel better again
Very kind person
Best listener I've ever met! Thanks for everything!
lovely person, good listener and makes good suggestions to overcome the problem
Perfect
great
It's good
Lovely .. She is a motivation
good
she is nice and positive
I really connected with her! It was such a great conversation, and I really felt like she understood what I was saying. 10/1o! Definitely give her a shot :)
She's really understanding and non-judgemental.
Very understanding
Lovely girl :)
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