Ni's Little Solace

@LoveMyMoonflowers I realized a few years ago that it's very easy for things to be misunderstood when communication is strictly text based. I've also learned that some people will find fault with everything you say. Can what happened be smoothed over in anyway? If it involves other people are they open to discussing it with you? 

What about a small break from here? 

In my world fine usually means anything but fine. ;) 

@mytwistedsoul

I’m not sure. There’s one thing I’ve noticed that I don’t think I misunderstood. I could have - maybe - but it’s most likely what I thought is true. 💜 It’s that… thing… I read. That I mentioned in this forum (': 

Tbh we can talk about it but whenever I see the people involved the conversations are just awkward. I feel like I can’t talk to them anymore, I don’t want to be annoying or upset them more than I already did. 

I might take a break (': from rooms… I’m not sure. 💙

Fine never means fine tbh… your right (': when we say fine we usually mean the acronym version of fine. 🥲

How are things in your world friend? 💜

@LoveMyMoonflowers It might help to give them some space and then try to talk with them again in a few days. Or if you can find a way to talk without having everyone else involved. Which you could try in the forums, just put a line at the top that it's just for you and the other person. Most people will respect that and those that don't you can have their comments removed. Just some suggestions of course.

@mytwistedsoul

thank you soul buddy. 💙 sending hugs your way if okie.

Ah there’s that word again (': fine. 💜 sometimes i wish more people IRL knew the true meaning of fine. it’s the same thing with ‘nothing.’ ‘Nothing’ hardly ever means nothing.

i’m sorry. grief is tough and i get that. 😞 *offers more hugs* here if you need to talk more, but no pressure ofc. 💙 

@LoveMyMoonflowers You're very welcome. Thank you for the hugs. I know that many times things are easier said than done and a lot depends on the other person being receptive to what we're saying. I hope things work out between you and this other person. 

@mytwistedsoul

Thank you (': I hope things work out too. 💙

The role reversal thing is common, I’m sure - on the teenie side. But when these listeners became more passive aggressive and demanding (': I haven’t experienced that with anyone tbh. 💜

become* not became oof 

@LoveMyMoonflowers

Nii 🌙🥧🥺🫂  thank *you* for being here with rainbow bear.. Nii stay 🌙🥧🥺🫂 *squeezie*

@LoveMyMoonflowers

*hugs tighttt* surviving and trying is great, Niibuddy, you're doing vv amazing.💛

I've been better hehe, trying also. *keeps hugging* I love youu!💛

@sunisshiningandsoareyou

*hugglesss backkkk tight* 💜 i get that. life is hard, but me proud of you for trying. me proud of us for trying together. 💙 i love you more. 💜 

maybe talking to someone about it/writing in a journal would help? 🥺 please be kind to yourself too. 💙 ik it can be hard especially when everything’s just… meh (': but we need to try. 💜 

@LoveMyMoonflowers

aww you're too sweeeeeet, Niibuddy, thank youuuuu so much, this means a lot to me. *keeps hugging tighttt* 😭 yes hehe trying is brave and we got thisss, together.💪💛 

(If me account poofs for some time, please don't worry okie, I'll be back always xD) (haven't decided yet, but might put account on breaksiees for a little while~ thinking🥲) 

@sunisshiningandsoareyou

awwe hehe ty for letting me know, that’s okie. 💙 it’s good if we take self-care breaks. <3 just promise you’ll absolutely take care of yourself okie? 🥺 

That bear is so cute. lol. 

@LoveMyMoonflowers

Yes yes hehe, wouldn't want anyone to worry about me unnecessarily. (': 

Aww why you so cutuu. 😭 I take my promises vv seriously. To be honest, currently not in the bestest headspace to take care of myself so wouldn't wanna promise something I cannot honor truthfully 🤧 but but I promise to try my best, that's for sure, always and you can always trust Sunniebean for trying hehe. 💖 

Bless your loving, caring, big heart, Niibuddy. 🥺💖 

Yes lol, the bear is vv cutu and so is this penguin haha, made me smile so much, you always do. 🥰 Please continue to try your best and be gentle with yourself also, okieee. 🥺💖

@sunisshiningandsoareyou

we’re humans and we’re not perfect. trying is good, sunnie bean. 💙 and yes i definitely trust you with trying your vvv best. 🥺 me will try too. 💜 

@LoveMyMoonflowers yes hehe, you da bestest!💛💛💛 

@LoveMyMoonflowers aw it is kinda late, mhm? (': hope the sleepy beams work super fast on you hehe. (I know I am totally annoying with this but I am lol and cannot help it, I want you to get some good rest soonsieees😭) 

How was your day, Niibuddy? Any plans for tomorrow?🤗

We nommed cake today hehe,  chocolate truffle flavor. Would you like some? *shares with youuu and the lovely people peeking at this conversation* xD 🎂

@sunisshiningandsoareyou

annoying? You? Never! 💜 it means a lot that you care sun buddy. <3 you not annoying. hehe. you sleeping soon? 😅

thank you for the food :o *noms* my day was eh… lots of jet lag… (': and me is sick. 💙 and yeah. tomorrow will probably consist of sleeping and trying to relax and idk… 💜 how about you? 🥺 did sunnie bean have an okiee/good day? 💕

@LoveMyMoonflowers

Nii 🌙🥧🦁☺ is alive & awesome & Nii will be kind to yourself 🤗

Rainbow bear is okie (but feel kind of itchy because of allergy hehe)

@victorialove7

glad your okie (': but allergies are the worst. me sorry. 😞 did you eat something? 💜

@LoveMyMoonflowers

Thank you, Nii 🌙🥧🦁☺

It is some vitamin that me took, I think that contains some organic stuff ☺

@victorialove7

Awe no ): sending hugs if okay. 💙