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carefulWest6083 September 15th

If you were given a new life, what would you do differently?

Or would you not change a thing?


Please share.

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Nacara September 22nd

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I would have prioritised myself more and demanded better treatment instead of allowing people to control me

Beechie September 22nd

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I would focus on relationships more 

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carefulWest6083 OP September 23rd

I agree. Relationships are important.

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JohananRockmann September 22nd

If given the circumference I am born fortunate, I'll have to develop a skill early on before my eighteens.

JohananRockmann September 22nd

I meant circumstance.

Boon4U September 22nd

@carefulWest6083 instead of studying law I will study marine biology and spend my life researching on whales.

Wpdillon September 22nd

I would not stress the little things. I would focus on making myself happy, and understand the right people will come when it is time. I spent too many years of my life trying to please others. I would try to have more fun.


There are certain events in my life I would not change, because it lead me to meet some amazing people. I have helped others and made a difference, so there are certain parts, especially the difficult parts, that I wouldn't change.

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carefulWest6083 OP September 22nd

This was great to read. I can say I can relate. Thank you for the response.

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quietnomore September 22nd

I would have gone with the person I was in love with, instead of staying with my toxic family.

TipTipTip September 22nd

I dont know.. i asked my self this many time, i know what is the exact moment that i would change in that case, or few other things, but would I? My life could be completly different, at all, and that would be a giant change, like another life in another dimention, today i wouldn't know a lot of people that i know and lot of stories, and places, and experiences... Was all a big trauma, like a rock rolling down a Mountain and causing a fall, and that s*ck.. but would i really change it even if i could? I don't know, happened too much

an0nym0us2 September 23rd

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maybe i wouldn't run my mouth and i wouldn't open up because maybe if i didn't speak i wouldn't have gotten harassed, and forced to move schools.

high school is very fun!

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carefulWest6083 OP September 23rd

I agree with you. Sometimes our tongues brings us a lot of trouble. Silence is sometimes best.

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quietlistener2023 September 23rd

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Yes I think if It had a new life I would spend more time looking after and caring for family...and getting married and having my own family earlier (not happened as yet).  Also I would have tried to learn about life and relationships before beginning things.  I think my life would be more simpler, less trauma and problems and better contentment (I imagine).

I also wish I had not listened to bad advice and would have found someone wise to guide me to do better.

I guess I would have liked to live a more authentic life and more for others and being in service of family and community...even the world.

I guess I would have to deal with issues of fear, anxiety and being able to deal with negative energy and negative people better and not listen to bad advice 

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carefulWest6083 OP September 24th

Note to self:

"A more authentic life".

Beautiful. Thank you.

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