Yays & Nays challenge
Made by a member
Im proud of myself because...
Im kind to people and always try to help out
I try the best i can
I may always listen and care about what people say about me, but soon after i become happy and take on that response
Im learning to...
Not twist words
Be myself more
Be happier
Task: make a thread/comment below 3 good things about you (yays) and 3 things about yourself you can improve on (nays). Mabey tag others for them to try it out too. I hope that some listeners look at this post. Do the yay & nay challenge! Get started!
Yays
I'm comfortable as Emily
I have great friends
I'm proud of my work on my screenplay
Nays
I'm not in the right body to be Emily
I'm an emotional wreck
I want to die.
@Lilithwolf26 What a awesome post !!! - maybe this could be expanded to the feed to?
Yays
I love Crafts
Caring for people especially love working with children
Learning new things
Nays: (I need to work on)
Being mindful of now and not worrying about the future
Making time for working on web design skills
No is a very powerful word
Tagging some people that maybe interested:
@Laura @Iara @MissZ @Jaceofspades @Dillion @Liz @24crimsonslivers @cyanPlatypus6370 @Charli @FaithG @politeCup86
@fluffyUnicorns84 thanks a lot for the tag lovely!! 
Yays
I answer my PM's within 24 hours
I love playing with my little doggie!
I love watching Hulu
Nays
I need to work on making things easier around the house
I need to start having a routine more than a as it goes day
I need to work on my typos
Thanks for tagging me @fluffyUnicorns84 <3 I love this!!
Three "yays"!
~ I love music and playing the bassoon! 🎵
~ I care a lot about others even when they don't deserve it. :p
~ I'm proud of myself for all the things I've achieved. :)
Three "nays"!
~ I need to improve being able to say "no" when I need to without being afraid. :)
~ I need to have more faith in myself when I'm doing things. :p
~ I need to learn to revise before exams so I don't get so stressed! XD
Thank you for making this. <3
Three "Yays":
♥ I am a very loving person to every single person I come across, no matter the background or context in which I meet them.
♥ I am rather intelligent and well-versed with words.
♥ I love to laugh, and can laugh at almost anything.
Three "Nays":
♥ I am absolutely a pushover.
♥ I am not confident in who I am, and I am always trying to escape being myself.
♥ My worth feels entirely dedicated to who seems interested in me, both romantically and in a platonic way.
@Anomalia <3 @MonBon @OrunLeon @FlowerinDisguise19 @YouCanHas @Iara
@Cadence Okay, I'll go...
Yays
-I am always me and don't really care what people think about me being me.
-I do not fear. Firsthand, I have experienced dying and I have experienced the suffering and joy of living. Without fear, I am free and not intimidated no matter the size of my troubles. That said, I have generally learned the wisdom and perspective to choose my battles.
-I was able to go from being the sort of patient caregivers avoided to being well-liked by my caregivers because I have learned the importance of unconditional kindness, patience, and humor.
Nays
-I care so little about myself that I do not always remember to eat, sleep, and survive and my stress is always sky-high. I tend to over-commit myself to friends, patients/work, acquaintances, the pursuit of knowledge, and various causes. Spread too thin, I am no good to anyone.
-Cognitive dissonance is my middle name. Despite that I devote my entire life to helping people, even at my own peril, I actually don't like people and refuse to let people get close to me. I have to constantly remind myself why I do what I do and why it is so important for me to care anyway.
-I am so quiet that if people interrupt or speak over me, I simply say nothing. This is both good and bad. It triggers and annoys me greatly when others speak over and interrupt me. When it happens, I tend to become mute. On the plus side, the fewer words I speak, the more people tend to value the words I do say. I suppose as I move up into management roles at work, I will need to get better at dealing with those situations but I am not sure if I can change that about myself, since nonverbal is my default setting.
Yays❣
⌘ I am fostering cute kitties ♥
⌘ I'm super close to achieving my academic and professional goals
⌘ I'm a pro at making rugs and could probably sell them for money tbh
Nays❣
⌘ I still have bad days sometimes
⌘ The cost of achieving my academic and professional goals is my mental health
⌘ My S.O. is moving in two and a half months and it's not really plausible to do long distance
Tagging some Get Support forum teammates:
@ZaraSmiles @Anchoredwithhope @Anggi @wonderfulPumpkin71 @DHawks @Dillion @Harsvin @Chioo @PhilBear @Kash216 @SilentSerenityy @Sydney @Wombofearth @NadineH
Three Yays...
✸ I laugh a lot, for absolutely no reason!
✸ I can play the trumpet, which is always a pretty good conversation starter!
✸ I'm compassionate, which sometimes gets in the way of me doing stuff like homework, but it's okay! I'd rather be compassionate over being a straight A student, anyways!
Three Nays...
✸ I need to get better at making and especially enforcing personal boundaries.
✸ I need to learn how to actually do self-care stuff better.
✸ I need to learn how to be more confident, about pretty much everything.
Tagging: @Iara @MayaRainbow2 @pray4theheartless @amazingrea @Laura @MelAllyouneedislove @RebeccaH @Sarah @Jake & anyone else who wants to do this!
YAY
1. My friend had her baby
2. I get my hair done tomorrow
3. I went to the store without a panic attack
NAY
1. I couldn't go to the birth my friend's baby because of too many people and no gas money
2. On my days off I sleep when I need to do housework
3. Sleeping helps me get away from my problems
This is such a great thread! Thank youuu @MonBon for tagging me (:
My Three Yays
✿ I'm getting better at picking myself back up every time I'm down.
✿ I have two superbly amazing best friends that I'm truly grateful to have in my life.
✿ I'm a listener at 7 Cups!
My Three Nays
✿ I'm so introverted that if you don't know me well you'll think I'm very quiet and shy.
✿ I don't really like to talk about myself because I feel that no one is interested to hear what I have to say anyway.
✿ I procrastinate way too much.
Yays!
I am good at creating a safe space for people to open up and be vulnerable and as a result, many people trust me when they need someone to trust
I am a good problem solver and especially good at figuring out plan E after Plans A, B, C, and D have failed
I am very dedicated to the things that I am passionate about, which allows me to have a great impact on them
Nays!
I make too many decisions based on what others will think, rather than on what I really want
I have a strong fear of failing or disappointing others that sometimes gets in my way from really trying to do something great
I set unrealistically high expectations for myself and then beat myself up over not being able to meet them
Tagging @AffyAvo @Celaeno @PoliteCup86 @TortueDesBois @Monarda @CassCass @BeccaBoo98 @LilyListens @ProfessionalPerspective60 @Sunset7
@Anomalia I had a hard time making mine not look like an identical to yours. hahaha <3
@Anomalia thank you for tagging me! I just posted c:
