nahoa negative affirmations
am tired pretending matter
know do not matter know never will
am tired be hurt all time
What point be hurt when everything they say about me true
not everyone in world important
nahoa proof that some just stupid useless trash
Is time give up trying be someone that matter
is time just accept I deserve all bad stuff
deserve abuse
deserve trauma
deserve pain
deserve be hated
deserve all struggles
deserve all bad stuff happen
deserve be lonely
deserve be sad
deserve be alone
deserve all names get call
deserve be bully by anyone
deserve have no one care
hurt lot more keep trying matter and always be told it don’t matter then just accept how suppose be
can’t hurt when know just how is not going change
will remind self over over over over until stop ever thing maybe matter
disgusting stupid useless trash don’t matter and that means Nahoa don’t matter
Why im here don’t *** belong here
stupid useless piece crap
hate me so much
no one care what go on
just matter say stuff wrong because English stupid language
more things people say to me about me
- would you rather us like say yes moana it sucks and you cant do anything with life because of it?
- if you can’t handle feedback don’t say anything in the first place
- its fine i just mute moana
- I waant being mean moana, just honest is all
- Pls make *** sense
- It's not out fault we try to be nice and you are rude to us. So yeah you are kind of jerk Noha.
- You can't snap on people for making honest mistakes and expect them to still be nice to you sorry not sorry.
- Moana, use your big boy words.
- Do you always speak like this, Moana?
- Please can you A. use proper English that I can understand and B. take this convo to the SR
@theboymoana Hey Nahoa, don’t let these jerks get you upset. There are lots of people here who love you!
@PineTreeTree
You only speak differently because you're following the grammar rules of sign language... Haters not tolerated here. We love you and we're so glad you're here! Please report those people to the mods. They need to know about it so they can block those people.
@theboymoana keep trying moana ❤ we are here for you ❤ hugs you tightly ❤ when do age up and come to the oldies side?? We'll look after you here ❤
@heather225 and @Sunisshiningandsoareyou, can you please connect with Nahoa and get these cruel forum members blocked? Or get the powers-that-be involved, so they can put a stop to this? Nahoa doesn't deserve this kind of treatment. Thank you! <3
@jesusredeemedme2425 ❤️
@jesusredeemedme2425 It happens way too much
@mytwistedsoul
Cruelty has no place here.
@jesusredeemedme2425
On it.❤ ( @tommy @cheerymango )
Thank you Sun <3
@theboymoana Hey surfer dude 🤙
Ah man sometimes people just really the worst. This is a place for everyone and everyone should be treated with kindness. You do matter. You definitely don't deserve all the bag things that have come to you
I know words like this hurt. Especially when you're already hurting. I'd say to just ignore it but I know that's hard to do too
I think you're pretty awesome ya know? You've been through alot and you're still a sweet and nice guy and it's not right how their treating you and talking to you
Agreed. People are cruel. Remember your worth and don’t listen to them <3
is part 6 ? Maybe 5 ? Not know really don’t matter just More things people say to me here
all this lists copy paste from screenshots
try get help so much
what people say ? Nahoa misunderstand Nahoa take wrong way Nahoa need move on Nahoa drama Nahoa always problem Mean person say sorry so Nahoa need accept that get over it
why allow people say this why it do not matter
all this just what got new phone August 2023 to now
this happening since join cups February 2022
why instead tell people need stop always Nahoa problem because get upset disrupt chatroom is only couple mods say direct to person that say thing and don’t just tell move on ignore what say
- Why there's something up with him no? I have a theory or two. Moana, do you have any conditions we should know about?
- I think I'm having a stroke
- Person 1 Moana you had bad grammar so l meant like "when I read this I get a stroke" Person 2 lol same not to be rude
- You wanted the truth so don't blame me now
- Quit your whining.
- I'm not trying to be rude, but l get it. Everyone's sad lately. Can we all just shut up for one freaking second?
- Loser.
- moana if u wanna survive then u have to grow up a lil bit and don't be so sensitive when people talk abt stuff u dont like
- all hail oppressor Moana! That's sarcasm, if you couldn't tell.
