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Eva’s Crazy Mind

justmeeva January 21st

i’ve wanted to make a forum post like that for quite a while now, but never brought myself to actually make it. here i will write up all sorts of thoughts and vents, everything i need to get off my mind. it’s not gonna be positive or motivational, not even close. i personally don’t recommend reading it just because it doesn’t help lol. you’re welcome to read, replies are okay, just be aware that it’s gonna be a pretty dark place. i don’t usually ask for help despite telling everybody to. idk why. i’m not a very good example of what’s right to do. TW just in case, not planning to go that far but who knows. 

i’m making myself this space because sometimes you can feel lonely while being surrounded by a million people and that’s nobody’s fault.

best wishes to you. ❤️

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justmeeva OP February 5th

is happiness even a thing anymore? for me? don’t think so. 

justmeeva OP February 5th

one way i express myself? scenarios. monologues. dialogues. stories. here’s one.  don’t question it. it’s night.


if i were to walk on a street, and a man were to walk by, take my bag and run with it, i would probably just stand there. i would probably stare at him as he runs further away from me. he would stop a good distance away to take a look at his stolen treasure. he’d still be close enough to hear me. as he’d open the bag, i’d yell: “have fun studying”. there’s nothing more than some notebooks, books, school stuff in there. i’d look at him searching my bag, his face showing more and more disappointment as he searches and doesn’t find anything valuable. “want my phone as well? and my watch? i wouldn’t mind,” i’d say. he’d come back, my bag in his hands. he’d look at me. this wasn’t planned like that at all. “why isn’t the girl scared? running? doing anything?” he’d think to himself. he’d walk closer to me. i wouldn’t move. “why aren’t you doing anything?” he’d finally ask me. “i don’t care,” i’d respond. “i don’t have anything to lose anymore. take whatever you need,”  i’d say to him. “there’s no money in my wallet, nobody to talk to on my phone, studying i don’t care about.” i’d say. he’d give me back my bag. i’d be a little surprised but wouldn’t show it. after a short pause, he’d ask me the words i feared. the words i hadn’t heard in a long time. “are you okay?” is what he’d ask. i’d freeze. i’d try to come up with a response. would i lie? tell the truth? respond at all? a moment later the man would hug me. i’d not feel threatened or uncomfortable at all. it felt genuine, it felt meaningful, it felt good. so long ago it was when i last got a hug from anyone. turns out he’d not be a bad man at all. turns out he’d not even mean harm. turns out it was just a stupid game, a joke, an entertainment. weird, but i wouldn’t even question it. “you’ll be okay. also, i’m sorry” the man would say. he’d almost leave, but then he asked the last question: “why aren’t you scared?”. i’d respond: “i don’t care.”. after a moment, i’d say: “i knew you weren’t a bad person. i knew.”. he’d think about it for a moment and leave. i’d stand there for a good couple of minutes, trying to process everything. the world had become a tiny bit better. for a moment at least.


but, i guess i can’t really call it ‘expressing myself’ since nobody knows. and uh.. forget you ever read that. 

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unassumingEyes February 6th

@justmeeva eva buddy? Me writes stuffs like this when feeling low. Yours was beautiful. Dont feel ashamed over it, or anything. Its a thing you do, and if youre comfy doing it, then i see nothing wrong with it.

Such scenarios come from the heart...and there is nothing to be ashamed of in your heart

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justmeeva OP February 6th

@unassumingEyes

i guess you’re right. 

*hugs eyes frend if oke*

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unassumingEyes February 6th

@justmeeva *hugs* cups didnt show me ur reply earlier :0

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justmeeva OP February 6th

people are really disappointing at times. 

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justmeeva OP February 6th
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thanks for asking. 
our class was being a bit loud at the start of the lesson and the teacher got mad. she told us how she was having a *** day because her cat had died in the morning, how she didn’t want to be in school, she would much rather be at home and grieve.  the class went quiet for a moment. then, they started talking again. whispering, more quiet, but talking. it made me so mad that nobody seemed to care. what’s worse is that they talked about it. how it was funny. i don’t understand how people manage to be that coldhearted. i felt so bad for the teacher. why can’t people understand? why can’t people emphasise? at least respect the teacher? not that they normally do. they’re so judgemental. rude. disrespectful. stupid. i wish i would’ve done something. at least said something to the teacher. anything. but i didn’t. since the teacher isn’t liked by our class for some absurd reasons, they would’ve thought i’m weird for caring about her. it’s so wrong. so *** wrong. i hate people sometimes.
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LoveMyMoonflowers February 6th

