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carefulWest6083 September 15th

If you were given a new life, what would you do differently?

Or would you not change a thing?


Please share.

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Nouga September 21st

It's not like "what we do differently" it's more like what genes/environment that we could have differently, if we ever have the ability to choose..

MysticMya September 21st

@carefulWest6083 I would be conscious of not choosing anything that interrupts my relationship to Spirit. I wouldn't I participate in alcohol, love-less sex, gossip, self-hate, jealousy, self-doubt, fake food, and lies… I would be wise to choose the higher ground instead of indulging in them and overcoming the negative consequences as a means of learning. 

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carefulWest6083 OP September 22nd

"The higher ground". Cheers to that.

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Emaanchudhary0071 September 21st

I will not trust anyone and will not make friends.
OrianaLee September 21st

@carefulWest6083 I would probably change a lot. But I would feel like I owe my old life it’s time and not change a thing
Snowpudding September 22nd

@carefulWest6083 I would’ve done more extra curricular activities like sports, clubs and societies. I would’ve put in the effort and become really good so that I can win tournaments and make my parents and myself proud. I could easily go for a leadership role if I did that. I would’ve taken education more seriously, I would’ve appreciated myself more for all the good things I do and how nice of a person I really am, I would’ve distanced the harmful people in my life sooner and stopped distancing the good people just because I think they deserved better. I would’ve tried to make my relationship with my mom work sooner, I would’ve tried on a lot of things actually now that I’m typing this out. 

But I currently like my life. I’m doing all that I can so my future self won’t have regrets. I am proud of myself for doing all that I’m doing. Im a good person who’s there for everyone as much as I can be, I love my mom now and I’m a hard worker, I study and participated in a dance item this week! Guys it’s never too late. It’s. Never. Too. Late. Sure we all have regrets, I just wrote like a whole list but you know the best part about having regrets? You learn not to make your present and future selves make those same mistakes again. Sure I regret not doing extra stuff sooner but you know what? Me next year isn’t gonna have the same regret. So it’s okay to feel like you’re late or haven’t done enough. Start today. Start now. Do it. You got this! I’m doing it, so can you✨🍀
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carefulWest6083 OP September 22nd

That was truly eye-opening. Thank you.

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cyanPineapple4207 September 22nd

@carefulWest6083 

I would stop hating myself and the humanity.. 

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carefulWest6083 OP September 25th

Sounds reasonable. Self-love is important.

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Mezzardo September 22nd

@carefulWest6083

Well I would avoid the mistakes I made, at least the ones I regret, and try something else! Like stuff I never did
DDPaintsStuff September 22nd

I would scream for help at age 4.
chiranjiv September 22nd

@carefulWest6083 I would try different sports and care a little less about grades as they never improved even after trying every day for 8 hours as I never liked it

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carefulWest6083 OP September 23rd

Trying different sports. I like that.

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thoughtfulFern53 September 22nd

I would start forgiving myself earlier

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carefulWest6083 OP September 22nd

Note to self:

"Start forgiving yourself".

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