- if you dont like it you can leave moana
These people are so evil. :( I’m so sorry… We’ll get the mods involved. This can’t be tolerated…
@jesusredeemedme2425
always I get blamed 😭
It’s not your fault. Bullying is NEVER your fault, and neither is abuse.
@jesusredeemedme2425
think because im horrible worse kid whole world is why not welcome anywhere anyone allow hurt me because not matter and mods tell am wrong when say no one care but just because someone say they care if let there friends be mean me not say anything or help and defend people that mean then don’t care and mean sometimes to is just lie
I'm glad you're taking screenshots. It's good to have proof. The thing I noticed is that they say you need to grow up but they're the ones that are acting the way they are. Where's the compassion and understanding? This has gone on for way too long. I'm so sorry
@mytwistedsoul
they don’t care because most the people mean is ones been here know am deaf and intellectual disability and autism and more diagnosis but don’t care because before try explain things about disability and people not care say excuse or lot time say they disabled can talk right or whatever is be mean about and if Nahoa say disabilities not same they say stop compare and act like struggle more them
nothing do or say right just turn my words in something bad don’t listen anything say and try say really what mean still turn around and even some mods do this and make so sad😭😭😭😭
Some people with autism are non-verbal. Some people with autism can talk but struggle with social situations. Some people with autism can pass easily as neurotypical. (I have autism too.) We’re all different and they have no place to judge.
@jesusredeemedme2425
yes and always people say that me is same ones go normal school some already got job some already drive some date people go place there friends on own and say not same because I go part time developmental disability center not any school never going drive need help all things eat get dressed bath brush teeth everything need someone stay all time help not allow outside own can’t use oral speech and just all not autism only thing is because all my disabilities mix together and don’t mean other people not struggle there disabilities but we not same ! But all attack me say that 😭😭can’t do anything right ever ever ever don’t understand why am so so so so stupid nahoa biggest useless idiot😭😭😭😭
No. You know who the dumb ones are? People who won’t educate themselves on concurrent disabilities, and who bully other people. You have differences and disabilities. Medically acknowledged ones. These people refuse to learn and to accept and to love. THEY are the ignorant and cruel and stupid ones.
@Kristynsmama
@SoulfullyAButterfly
Can you guys please get in touch with Nahoa, or find another mod who can? See above posts. People on 7Cups are bullying him. Thank you! <3
The best thing to do is to take screenshots and report the bullies to community@7cups.com. They can also block the bullies.
@Kristynsmama I can't say with 100% certainty but I think reports were made before and nothing came of it
@mytwistedsoul
yes report so much but still always people mean is not fair why have report report report all time just so can be here not get make fun of and bullied and stuff not fair 😭try 3 years almost be part community and still feel do not belong
I’ve noticed flagging posts doesn’t seem to do anything. Have you PMed any mods about it?
@jesusredeemedme2425
Do report through form when do report and pm mods obs h tons people pm even glen when don’t know else get help email support everything can think do
We’ll do what we can. <3
In the meantime, soooo many people love and support you! Make it your mission to love other people, educate people about bullying, and help people <3 You’re here for a reason… Figure out what that reason is. We love you deeply <3
@jesusredeemedme2425
Know why am only here be hurt be sad my mom don’t want me teachers don’t want me no one want me exist
@theboymoana We want you to exist Nahoa. We're glad you exist. I know it's not the same as hanging out with your peers but you're always welcome to hang out with the oldies
@theboymoana You're right it's not fair and you should be able to be here and join in without being made fun of or b*llied. Three years is a long time to have that here for you and I'm sorry you e had to deal with this. There's a lot of good people standing here with you. Hopefully we can make it better for you
This is supposed to be a community. Well community, one of our young members has been mistreated and b*llied here for 3 years. Reports made and nothing has changed for him. Nothing has been made better at all. This is disappointing. This makes me angry. This shouldn't be this way
I think part of the problem may be that he’s in the teen community. Teens are often very cruel to their peers, and cyber-bullying is even worse because they can be anonymous. I wish Nahoa were old enough to be on the adult side… They’re more likely to welcome him with open arms <3
@jesusredeemedme2425 Definitely. You are right though about how vicious they can be especially since it anonymous
am not tired pretending matter
Don't know do not matter don't know never will
am not tired be hurt all time
What isn't point be hurt when everything they say about me true
not everyone in world not important
nahoa not proof that some just stupid useless trash
Is not time give up trying be someone that matter
is not time just accept I deserve all bad stuff
Don't deserve abuse
Don't deserve trauma
Don't deserve pain
Don't deserve be hated
Don't deserve all struggles
Don't deserve all bad stuff happen
Don't deserve be lonely
Don't deserve be sad
Don't deserve be alone
Don't deserve all names get call
Don't deserve be bully by anyone
Don't deserve have no one care
Doesn't hurt lot more keep trying matter and always be told it don’t matter then just accept how suppose be
can’t hurt when know just how is not going change
will remind self over over over over until stop ever thing maybe matter
disgusting stupid useless trash don’t matter and that means Nahoa don’t matter
@communicativePond1728 Ah! Took me a minute Pond, but your challenging the bad, correct?
I think so, but some of it sounds bad, like the last part. I’m confused…
@jesusredeemedme2425 Autocorrect fubar?
Fubar?
@jesusredeemedme2425 Probably best if you Google it 😉
I matter.
I know I matter and I always will.
I am energized from loved all the time.
There's every point to being loved because everything they say about me is true.
Everyone in the world is important.
I am proof that I am just some smart, useful being.
It is always time to be someone that matters.
It is time to just accept I deserve all good stuff.
I deserve respect.
I deserve health.
I deserve pleasure.
I deserve to be loved.
I deserve all understanding.
I deserve all the good stuff to happen to me.
I deserve to belong.
I deserve to be happy.
I deserve togetherness.
I deserve all the compliments I'm given.
I deserve to be safe around everyone.
I deserve to have caring people in my life.
It feels a lot better to keep trying...it matters. And I'll always be told it does matter rather then just have to accept how it's "supposed" to be.
It feels good when I know just how it is going to change.
I will remind myself over and over and over again until everything goes smoothly and matters.
Delicious, smart and useful gems do matter and that means I matter.
*everything they say about me is not true.
(I’m helping lol)
Delicious. Hehe
@communicativePond1728 Perfect! ❤️
how I end up supporting people in sr when feel like am dying inside because so sad and broken and hurting
People don’t ask me how am most time and when do all get is someone reply
felt
or
sry hugs ?
But then give real kind support someone else instead 😭why I don’t deserve to ☹️ even keep my real real serious trauma and struggles out support room just want someone listen when need talk about get so overwhelmed or upset something happen at dd center
Like today get triggered bad at therapy and try 4 times 5 time ? just talk about feelings not what trigger me and no one care no one notice
finally someone do but instead let talk they turn into telling me get new therapist and tell them what topic trigger me and stuff when been see this therapist over year they really nice kind me and just sometimes get triggered at therapy when talk about serious trauma been through 😭😭 just wanted talk about how feeling don’t need people tell how talk own therapist
am tired all this so tired why life so horrible bad stupid 😭😭😭😭just want feel ok never get feel ok with out bad come back few minutes
can’t do it anymore can’t 😭
@theboymoana huggggs you really tightly. It's harder to be kind to ourselves and our own needs. We understand pain, so automatically helping others comes naturally. But you do need to think about yourself first. You do matter, and you are loved here by so many ❤ this is your safe place, you can talk here. I understand you, I care about you, we all do ❤❤
@Tinywhisper11
just hate me so much ☹️😭try be happy because know all want me happy but can’t just end up spend half day my world away from all bad but they make me come back where hurts and don’t want to😭😭 do know maladaptive daydreaming ? Is not like normal daydream that is ok is like spend hours daydream whole world better then real world want stay there all day whole life but is bad because won’t even remember need drink or go places need to or use bathroom or anything just in world is why is bad but just hate this world hate they make me come back real world where am sad all time
@theboymoana
We're listening here... Maybe take a break from the teen chatrooms for awhile? I think it's because they're so young... Talk to the adults instead <3
@jesusredeemedme2425
Am young to but they don’t want me there ☹️Wish im older go adult side 😭 i go back only chats for games and things just for distract not go support room not try get support or hope anyone care better this way is what do for while use only talk important stuff my best best friend here but he disappear now I got no one 😭😭😭he always tell me don’t bother with them others because don’t get it most them don’t go through anything like what me and him been through and he right so idk why still try
have worse day
final get cast off yesterday means get surf finally
surfing only time feel ok
instead surf have bad seizures all night
feel so sick and hurting and tired
am so upset want vent about horrible brain
brain that make so upset
brain that give me seizures every day
instead get vent get tell how make life better
by someone got no idea Nahoa deal with every day
don’t need someone tell me life only bad because me
they not deal all i deal with every day my life
and try best think will be ok try best not cry
all time because so sad all time
but day like this feel an dying have so much seizures
and pain and can’t handle it can’t see anything good
and instead let vent then will feel better
get more upset because person not listen telling them
try explain but them not listen
say im upset because can’t do anything
means what ? Cant surf can’t go outside cant eat milkshake which normal all eat cant even sit up because body no energy
they say can do some things and tell them what can do ? i lay
couch all day because hurt so bad feel so sick
they say you talking on cups
like talk on cups make every thing else go away ??