@justmeeva

*sits with eva if okie* <3 

i get that tbh. ): i wish people tried to understand and tried to care a little too. but many people... just don't. they're insensitive and rude ): and it's horrible. ☹ *hugs if okay* your different though lovely. me grateful that evabuddybeanie is here 💙 we need people who care, who seek to understand, who have empathy and who are concerned about others. 💜 me appreciate you evabuddy. for being exactly you 💙

i'm so sorry your classmates are like that though ): it must have been so horrible having to hear their mean whispers and laughs like that. ☹ it must have been tough and hurtful for the teacher too. ): 

justmeeva OP February 7th
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the teacher started today’s lesson by talking about grief. she showed us the stages of grief, talked about herself, she even teared up for a moment. it was so sad and i felt so bad for her. me being me i was holding back tears too. she told us about how she used to be depressed to the point she didn’t want to live anymore. it was so emotional. for me at least. others did listen but i don’t think they completely understood. she’s a good person. good people should be kept and taken care of. what’s wrong with people? why do they make fun of others just for fun? why don’t they understand? why don’t they even try? i hate society. some people are good, but we’re losing them. we lose good people every day. that’s not fair. i hate society. 
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LoveMyMoonflowers February 7th

@justmeeva

oof. i agree with you completely tbh. :') *hugs if okay*

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justmeeva OP February 7th

@LoveMyMoonflowers

*hugss*

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justmeeva OP February 6th

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LoveMyMoonflowers February 6th

@justmeeva

is eva friend okie…? i’m sorry… was it because of the big reply me wrote in your space ): me didn’t mean to invade eva friend’s space or be mean 😞 i’m sorry 

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justmeeva OP February 6th

@LoveMyMoonflowers

nonono you didn’t do anything lovely. me promise. i appreciates that very much 🩷. nothing related to cups. 

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LoveMyMoonflowers February 6th

@justmeeva

awwe okay 💜 did something happen to upset eva friend irl? ☹️ (if okie to ask) 

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unassumingEyes February 6th

@justmeeva @LoveMyMoonflowers *hugs for both of you if oki*

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justmeeva OP February 6th

@unassumingEyes

*hugs eyes friend* 🩷

justmeeva OP February 6th

@unassumingEyes

ima be back later, sorry. take care my frend 🫂💕

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unassumingEyes February 6th

@justmeeva no worries, tc eva <33

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LoveMyMoonflowers February 6th

@unassumingEyes @justmeeva

*huggle wuggles for both* 💕

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justmeeva OP February 6th

i don’t want to forget you. you taught me so much. you changed me and my life so much. you showed me what happiness was. i guess i just have to pay for it now. with happiness. 

justmeeva OP February 6th

i just don’t understand.. why?

justmeeva OP February 7th

people i’ve scared away today count:

1.. 2.. 3.. 4.. i think that would be 5..? oh and 6. great job eva, turns out you do have some talent! or, you’re just that unliked. 

justmeeva OP February 7th

yes, it’s officially the time i’m taking stupid things to heart and being dumb. 

justmeeva OP February 7th

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my little brother goes to 2nd grade. he’s so young. recently he’s been having problems with bullying. he would refuse to leave his room, a few days spent not going to school at all, a few days of being late a noticiable amount of time. it has been going on a few weeks. tonight i had the chance to talk to him. we talked a good 30 minutes at least. at first, he was all fun and distracted, but as time went by, he got more serious. he understood everything i said. from what he told me, he hadn’t done anything wrong. no talking back, no hitting or fighting back. he told me he would just walk away from the situation. i find it a good solution. he told me that the 3 boys that have been bullying him don’t just target him. they’ve done it to some other classmates and 1st graders too. turns out they’ve always been up to something, just that recently it started to bother my brother, it had become a bit more serious. this all is a backstory. 

to me it’s so sad that a young boy like him, said to me that he hates his life. i didn’t even think about hating my life until like a year ago. he’s too young for this yet. and he hates school. again. too young. i’m honestly scared for his future, because it will not get easier. life’s gonna be life and bring challenges. i don’t want him to become depressed. i don’t want him to become like that. he’s too young. and for this moment, my parents are having a problem with their child not wanting to school because some other parents don’t know how to raise their *** children. is it really that hard to be a parent? well, maybe. fine. i’ll believe that. but, it can’t be that hard either. if you can’t take care of a kid don’t *** get a kid. we don’t need more trouble making people to the world. raise your *** children. listen. talk. teach. learn. you call yourself a parent, live up to that *** title then. 

justmeeva OP February 8th

tired. again.