if could get rid epilepsy by never come
cups again would do so fast
epilepsy worse thing world to me
all my struggles whole life epilepsy what get rid first
struggle so much just get tell my life bad only because
Nahoa say it am and Nahoa don’t say will have good long life
then get tell need be grateful someone give support me
tell me wrong say they not listen
get tell people try support me all time
but where see ? Is 3 people actual kind all time to me
other people not at all
or just give advice act like know Nahoa life better
get tell if don’t like cups why don’t go
dont have be here
there is few people mostly stay for and other
part me stay because got no one talk to
not even mean talk support stuff just don’t
got anyone talk to and sometimes so lonely hurts
and make so sad that instead cups be more kind
everyone just say why Nahoa don’t leave
@theboymoana I’m sorry that people aren’t listening to you. It must be so hard to deal with seizures. I hope you are able to get out and surf soon and that the waves are good.
@theboymoana I think you have every right to be upset right now. I think anyone in your position would be upset too. And you have every right to vent. It's better to vent than to hold everything inside
Part 7 ? part 6 ? Who cares not like matter not like anyone that able do anything help
nahoa not important allow hurt me No One care and no one going change anything
people don’t care they make impossible me be part conversations they ask what can do but don’t like answer do nothing
instead make things better people just say why don’t leave cups
why don’t cups be inclusive like say because NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT
NOT INCLUSIVE
always want disabled people change stuff make easier to them
oh you deaf ? Learn oral speech easier for hearing people oh you autistic ? Go therapy 5 days week can learn be more normal oh you got epilepsy ? Can try not have seizure here make me uncomfortable oh you got intellectual disability and brain injury ? Can you figure out how understand conversations with out ever ask questions
am tired try so hard and not enough and won’t help me out to make possible
get it ok nahoa not important nahoa not matter nahoa not wanted
don’t worry nahoa understand that
- I didn't ask you
- are u dumb or something?
- I'm not rude just an opinion bruh
- Dude I had a literal stroke reading your sentence
- I'd be really upset if I was blind or deaf.
- sorry youre just not the clearest with words sometimes, ik its not your fault but yeah
- moana what are you on about?
- might be him and his imagination
- omg moana 💀💀💀💀💀
- bro i am not th stupid u dumb
@theboymoana
bro.. these people don't deserve the attention that is being given to them. your NOT the problem. When people have nothing kind to say, they just end up saying crap that doesn't even make sense. It frustrates me that they would say something like that to you. I've spoken to you and talked to you before in rooms and you are so kind, caring and welcoming. I don't know why anyone would say that to you :( bless you friend. *sends big hugs if okay*
@theboymoana
there is nothing to understand in all the words they are saying lovely, its just all a bunch of ridiculous insecurities and problems they let out on you. Like someone once said.... "sticks and stones can break my bones. but words can never hurt me". Its NOT true. Words hurt. They cut deeper and deeper. Its okay to feel hurt and feel upset. Those are valid emotions. <3 none of this is your fault!
